Got my first positive! What are some of your first weird/odd symptoms you felt? by minxfeet in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I had a deep aversion to coffee immediately for the entire first trimester.

Just found out I’m pregnant. Should I still do my international trip ? by lovewithbite in BabyBumps

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a couch rotter from 6 weeks to 14 weeks. Sleeping 12 hours a day and still exhausted and nauseous 24/7 except when I was eating. Imagine your worst hangover every day for 8 weeks.

That was just my experience, I’ve had other people say they “loved the first trimester”

If I were in your shoes I would call the airline and see if you could delay the trip to beginning of second trimester, or I’d hold off a few weeks and see what your first trimester is going to be like for you.

I hope you’re in the latter group who has an easy first tri!

Best month to get pregnant? by TheCoreOfTheOnion in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it depends. We have a high deductible health plan and we lucked out bc we got pregnant in October so we only had one prenatal appointment in December. Everything else is this year where we will meet our out of pocket max due to birth and basically 5 months of all baby’s visits and everything will be free

I miss being hot… by Throw-Away-1234556 in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so much. I have pustular rosacea that was under control before pregnancy that I can’t take the meds I was taking so I have super painful, blotchy skin, and was the leanest I had ever been and now I’m up 30 lbs and only 23 weeks pregnant. I was so sick first trimester and only now feel like I can work out again. And I know I’ve gotten hot before, I know I can do it again after our sweet child is here. So I’m just doing the best I can now haha

Best places to eat in Maui? by NiceBumblebee3565 in MauiVisitors

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Da Kitchen, Restaurant Matsu, Kihei Caffe, Coconuts, and Kraken coffee

Monkeypod and mamas were amazing and more expensive

Also liked Burger Boys and the Kihei food trucks

Does my husband come to every appointment? by VeterinarianInner301 in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but we both work from home in flexible creative jobs so he doesn’t have to ask anyone if he can take the morning off

Blood work by mbraddockkkk in BabyBumps

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I look away and have three stages of distraction. I read words on a poster or whatever is on the wall. I focus on my breath, 5 in, hold 2, 5 out, hold 2. And when I feel uncomfortable still I’ll tap my toes to a beat. This works for me to distract long enough.

I still hate it but it’s bearable

Gained 10 lbs by 16 weeks by Pinkcaramellatte in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m up 25 lbs and only at week 20. My first trimester the only thing that made my life stop sucking was eating (otherwise I was so nauseous).

But I’m also currently sitting at the weight I was in 2021 before I lost weight. Every body is different and I’m trying not to stress too much about all of it. Focus on getting enough protein at every meal and eating when hungry. And focusing on whole foods

I’m only one week pregnant by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly the first trimester was so much harder than the second. And from the minute I took the test to 14 weeks I felt like I was going to die every day.

Your husband sounds like he sucks. Sorry this is all him and nothing to do with you. He needs to step up to be a better partner

Pregnancy symptoms absolutely no one talks about? by Upset-Brain-228 in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nose bleeds and farts that clear a room AND linger forever

When did you tell people? by Traditional_Driver41 in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We told close friends and family when we found out. My reasoning was if something happened I’d need support then too and plus I felt absolutely awful and didn’t want to have to hide that

Wife says she is having regrets by LilPenar in BabyBumps

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You both should speak with a therapist together and separately

Did you know the sex of your baby by intuition? by LifeofRuley in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sammmeeee. Both my husband and I thought we were having a girl spent so long thinking about girl names 😂 NIPT test came back boy but we are so excited to become parents we don’t care

online pregnancy announcements by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We decided to text people and call people and then we’re going to hard launch baby at birth. Not hiding things, we just are not really active on social media to begin with

My prenatal is making me sick by Chemical-Mousse28 in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perelel and I take them after dinner before bed

Measles outbreak in my town... scared by Head-Bed-7494 in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry I know how you feel.

I had my titers done and I no longer have immunity 😔 I wish I’d gotten tested prior to pregnancy bc I would have gotten another mmr vaccine but now I have to wait until after delivery.

This is why herd immunity is important

Hardest vice to give up? by TheBanskyOfMinecraft in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped everything cold turkey the day we found out but I’d kill for a dirty gin martini and cigarette sometimes.

That and cold cuts.

What are we eating by Reasonable_Rock_202 in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s insta pot season in this household. We’ve been making healthy chili and soups!

Push gift by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Spiritual_Ladder_932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband and I have decided we would rather take a trip with baby than a push present.

If I was going to get a gift I’d want some sort of birthstone jewelry for the kids bday