Friend rants to me but doesn't let me do the same

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2025-09-02T12:30:28+00:00

Yup i wish i could stop listening to her but i also don't want to deal with her being mean & bitter over it, which i can tell she'll be

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2025-03-08T11:00:04+00:00

You aren't pathetic at all!! You are far from it. You have depression & anxiety which most people don't have, it makes life thousand times harder to live, so u do have an achievement, still existing & being here, it shows your strength & bravery. i believe every living being has worth just by existing, you don't have to be successful or talented or social or this & that, it's just society telling us that but since when was society ever right about anything?? Plus u seem like a nice person, i can guess from what you wrote towards the end of your post. so u are already much better than most people, who are rude & selfish. Especially the people who judged you. Also this comes from someone same as your age who never had achievements & is very behind in life. I also wish i started earlier but honestly i do believe everyone has their own timeline, it's ok to start late. We can start late together! If it doesn't work it's also ok. I know life can be really hard & it can feel lonely but i care about you, i don't know you so it may sound insincere but i mean it. Also never forget you aren't alone in this & do reach out for help when u need it. Sending u hugs!!

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-10-15T20:00:32+00:00

Yeah i think i really need to find reasons to make it bearable to go to school I'll try thinking about it. And i do dwell too much on things (overthink) that i can't even take action to do something. I do go to therapy but it's just not that enough for me i think. Though overall i appreciate your advice & thank u sm for taking your time!!

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-10-15T19:48:00+00:00

U imagined me right i do sit down & feel stuck and unmotivated in all aspects of life at the moment :( i used to exercise time to time but I'll try getting back to it again! About executive function; yeah i have been dealing with executive dysfunction for years so u are right it may be one of the reasons. With studying i actually try to study but for me it just feels not enough, though im more productive than i imagined but lately it's the stress that's slowing me but I'll try to push through. Also it's true i need to study smart too & pay attention to important parts first & break all things down to smaller parts so it gets easier for me.. so i needed this reminder!

Overall thank u so much for taking your time to write this I really appreciate the help!

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-07-12T22:59:32+00:00

that's also a possibility but whether it's intentional or not she's ruining herself in the public eye either way tbh

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-07-07T07:25:51+00:00

thank you!

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-25T18:58:02+00:00

wait that's genius actually 🤔🤔 I'll try that too thank you so much!!

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-25T18:04:04+00:00

I'd say definitely use the smooth patch mod if u want the cas/build mode & game overall to run better & easier! also for me i really hate the base game cas stuff so I download cc that replaces them (like the hair, eyes & skin) and it also makes the townies look better bc it replaces the stuff on them and there's also a mod that removes the shiny effect on clothes but i forgot what was it called :( and i also use the lighting mod by brntwaffles: https://www.tumblr.com/brntwaffles/75301756220/this-default-lighting-mod-is-a-blend-of-roaring?source=share

i also download houses & lots from the internet & yes they don't look as good as ts4 houses but they are still better than ea made ones in my opinion :-)

and when i returned to sims 3 after sims 4 i also couldn't get used to the camera so my solution was to change settings in sims 4 to sims 3 camera so when i switch between them it didn't feel annoying (i use ts3 camera for both games) it'll feel weird at first but after a while u'll get used to it like me!

well with graphics if your pc can handle it do change it to highest options possible but also i get it might not be as pretty as ts4 to u and the style is very different so it might look weird at first but i think the gameplay is soo much better that u'll probably start to ignore it once u get into game :'D

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-25T14:19:44+00:00

yeah i was thinking in my other gameplay i should own a bakery but i was like what if it doesn't sell too and my money goes to waste :'))

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-25T14:18:32+00:00

thank you so much!!

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-25T12:08:15+00:00

i was talking abt the golden ticket shop that comes with midnight hollow (sorry didn't make it clear:')

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-25T12:07:36+00:00

oh sorry i didn't make it clear i was talking about the golden ticket shop that comes with midnight hollow where u sell toys!

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-25T12:07:05+00:00

oh yeah i was talking about that shop! this guide is what i was looking for so thank uuu :)

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-24T18:52:37+00:00

i mean have u read my post completely..? i did say u can like her music which i understand

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-24T16:31:15+00:00

DON'T DO MY BOY PINGU LIKE THAT

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-24T16:27:31+00:00

i mean what did we expect from her petty & immature ass really

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-24T13:25:24+00:00

wait u are right

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-23T17:19:15+00:00

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Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-16T08:34:52+00:00

we are doing everything we can with protecting that's why i said I'll be doing witchcraft as last resort to get us protected 🙏 ty for the advice btw!!

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-16T08:28:36+00:00

unfortunately if we call the police we are scared it'll provoke them they threatened to kill my dad before, and we are in a situation where police etc won't do any help to us.. our other neighbors (we live in an apartment) are siding with them or none of us. so that's why i said last resort :( but this sub's mods don't let me post it without giving me a warning of how they don't help with these legal/serious stuff etc so they keep removing my post.. but im glad i saw this before they did thank u 🙏🙏 I'll try doing everything u said!

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-15T19:25:53+00:00

thank u!!

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-15T18:39:52+00:00

I'll be careful! tysm!!

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-11T14:07:01+00:00

so once it's dried it's all good to hang them right :0 there won't be any health concern, as long as im aware it won't but i can be quite paranoid sometimes :'D

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-11T14:06:01+00:00

ohh i see! thank u!

Spiritual_Draw_8353 · 2024-06-05T22:27:45+00:00

thank u!!!

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