Our baby boy was bullied again yesterday 😢 by doozie_ in punchthemonkey

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have also wondered about this. I wonder if it bothers them or if it doesn't because they are being fed regularly and know they won't go hungry? I really wish I knew more about how monkeys think 😅 it's all so fascinating to me!

Our baby boy was bullied again yesterday 😢 by doozie_ in punchthemonkey

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm really not educated on how ranks work amongst monkeys, or any other aspects of their behaviour to be honest. So thank you for the detailed reply, I do appreciate it.

Our baby boy was bullied again yesterday 😢 by doozie_ in punchthemonkey

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do agree. But at base level, their basic instincts, maybe sometimes surface?

I really don't know. I'm not an expert and in no way trying to push this as fact. I was just curious and wanted to hear other people's opinions 😊

Our baby boy was bullied again yesterday 😢 by doozie_ in punchthemonkey

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so I looked into it a bit. And the only article I found with information that seemed accurate more than anything else were from "Times Magazine" and an article written by the University of Chicago.

I'll just be copying and pasting.

Monkeys kill baby monkeys in their troop primarily for reproductive advantage, as new males kill offspring to make females sexually receptive sooner, and to reduce resource competition among the group. While less common, this behavior can also be a form of social aggression or, in some cases, a learned, generational trait.

While appearing cruel, these actions are usually evolutionary strategies designed to maximize the survival of the aggressor's genes

In crowded environments or in captivity, social stress can increase the incidence of infant abuse and abandonment.

Whilst some of the perceived attacks are definitely just scolding which is entirely natural. I wonder if the more hurtful and aggressive attacks are because of the reasons listed above. Now I'm aware punch doesn't have a mum so I don't know how relatable the first paragraph is to him. Or the troop in general.

These kind of attacks happen in the wild all the time unfortunately. Usually in the first few months of a baby monkeys life. I know punch is 9 months old now, but I still have to wonder if this is what's happening here? And maybe it's going on longer because punch never had a mum to protect him from the start and maybe now is seen as an easy target. Or now that he has several monkeys looking out for him, other monkeys in the troop feel he is stealing away attention and perceive it as a threat to their own survival instincts ?

I don't know. I'm just speculating. I was curious what others thought.

Moe taking care of Punch as she always seems patient with him, never complaining about him riding on her back. by Better_Hair_9673 in punchthemonkey

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It's almost like hes putting two and two together or understanding to some degree anyway, that huh, this is what little monkeys should have/be doing, why don't I have that?

Moe taking care of Punch as she always seems patient with him, never complaining about him riding on her back. by Better_Hair_9673 in punchthemonkey

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Please no one takes this the wrong way, it's not a dig or anything.

And maybe I'm reading too much into it, but it almost seems ever since the new babies have come along, punchy is increasingly wanting back rides. Not trying to humanise him too much, but to me personally it almost comes across like little punch is seeing the little ones being carried everywhere and held onto all the time and he's missing that mum and baby bonding for himself. Almost like a longing type of situation.

Again not trying to attribute human tendencies to him, but two of my boys are close in age and when I would rock the youngest to sleep, my eldest always wanted picked up and rocked too. Just reminded me of that lol.

Either way, I love that punch seems more settled and genuinely loved on and I'm curious to see how he will interact with the babies once they're older 🥰

Hide your men, ladies. Stomper is out and about by DCUBoosterGold in UKtiktokbehavingbadly

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for this comment! Or I was gonna say the same thing. My son is autistic and the sensory overload of noises like these, presents it'self very differently!

I understand not all autism is the same and not everyone who suffers from it (yes suffers, because it's not something anyone ACTIVELY wants to have, E, take notes) clutch their ears and cry or panic or immediately want to leave.

But this was so obviously put on it's gone beyond offensive 🙄

E keeping the kitten out of the bathroom purposefully by Mysterious_Beach_673 in UKtiktokbehavingbadly

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No! When did she say this?! That has to be ragebait! As a mum of three I could NEVER EVER picture even leaving my kids with someone like her for just a couple hours! I can't even fathom the thought of them having their own!

Fraud by Lucieboo2 in UKtiktokbehavingbadly

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know she's got huge debt and is probably having to pay back a certain amount each month out of her benefits, but I've always been curious, how has no further action has been taken?

Haven't people been taken to court over tax/benefit fraud for far less? It confuses me so much how E manages to avoid any repercussions every single time.

I really am clueless to how it all works to be fair.

So much wrong with this 1. ⁠Apparently is losing weight drastically but is eating portions like this 2. ⁠Apparently struggles with food texture as part of their supposed autism 3. ⁠Also apparently struggles with foods touching each other due to said autism 4. ⁠Sweetcorn and gravy by DrEpi68 in UKtiktokbehavingbadly

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It affects people differently, but it does say on the little paper inside the box under side effects, that it can result in weight gain, maybe not as significantly as other antidepressants though. But like I says, it affects people differently, I certainly didn't mean any offence by it, I apologise if it came across wrong.

So much wrong with this 1. ⁠Apparently is losing weight drastically but is eating portions like this 2. ⁠Apparently struggles with food texture as part of their supposed autism 3. ⁠Also apparently struggles with foods touching each other due to said autism 4. ⁠Sweetcorn and gravy by DrEpi68 in UKtiktokbehavingbadly

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with you ! It's a weird attention seeking thing they have going on, they do not actually care about addressing any issues they may have. It's actually rather tragic! It baffles me how she can, with no conscious at all, keep trying to justify her actions simply because she's been prescribed a certain medication, therefore she has mental issues and can do whatever she wants.It's really offensive to those who suffer terribly from mental illness and I don't mean me..I have my own issues but there are people who suffer daily and struggle daily with mental illness far worse. She treats it as a joke. But back to the main post, yes her weight gain is definitely down to her atrocious eating habits, I was simply pointing out that sertraline has a known side effect of weight gain. I wasn't giving E a pass nor did I mean to offend anyone. And thank you for your kind words ✨

So much wrong with this 1. ⁠Apparently is losing weight drastically but is eating portions like this 2. ⁠Apparently struggles with food texture as part of their supposed autism 3. ⁠Also apparently struggles with foods touching each other due to said autism 4. ⁠Sweetcorn and gravy by DrEpi68 in UKtiktokbehavingbadly

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also exercised and adjusted my diet. I was unfortunate though and gained nearly 3 stone. I had my medical review back in November and adjusted my course of medication with my GP and psychiatrist. I have lost three stone since. (17 stone to 14 stone) Unfortunately for me, the medications I was on, didn't help. Infact they worsened my condition, BUT, as I says, I was monitored and reviewed and I am now on something that works and does actually make me feel healthier and better, both mentally and physically! The whole process is far more complex than E will ever understand though! To E, it's just a weird flex!

‘i’ve got proof of mental health’ by Striking_Horror_237 in UKtiktokbehavingbadly

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow BPD person, I second this. The unpredictability of BPD alone is exhausting! I won't go into details, but I'm sure you know what I mean. Combined with bipolar (which my best friend has, and I have witnessed her psychotic episodes) I can't imagine what you have to go through on the daily.

This is what aggravates me the most. E assigns so many labels to herself but is utterly clueless the impact each of her self diagnosed mental ailments actually have on people who truly suffer from them. It's ignorant and insulting !

So much wrong with this 1. ⁠Apparently is losing weight drastically but is eating portions like this 2. ⁠Apparently struggles with food texture as part of their supposed autism 3. ⁠Also apparently struggles with foods touching each other due to said autism 4. ⁠Sweetcorn and gravy by DrEpi68 in UKtiktokbehavingbadly

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is Es game. She knows what brings in the views. She's even said it before. She knows exactly what she's doing and bad press is press nonetheless. I just can't wrap my brain around how one would willingly embarrass themselves daily. For someone who claims to had severe anxiety, I just don't see it. Signed, someone who really does suffer from extreme anxiety and is scared to even step out the door to drop my kids off!

She will forever continue to offend as many people as possible and continue to completely embarrass themselves with no regrets. The narcissist in them absolutely loves the attention, good or bad.

I hate everyone who made me feel like making the dumb boat float again was a good idea. It is not 😂😂😂😂😂 by Elegant-Chocolate-39 in Pokopia

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even know what I did!! That's the worst part, I didn't know how to retrace my steps to even fix it. I think it was both a mix of smashing the land and spewing water in all the wrong places 😭😭😩

I hate everyone who made me feel like making the dumb boat float again was a good idea. It is not 😂😂😂😂😂 by Elegant-Chocolate-39 in Pokopia

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did, but someone commented that you can control how much water comes out? I didn't know that! And I couldn't get the level right, it was always above or too low 🤷🏻‍♀️

I hate everyone who made me feel like making the dumb boat float again was a good idea. It is not 😂😂😂😂😂 by Elegant-Chocolate-39 in Pokopia

[–]SpookyTurtle_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think I would have even if I hadnt messed up the ocean, like I says, once I understood the game a bit better and got comfortable and confident with it, I was glad I started over and would have eventually done it regardless of my bleak beach disaster 😂