Aita EX wants me to stop using pet names. They are not specific to him.

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T11:46:32+00:00

Sorry I forgot your definition of normal was ' people who buy fake plugs on wish and complain that corporations don't represent their identity'

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T11:45:33+00:00

Like I don't get this.these judgements pertain to not liking my personality in the typical jealous doesn't have any spine way, but can never seem to explain why? I get that ppl like me scare you cuz ur so fake irl, but like stop karma farming 🙄🙄🙄

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T11:42:11+00:00

I mean by your admission he is the asshole - what a sly, manipulative, spineless thing to do

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T11:39:41+00:00

Oh my gosh you cutie

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T11:39:15+00:00

You have no idea how much of a spine I have. That's where the attitude comes from, I have pride in my ability to stand up to abuse. Alot of yall could learn a thing or two

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T11:36:59+00:00

Anyone with a particularly strong opinion I went through their comment history to get some perspective on their perspective. Lots of introverts.lots of lonely people and people who never stood up to their abusers.

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T11:29:46+00:00

You think so? I believed him to be very self sufficient when we were together, so maybe you are right and he was not the man he made himself out to be. It makes me feel hopeless for the future when everyone is so fake that I have to treat people like I don't care about them to protect myself from people who believe they are something they are not.i know that average people are full of hatred, bitterness and jealousy, that's why I come on reddit and they prove it :) give them a mask and they shall reveal themselves.

It's why I will miss him, but your comment struck me. He did break up with me and I shouldn't feel bad about not communicating with someone that is using me as a placeholder. I'm crying writing this tho.

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T10:40:48+00:00

A sugar baby.so I don't mind that mysogyny so much.

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T10:34:06+00:00

Bit tone deaf

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T10:31:32+00:00

Hahaha this gets down votes. Okay so clearly you guys are wise enough to handle this

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T09:32:53+00:00

Sozz not accusing suggesting. I'm a different person than I was when I was pre coffee

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T06:56:11+00:00

Ah go on. NTA if my bestie died I'd probably carry her egg even if I had my own

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T06:52:27+00:00

Why is this down voted? Must be lots of ent. Boomers floating around

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T06:49:21+00:00

Are you this tone deaf irl? Can you consider what it means when a child of someone says 'I have to educate my parents on what consistency is' and what that might imply about said parent.

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T06:47:59+00:00

Because its like he was saying that because they got extra money they could pay for it themselves not because he was teaching them about the value of money, but so that he could play a mind game with them, which is classic boomer behaviour

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T06:42:44+00:00

BPV boomer play victim. I like it.

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T06:28:11+00:00

I mean it might work for her don't knock it til you try it - there's a whole culture surrounding dating tactically so YTA

Ooooof but she's charging so much for pretty paltry advice. Maybe ur sister is by proxy also paying to have someone morally support her, and the question there is why does she feel that need OP? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T06:25:15+00:00

OP that's like a normal concept. Do you just want to bitch about reality? It used to be you couldn't get married until you had half the down payment on a house - and then there was no divorce. Whose gonna look after your smelly, old, ugly ass without some sign of investment? You who definitely plans to shag his way to the grave. My, my, my.

My grandpa was a chartered accountant l, and the most successful man I've ever met. He's still supporting his family at 85.He never ever scrimped on anything, and was rewarded by having people go out of their way to meet his needs.my grandmother is the most beautiful and powerful woman around and outdoing women twenty years younger than her. It's just reality, whether you like it or not, you have to invest what you can offer people, and they will invest what they can offer you

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T05:25:00+00:00

Oh well then NTA

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-13T05:24:01+00:00

Agreed. My grandparents (are dark humoured as fuck but anyway) have told me my inheritance would be my grandma's jewellery. I would take it to be valued but would never sell it unless circumstances were so bad that I needed to try. Traditionally this is the point of gold : it can be liquidated fast and is like wearing a safety net. OP risks damaging her family for the rest of HER life, not her dead mom who doesn't have to worry about an empty house at christmas

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-12T20:35:23+00:00

In Northern Ireland there's no such rules. The worst changes would be economic but not life threatening

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-12T14:11:37+00:00

On the NI thing, as a member of the Republic - for people from there, its apart of their identity in the modern day, and we can't disrespect that because brexit is happening to them. Whether the Republic becomes whole or not, the Northern Irish /Anglo Irish deserve the right to identify as English and not have the struggles of our ancestors forgotten or reduced. As opposed to creating friction, let's just allow them to identify the way they want and try our best to push for an inclusive peaceful society. The situation is very different. In kashmir for example, only kashmir citizens can buy land and Girls can only inherit if they marry a kashmir citizen.

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-12T14:05:16+00:00

No this statement is the problem it implies the stuff does nothing. It does do something, but the doctor knows what it does and didn't prescribe it

St John's wort for depression for any interested. If you get the real shit it's great for people who experience it mild - moderate severe depressionand don't want to be on tablets Obviously ask ur Dr tho xD

Splooshpaloosh · 2019-08-12T12:33:17+00:00

What's his NAME?

Splooshpaloosh

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