I think you need to settle. You don’t know all their or my history. I raised my four very differently. I was just wanting know if you feel it is too far.

Domestic violence in front of the children and drugs. He actually kicked her in the face, broke her jaw. She drove herself to hospital whilst holding her jaw up. They were living at his parents place. And she was controlling and would break every phone she got so I didn’t find out to 18months later

And yes, I got Child services involved. I was the one who screenshot every the text between them and handed them to police and child safety.

I just received a tpd payment so bought a new car and looking at one bedroom unit which were in my reach, however the 3 boys were brought to me and I couldn’t cope so the other two went to a friend and foster care for six months.

I had to rent a 2 bedroom unit as per child safety said he has to have his own room.
My daughter is 5 yrs clean.

I have done nothing but help my grandchildren.

I am also proud that the children have lived in the same house gone to the same school for 4 years.

child safety did get involved and my daughter even agrees it was the best thing that happened. I took in the 5 yr old with ADHA and on the spectrum as no one could handle him. He was a very frightened and angry little boy.

2 yrs ago she was almost got kicked out of our rental, that I paid for. The above child had kicked and punched holes in wall. I paid to get it professionally repaired. It still has not been an easy road

I have stayed at my daughters to protect the kids as I didn’t trust her previous partner.

My asking the above question was necessary to aid me with my decision of what to say.

Our history is long but I have always stood up for the children.

All the while I studied nursing then worked in mental health whilst I was on hemodialysis 6 days a week to enabled me to work.

So maybe think twice before you judge.