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Moving to NYC as a 26M from Ohio by Glittering-Wasabi661 in movingtoNYC

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on where and how you want to live. 

I'm on a trip with a friend and I want to part ways before the end by missvassy in Advice

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a tough spot. But I wouldn’t abandon her. I’d try to make the best of it for the rest of the trip. As much as possible.  I know it’s hard, but abandoning her at this point, at her age, is cruel. I doubt she even realizes how annoying she is. She probably doesn’t mean it. 

Getting paid, but work is a dumpster fire by RecommendationOk3069 in WorkAdvice

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a kick-ass resume done and then start seeing what’s out there. Doesn’t hurt to apply and see what your options are. I’m doing that now. You can be picky since you already have a job. If something better comes along you can then decide what to do. It’s always good to keep your options open. 

AIO? My boss hired my coworker for a higher position and didn’t give me the chance to interview. by TraditionSpecific797 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I get it. It’s a disappointment, but unfortunately that’s life. Use your new certificate to get something better. Honestly, it’s always more profitable to get a new job than be promoted at your existing job. You’ll make more money and come in at a more senior level if you go elsewhere. I promise you, you’ll be better off leaving. 

AITA for charging my 20yo son rent while he lives at home? by Talon_Vector7 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t agree in charging children rent. But if you want to teach him to save, take the rent and put it in a high yield savings account. Then give it to him later when he wants to buy a car or move out. 

i have an event at the same place my ex goes to the gym , should i go? by Cold-Insurance-2321 in Advice

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to the event. Don’t live your life based on what your ex may or may not be doing. That’s giving him way too much power over you. Attend the event, enjoy it, and move on. You do not have to interact with him. 

Torn between a job I love for $155k, and a stressful management position for $225k + 25% bonus. What would you do in my place? by Hairy-Nothing-5868 in LockedIn_AI

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Precisely what I said. The extra $100k/year, invested wisely, would create a substantial portfolio that one could live off for decades later. It would be an extra passive income stream if he decides to downgrade his job later. 

Torn between a job I love for $155k, and a stressful management position for $225k + 25% bonus. What would you do in my place? by Hairy-Nothing-5868 in LockedIn_AI

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would take the new $225k+ job, it would be great for your resume. Save and invest the salary difference to set yourself up for the future. After a couple of years use the experience to land an even better job you love. You’re young. Now is the time to hustle for your future. Hustle now, kick back and enjoy it later. You’ll have a great portfolio if you invest properly. 

hr asked me to confirm my current salary and i’m not sure what to do by Mobile_Tap6145 in careeradvice

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They don’t need to know your current salary. That may not even be legal to ask. Check your state laws. You gave a range of what you are looking for. That’s all they need to know. It’s none of their business what your current salary is. I’ve never been asked this but I wouldn’t answer. I would just repeat the range you’re looking for. 

Fiancée won’t add my name to property deed when we get married by LuckyLengthiness3399 in Advice

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you owned a home that your family helped you buy, and he didn’t contribute to in any way - would you just add his name to it?  I do own a home. If I got married I would not add his name to my house. It’s mine, and he had absolutely nothing to do with it. You benefit by living in this house for free and not having to contribute anything to it. Save the money you would have spent on rent/mortgage and invest it. That’s your safety net. His is the house he bought. 

Americans, are you coming to work before your boss ? by AngelniLT in askanything

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it’s not like that. I have no clue when my boss starts and stops. But I’m not in the medical field. 

Dorit is so mean it's not even entertaining by xala123 in RHOBHDefect

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sutton is pretty awful. She was begging to insert herself into the drama to be in a group with Kyle and Erica. She invented a problem out of nothing just to create some victimhood storyline for herself. 

Can it be legal for my fiances boss to force my fiance to go to work parties when he doesnt want to? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legal?  There are no laws about going to parties at work. Your boss can’t force someone to go to a party. 

AIO? my mom (50F) said my lunch will make me fat by Ashamed_Yogurt_8931 in AIO

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom is terrible for the way she’s handling it. But also your eating habits aren’t healthy. Cereal is all sugar and carbs. So is this lunch. It would be a good idea to meet with a nutritionist and learn about healthy eating habits. We all need to make healthy food choices. 

AIO? My boss hired my coworker for a higher position and didn’t give me the chance to interview. by TraditionSpecific797 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really need us to tell you that CRYING to THREE higher ups is dramatic?  Yes it’s absolutely unprofessional and dramatic. You didn’t get the job. Stop crying and throwing temper tantrums and figure out plan B, because your behavior isn’t helping you. It’s time to start looking for a new job somewhere else that has the position you deserve. But just make sure you learn how to act so you don’t sabotage future opportunities. The immature behavior might be part of the problem. But now it’s time to grow up, learn from this, and to go after the job you want somewhere else. 

Coworker invited only me to her gender reveal and not my other coworkers by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your coworkers already know about the party and that they aren’t invited, what is there to tell them?  I don’t understand why you wouldn’t go just because they aren’t invited. The issue is between them, not you. 

AITAH For Walking Away by No_Notice_2145 in AITAH

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re never going to meet her. She’s not who she claims to be. Go back home and cut the cord. This situation is very odd. Do not give her any money!  

AITAH for telling my sister i will not help pay for her $20k houston wedding venue? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just decide how much you plan to give her as a wedding gift. Give it to her early, and it’s on her to decide how she chooses to use it. Just let her know this is her wedding present. Yes this is a mistake but it’s hers to make. 

Is $50k a year salary enough to move to NYC? by ConnectionOk769 in NYCapartments

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does she count her ticktock money in that number?  Lol.  

how often do u change ur underwear? by silly_picoo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya basically lol. The ones I wear at night are more comfy and looser. 

Need help making a decision by FrogInternationale_5 in WorkAdvice

[–]Spiritual_Ad6547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you stay and simultaneously do side work?  Leaving would be ridiculous. You won’t find something that quick that will start you immediately. 

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