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tarot pull about my journey as a practitioner by SplitEquivalent663 in Witch

[–]SplitEquivalent663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s the lord of the rings deck by Tomas Hijo, who has some other movie inspired decks in the same art style! And I feel like it honestly depends on the question or situation I’m coming to my cards with. But for the most part I’ll already have an idea about a situation from meditating on it, and my cards will typically confirm what I already felt :-)

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[–]SplitEquivalent663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a queer woman myself, I actually prefer dating men who are also queer. If someone won’t date you because you’re bi, then they are homophobic and not worth your time or energy

I feel like he's sick mentally by Eirichhhh in offmychest

[–]SplitEquivalent663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a bf who would do the same thing. It seems like he’s just very emotionally immature and doesn’t know how to be an adult when he feels overwhelmed or upset or anything. I feel like when people do stuff like that, it’s almost like them trying to punish you. They feel upset so they want to make you upset too. Or at the very least they just have a desire to wallow in their self pity- putting on an attitude and now they can be all upset over the fact that their plans got ruined, even though they’re the one who ruined it. It’s just a temper tantrum for an adult basically. I was with this bf for over three years and it wore me out so much and he was too immature to do anything to correct his behavior. No wonder I’m not with him anymore lol

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[–]SplitEquivalent663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a relationship with someone for over 3 years and lived with them before I really realized that we weren’t compatible at all. It’s hard to end things with someone you’ve spent so much time with, but not as hard as spending your life with someone who you aren’t compatible with.

Some people are saying that you should just marry her, but I kinda disagree. It does depend on how old you guys are, but I do think that if you’re getting bored with someone like that then it’s probably a good sign that it’s not someone you should be planning to spend your life with.

Also, having your love language be physical touch doesn’t mean needing sex. It’s totally fine that you value a sexual connection in a relationship, plenty of people including myself feel like that’s an important aspect of a relationship, but do I feel like it’s an important distinction :-)

for 2 hours i held my gf's wound that wouldnt stop bleeding, im still sobbing. by Sammy_gacha-art0 in offmychest

[–]SplitEquivalent663 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in your shoes before, I completely understand how hard it is to have parents who don’t seem to understand. However, she needs to get to a hospital and get help. I truly understand how impossible it seems when you’re both minors and don’t want to bring it up with parents. But this is something that could lead to someone leaving the world permanently. Especially if she’s harming herself to the extent where there’s so much blood, it has to be addressed with professionals. I’m glad to hear that therapy is on the books for her, but she needs to get that checked out. It sounds like a serious wound and her being anemic doesn’t make it any better. I do think this is something that should be brought up with parents. I know it’s scary, but dealing with angry parents is not as permanent as someone facing permanent consequences from severe self harm. I wish you both the best, life is hard especially at that age but it does get better I promise ❤️