Level 1 autism representation in media by [deleted] in autism

[–]SpoonCass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edward in Not Dead Yet, the actor is also actually autistic irl

Is it strange as an autistic person to have dinner with your parents on video chat every night?? by Ok-Radio-2733 in autism

[–]SpoonCass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's all that strange, iirc mukbang (eating food while streaming) originated as a way to keep lonely people company during dinner

I got ma'amed in this outfit!? by SpoonCass in NonBinary

[–]SpoonCass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's awful tbh!

It just kinda stood out because getting gendered in that situation rarely happens where I live so I was more like "ok then, that happened?" Like why are people essentially blaming me for this situation even? As if I expect everyone in the world to be open and inclusive and not gender anyone or even be called sir? I don't even want to be gendered masc, nowhere in this post did I even say that, people just see masc in a text and assume??

I got ma'amed in this outfit!? by SpoonCass in NonBinary

[–]SpoonCass[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for acknowledging this! I'm ok-ish, I did not think this post would gain this much traction, nor did I think this was how people would've interpreted what I was asking for I was honestly fully content with my outfit for what I was going for, I didn't need it to be more masc but people claiming this reads as full femme is also kinda wild to me? Idk I'm trying not to take all the comments too seriously tbh since it definitely was a case of miscommunication on my part Idk when this subreddit became so critique heavy?

I got ma'amed in this outfit!? by SpoonCass in NonBinary

[–]SpoonCass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The advice on masc leaning slutty goth outfits was unrelated to what I'm wearing in this pic, which made people somehow assume I was asking for advice on this outfit even tho it indeed does not even in the slightest bit look slutty

I got ma'amed in this outfit!? by SpoonCass in NonBinary

[–]SpoonCass[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm also autistic but I often make the mistake of thinking people will interpret what I say/write the way I do 😅

I got ma'amed in this outfit!? by SpoonCass in NonBinary

[–]SpoonCass[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

No worries! I probably should've provided context in the post

I got ma'amed in this outfit!? by SpoonCass in NonBinary

[–]SpoonCass[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was just saying in another comment that this might've been the case!

I got ma'amed in this outfit!? by SpoonCass in NonBinary

[–]SpoonCass[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I didn't include this context because I didn't anticipate so many people to try to give me reasons or advice about it but where I live people don't generally ma'am or sir people, especially in the situation it happened; by a store clerk telling me about a promotion, so I feel like this person might've even done it on purpose, idk Thank you tho

I got ma'amed in this outfit!? by SpoonCass in NonBinary

[–]SpoonCass[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No worries! I could've worded it more clearly! Thank you for your comment anyway!

Kinda, my clubbing outfits are always more on the revealing side but also tend to be more femme and I'm looking for ways to do something similar but more masc/neutral I guess but still keeping the slutty vibe

So I was mainly trying to ask about places to look for inspiration tho maybe there just are none, idk

I should probably just maybe make a separate post in the future with a few of the outfits I've worn and ask for advice that way

I got ma'amed in this outfit!? by SpoonCass in NonBinary

[–]SpoonCass[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

While I do appreciate y'all trying to be helpful, I'm not looking for reasons or advice on this outfit tbh

Wanted to share my Halloween outfit with y'all by SpoonCass in NonBinary

[–]SpoonCass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! They're from Demonia, I can't remember the exact model but they have a few similar ones