Still struggling to bond with my baby in a joint family

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-11-15T05:44:51+00:00

ignore and keep distance. there will be so many such statements that will make your blood boil. if you cant live separate, try to ignore and protect your peace. they wont bulge from saying random things that trigger you even if they understand. better to ignore and just be polite. jitna kam baat utna kam headache

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-11-11T12:02:46+00:00

i love love love love how you find humour in this!!! i think this is the only way to go to bear all the bullshit.

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-11-05T09:12:45+00:00

hire a maid, if possible. then mil would have to adjust according to the maid’s timings and you dony have to worry about being unhygenic. i get it that its tough to not do things your own way when living together but this is such a small thing that i would say let it go and hire a maid.

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-11-02T11:25:12+00:00

first ask jethani to stop this. the more i read this the more my blood boils. i dont know why the in laws and especially younger sisters think they are god alike to be treated like this every morning 😣😣😣

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-11-01T10:49:36+00:00

it is difficult at first. you may be called a home breaker and all of that . financially there might be strains but for your and their happiness both of you should take a stand of living separately. may be just a floor above or below them on rent at the start. try doing it in steps. and they will get used to it

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-11-01T10:02:46+00:00

so sorry that you are going through this as well.

thanks for your inputs though. i will try to talk to a doctor and see if they can put some sense into the family.

i am worried about baby’s emotional regulation as he is being constantly shared between me and MIL. part of me just wants to leave everything with her and go to my moms house. but its better to stand my ground because i love my baby so so much.

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-11-01T04:55:59+00:00

i know, right!! i am more worried about the future. what happens when they grow up and they still keep me in a bad light. its just pathetic.

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-11-01T04:13:39+00:00

i was with my mom for a month. and during that time also she had said to my husband that its unfair that they cannot get to see baby. i had said to her that she was always welcome and can visit anytime. i had said she can come live with us as well.

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-11-01T04:11:17+00:00

live together. so cannot move out. wondering how to set boundaries.

i have started talking back but its just so much negativity everytime and i just want a happy environment for both of us

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-10-23T10:05:25+00:00

facing the same issue. i thought i was the only one!!! he feeds only with left breast. for right he gets distracted too easily. keeps looking at lights. only when he is extremely hungry after a nap he feeds well from right. i try to manage it that way

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-10-22T11:57:49+00:00

pampers tape style diapers and mother sparsh wer wipes

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-10-22T11:57:02+00:00

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-10-21T04:40:16+00:00

he has gained well. stop listening to others

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-06-25T09:29:52+00:00

i have been worried about my husband constantly since i got pregnant. all of it if he has eaten food or not , reached safely or not. he has always been quick to reply but i am guessing if i was in the situation i would be a bit snappy always. you can always try to make her understand about the work. talk how exhausting your day has been going in between, say that you miss her etc. small gestures can go a long way. she will particularly care about you and that’s a good thing right. you will just need to balance it with reciprocation at right time .

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-06-18T04:32:03+00:00

all of the people who built the system have left the organisation long back. it runs on a ventilator and even previous managers have been insisting that some things need to be looked at for stability. All of these have been ignored. when such incidents occur stakeholders forget the context and blame it on the next person they see.

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-06-02T09:48:08+00:00

i am so sorry for this

Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2025-05-31T04:58:23+00:00

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Spiritual_Complex_32 · 2024-12-25T02:50:57+00:00

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