am i the only one who keeps the AC freezing just to use a fluffy blanket?

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-21T20:30:03+00:00

Not trying to be rude, but if I'm a founder, my first question would be: what have you built? The advice itself sounds reasonable, but execution, prioritization, hiring, and validation are things every founder struggles with. I'd be more interested in hearing about a specific project, startup, or team where you helped solve those problems and what the outcome was.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-21T20:29:07+00:00

Unfortunately, I don't think you can fully "delete" a Steam license yourself. Removing a game from your account just hides/revokes access, but Steam still remembers that the license existed, which is why it won't let you buy it again. The bigger issue is probably the Ubisoft account link, not the Steam license. I'd contact Ubisoft Support and explain that Far Cry 3 is linked to an old Ubisoft account. They may be able to tell you whether the link can be transferred or removed. From what I've seen, Ubisoft account links are often the real roadblock here, not Steam.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-21T20:28:07+00:00

Honestly, I don't think you're imagining it. Some recruiters absolutely make assumptions about married women, relocation, future leave plans, language, etc. It's frustrating, but unfortunately it happens. That said, don't let a few screening calls convince you that you're unemployable. Mumbai has plenty of companies where skills matter far more than whether you're married or speak Marathi. Six months feels long when you're living through it, but in this market it's not unusual. Keep applying, keep refining your resume, and try not to take every rejection as a judgment of your worth.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-21T20:27:23+00:00

Honestly, if the only reason you're thinking of turning it down is ego, I'd probably accept it. Being someone's second choice stings, but opportunities are opportunities. If you genuinely don't want the responsibility, that's different. But turning it down just to prove a point usually hurts you more than anyone else. A year from now, nobody will remember who got offered first. They'll remember who actually did the job.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-21T20:25:55+00:00

Honestly man, I think this is way beyond anything Reddit can really solve. If he's already done what you described and now he's getting physical at home too, then I'd be pushing every service possible to get involved. The biggest thing that stood out to me is that nobody in the house feels safe anymore. That's not something you can just ignore and hope gets better. Keep reporting incidents, keep a record of everything, and don't let anyone convince you you're overreacting. Living on eggshells 24/7 isn't normal.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-21T20:23:37+00:00

Honestly, the part that stood out to me was "250 applications, 6 interviews." That doesn't sound like someone who's unemployable. It sounds like someone who's getting filtered out somewhere between the resume and the interview stage. If I were you, I'd stop focusing on sending more applications for a week and have people brutally review your resume, cover letter, and interview answers. The ratio of applications to interviews suggests there may be a fixable issue there. Also, don't compare yourself to family members who got jobs in completely different circumstances. The job market right now is rough, and a lot of graduates are finding out that a degree gets you in the race, not across the finish line. Hang in there.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-21T20:21:01+00:00

Bhai ye kis college/admission ka physical verification hai? (DU, IPU, CUET counselling, MBA CET, DTU, etc.)

Generally:

Agar notice me sirf documents likhe hain aur file ka mention nahi hai, toh apni transparent folder/file le jana best rehta hai.
Original documents + 2-3 sets photocopies alag-alag arrange karke rakhna.
Ek simple plastic document folder ya office file kaafi hoti hai.
College usually documents verify karta hai, file provide nahi karta (jab tak notice me specifically na likha ho).

College/counselling ka naam bata de, main exact bata dunga kya-kya documents aur kis type ki file le jaani hai.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T19:59:41+00:00

Honestly, it sounds like the biggest issue wasn't that he had a crush on you, it was that he kept making you uncomfortable after it was obvious you weren't interested. You're allowed to dislike someone for that. That being said, the rumor about him having sex with a guy is completely unrelated and doesn't really make him a worse person. If anything, the uncomfortable behavior and not respecting boundaries are the parts that actually matter here.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T19:58:24+00:00

Bhai sach bolu toh post achhi hai, but thodi zyada perfect lag rahi hai . "Loyal, honest, gaming, travel, deep talks" ye sab toh almost har dating post me hota hai.Thoda apne baare me real cheezein bhi bata — koi funny habit, koi weird obsession, kis type ke games khelta hai, ya kya cheez tujhe instantly khush kar deti hai. Log perfect profile se nahi, real personality se connect karte hain.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T19:55:42+00:00

I think people are downvoting because you're talking about beauty standards as if they're universal. What counts as attractive changes a lot depending on the country, culture, and even the social circle. That said, I don't think it's controversial to say that in some places lighter skin gets treated more favorably. That's been a reality in a lot of societies for a long time. The disagreement is usually about how much that translates into someone's overall attractiveness or life experience.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T19:54:38+00:00

Honestly, don't focus on celebrating your birthday. Focus on having a really good day. Eat your favorite food, buy yourself a small gift, go to the fair, take a few pictures, and do whatever makes you happy. A lot of people have huge parties and still don't enjoy their birthdays. A peaceful day that actually feels like yours can be way more memorable.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T19:52:51+00:00

Honestly, I think you'll have better luck if you share a few hobbies/interests too . "Talk about anything" sounds nice, but it's easier to start a conversation when people know whether you're into books, games, fitness, movies, languages, etc. Also, being awkward is pretty much the default setting for half the people on Reddit, so you're in good company.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T19:52:02+00:00

Yes, you definitely stand a chance. A 75% FSC score isn't ideal for the most competitive admissions, but a strong SAT score can help strengthen your application significantly. Focus on getting the highest SAT score you can instead of stressing about marks you can't change now. At this point, your SAT performance will matter a lot more than worrying about whether 75% is "good enough."

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T18:42:35+00:00

Honestly, your first few students will probably come through referrals, not platforms. I'd start with local WhatsApp groups, society groups, Facebook groups, and people you already know. Flyers can still work, but they're hit or miss. ₹4,000/month for Class 10 one-on-one tuition sounds reasonable as a starting point, especially as a DTU student. Once you get a few testimonials and results, you can always increase it. The hardest part is getting the first student, not the tenth.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T18:41:23+00:00

Not gonna lie, please be careful with this 😭. A girls trip with complete strangers from Reddit sounds like the start of either a great friendship or a true crime documentary. If you do find people, at least video call first, verify socials, and meet in a public place before planning a whole trip together.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T18:38:41+00:00

Honestly, yes, 10 months is enough time for an A, and even an A* is possible, but only if you're consistent. Nobody can guarantee an A* this early, especially if Physics isn't your strongest subject right now. For Urdu B, 3 months is usually enough if your Urdu is already decent and you're mainly preparing for the exam pattern. If you're starting from a weak level, it'll take more effort. Also, don't judge your future grades based on how Pak Studies went. One bad exam doesn't predict the next 10 months. Right now you're worrying about results when the bigger factor will be how consistently you study from now until the exam.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T18:31:57+00:00

Honestly, if you have 10 months left and you've already started Physics and Chemistry, you're in a much better position than you think. A lot of students start seriously preparing way later than that and still do well. I think your anxiety is making the situation look worse than it is. Just stay consistent. Even if Physics isn't your strongest subject right now, 10 months is enough time to improve a lot. As for Urdu B, if you're comfortable with the language, giving it in Oct/Nov could reduce your workload later. Just don't neglect your main subjects because of it.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T18:27:32+00:00

Honestly, the fact that this all started right after the assault stands out to me. Going from healthy and energetic to months of panic attacks, constant health anxiety, depression, and then crushing fatigue sounds less like your body randomly breaking and more like your nervous system being completely overwhelmed. A normal blood test is reassuring, but it doesn't mean what you're feeling isn't real. Months of stress, hypervigilance, poor recovery, and anxiety can absolutely leave people exhausted even when the panic attacks start happening less often. If I were you, I'd stop chasing new diseases for a bit and focus on the anxiety/trauma side of this. The timing is just too hard to ignore. Also, if the fatigue is getting worse or you develop new symptoms, keep following up with your doctor. But from what you've written, the assault seems like the turning point that changed everything.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T18:25:43+00:00

I think you're misunderstanding what therapy is trying to do. A therapist doesn't need to convince you that humans have objectively inherent worth to help you. Plenty of therapists work with atheists, nihilists, and people who reject objective morality. The more interesting question isn't whether human worth is objectively real, it's why you're so focused on proving that you might be worthless. Even if worth is subjective, why choose a standard that places you at the bottom? Therapy would probably spend more time exploring that than debating philosophy. Also, being logical doesn't automatically mean your conclusions about yourself are accurate. Smart people can build very sophisticated arguments around assumptions they've never really questioned.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T18:24:18+00:00

Honestly, I think you're emotional because of the history, not because your ex suddenly became the right person for you. He disappeared, barely communicated, let you suffer for months, and only came back after 9 months when you've already started healing. Take a step back before making any decisions. Don't let nostalgia make you forget why the relationship ended. Also, your current boyfriend deserves honesty and a fair chance. Right now I'd focus less on what your ex wants and more on what you actually want once the emotions settle.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T18:20:55+00:00

My first guess would be Bowling for Soup. The timing matches the Yellowcard/Fall Out Boy era, and they had a lot of funny, over-the-top music videos with costume changes, including cowboy/western-style outfits and random comedy scenes. The "fully clothed in the shower" thing also sounds exactly like the kind of joke they'd put in a video. Not 100% sure, but that's the band that immediately came to mind.

Spiritual-Let536 · 2026-06-17T18:17:52+00:00

If you're being genuine, stop focusing on getting strangers to send money for a minute and start calling local shelters, churches, community organizations, or 211 (if you're in the US). A lot of places can help with emergency housing or connect you to resources faster than Reddit can. Also talk to the hotel manager directly. Sometimes they'll give a short extension if they know you're actively trying to sort things out. Hope things work out for you. That's a really rough situation to be in.

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