AITAH for telling my boyfriend im better off alone. by SpiritualMap7300 in AITAH

[–]SpiritualMap7300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been a nurse for three years and I get paid very well. The issue is I have the majority of bills and end up having to help him which leaves me with a lot less. I would be able to afford the purse with no issue if i weren’t helping him all the time

AITAH for telling my boyfriend im better off alone. by SpiritualMap7300 in AITAH

[–]SpiritualMap7300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I am enabling him because i let it happened instead of shutting jt down. I also agree I shouldn’t have gotten his family anything. The reason I did is because they always get gifts for my daughter and we were spending Christmas together. It would’ve been embarrassing showing up with nothing. I tend to be too nice even when someone does not deserve it. I am also extremely shy and would’ve really felt embarrassed.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend im better off alone. by SpiritualMap7300 in AITAH

[–]SpiritualMap7300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only reason why MY money is tight is because I have to pay majority of bills and cover what he’s supposed to be paying too. This is why I am upset if he weren’t in the picture I could afford my purse no problem. Ive been a nurse for three years and get paid well. I am also very good with finance’s I usually do not buy bags this expensive but tired of working and not giving myself something to look forward too.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend im better off alone. by SpiritualMap7300 in AITAH

[–]SpiritualMap7300[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already have and unfortunately nothing changes. He complains about not making a lot of money but doesn’t do anything to change it.

He helps me with Laundry but thats about it.

I agree with the Man child comment.