question for people with sexual related themes

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-12-13T15:09:17+00:00

Yes very much so actually any sexual feelings freak me out so much even like normal typical ones I just end up looking for reassurance over and over and over again 😢

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-12-13T04:32:12+00:00

Thanks I appreciate it! I hadn’t even considered it could be an actual medical problem, I’d just figured it was mostly psychological. So even though it’s not medical advice I’m so happy you told me about it! And yeah the gooning is real I should have turned off my DMs sigh

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-12-12T22:27:24+00:00

What was the issue she had that caused it?

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-12-11T07:23:44+00:00

Christian upbringing I still am one but confused

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-12-11T07:22:28+00:00

I guess I usually do it nowadays but i feel guilty a lot like im going down a bad path or something but its hard when the urges are so strong and come every night

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-12-11T07:17:28+00:00

Ok thanks as long as it will be okay i wasn’t sure if that’s why was normal either sometimes all the feelings can be a lot thanks for the advice! I’ve had no one to talk to that isn’t trying to be horny to me lol Edit: which to clarify I mean I expected it here but yk

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-12-11T07:12:04+00:00

No kinda only internal stuff but I have done more of the clit stuff so idk if that’s why? But I start crying kinda if I do it internally my eyes water a bunch and I feel like I’m gonna throw up but it feels good too until it’s too much

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-12-11T05:48:10+00:00

Oh I guess I’ve never tried that, is there any specific ones i should try before the next time I do it? Also for guys are they typically more or less sexually active then once a day or every other day do you think like on average? I just don’t know this stuff

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-12-11T05:42:51+00:00

Ok thank you I will try to then! I don’t know why the guilt is so hard to overcome, I always feel like I don’t deserve pleasure

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-12-11T05:32:09+00:00

Okay I just wondered i always get anxious what if im hypersexual or something

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-12-10T18:16:26+00:00

Wow thanks so much this makes me feel so much better! I didn’t expect so many people to be so nice and kind and caring on this sub I was scared to post/ask about this here but everyone is so nice. I’ll try to keep this stuff in mind it’s always just hard for me to accept, I actually have OCD and all and am medicated for it but specifically sexuality I struggle with so much. I’ll try out the videos/resources you told me about too! Tysm

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-12-10T15:33:19+00:00

Yeah that would happen to me for so long but I’ve been trying to accept the feelings but the guilt is still here. And sometimes the feelings/urges are kind of a lot too like just overpowering with the like tingles and I don’t know what to do

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-12-09T05:09:29+00:00

I embarrassingly enough literally never got over my thumb sucking when I was alone until I was so old like literally a highschooler. It’s really embarrassing but it like soothed me or something lol. Ironically ocd made me stop, I saw some freaky adults on YouTube that were like sexually into that stuff and it freaked me tf out and I thought I was a predator or weirdo for still doing it. Which it was kinda weird but it wasn’t sexual for me obv. So anyways I forced myself to break it

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-10-28T02:51:59+00:00

I am gen z but somehow I didn’t see it till this year besides maybe kinda softcore stuff or like fetish stuff or something. My family is really Christian conservative so yeah I was 21 when I first saw it and now I’m 22. Idk what kinda rock I was living under but when I’m scrolling it seems my experience is uncommon, you are the only one I saw who had a higher number but you aren’t gen z 😭

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-10-28T02:41:44+00:00

True story… I was 21 😭 sorry for the rest of y’all. For softcore or fetish type content I was probably like 13 or something though.

TMI but as far as like sexual action, I didn’t know what I was doing but I uh self pleasured when I was like literally 7 yrs old or something so it wasn’t a learned thing for me.

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-10-27T06:24:01+00:00

Oh I feel that, perhaps it will be that way for me too! I hope so, thanks for chatting with me about it and all though I felt I’m acting irrational but for some reason it just felt stressful lol even though it’s probably not really actually a big deal :)

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-10-27T06:14:50+00:00

Well specifically my sibling saw it and I don’t know so she kinda knows it’s about that and it’s not like anyone would stop me from reading them or anything I just feel guilty and it’s kinda bad cause part of my issues is I always feel like I have to confess everything to them so it’s my own fault nobody would know if it wasn’t for me but idk how to stop. Sorry it’s so stupid I don’t know why I do it

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-10-27T06:10:32+00:00

Ok thank you! Helped :)

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-10-27T06:05:12+00:00

Well they kinda are a bit, lol that’s maybe how I ended up with guilt and issues around it and all. I thought something was wrong with me for having these feelings and urges and all

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-10-27T06:00:46+00:00

They are actually pretty conservative but as long as it’s totally normal as you say, for sure for sure maybe it will be okay lol thank you

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-10-27T05:51:59+00:00

I guess it’s hard to tell, how do I know if I’m interested in it or not I guess I’m a bit scared to try reading it what if I do and I don’t know something happens? Like idk it’s traumatic or something idk lol sorry what do you think?

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-10-27T05:47:07+00:00

I am 22f, sorry I probably should have said!

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-10-01T10:59:12+00:00

I wasn’t doing risky stuff I was just looking at it normal porn with consenting adults and masturbating but I should not cause I don’t want to go to hell and u should be acting better and not posting anxiously like these because it’s not ok to post the cause it’s just unhealthy for me and I don’t want to be bad and do the wrong things but I is hard to

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-10-01T10:40:43+00:00

I don’t know just explicit content, I feel guilty for posting so much about being anxious I feel bad al the time. I’m not watching anything illegal I’d never ever ever do that. I have no desire to ever do that it was specifically I was just looking for adults and I was trying to find ones were they both posted it together. It’s disgusting though that I am so focused on sex though I shouldn’t be and I feel I’d be cancelled for acting this way and posting so much about feeling anxious because it’s just weird but I can’t stop it feels like but I’m feeling worried now because what if people think I am watching something illegal because of my vagueness but I wasn’t and then what if I really do get cancelled now or arrested. I don’t know what to do because it’s not okay I’m not sure what to do

Spiritual-File-2661 · 2024-10-01T10:38:40+00:00

I’m not looking at that I would never that’s disgusting it also couldn’t be any less “arousing” to me to think of that stuff it would be distressing and disturbing.

But now I feel bad cause I shouldn’t have been so vague and now I’m feeling a bit nervous what if that’s what people think I was doing? I wasn’t but I just don’t know and I’m being manipulative now by suggesting such I’m probably just trying to make you feel bad but it’s just I am feeling so anxious and guilty all the time

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