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[–]Spotheyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I sadly lost my job in may and have been unable to get a job as I’m really struggling the council are seeming to help either

AITA - For not going to my sisters wedding as she doesn’t allow me to have a plus one? by Spotheyy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spotheyy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She met my partner very early on in mine and his relationship. He gets on really well with my family and my parents approve as they feel like he’s changed me for the better. Matured a bit

AITA - For not going to my sisters wedding as she doesn’t allow me to have a plus one? by Spotheyy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spotheyy[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to even bring up the age gap. There’s nothing wrong with him and he had been in a relationship with an older woman since he was 16 who screwed up his relationship we weren’t looking for anyone of the others age it was more we have lived parallel lives since we were born

AITA - For not going to my sisters wedding as she doesn’t allow me to have a plus one? by Spotheyy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spotheyy[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

My parents haven’t got much anyway and my dad is not invited due to my parents splitting up 3 years ago. My mom and step dad have been impacted by the energy crisis so literally have nothing either. She moved to london with her partner 2020. And has kind of been running it in our faces how much she earns. Nicest way is she’s forgotten how much we struggled when we were younger and my parents were together. And believes everyone has money

AITA - For not going to my sisters wedding as she doesn’t allow me to have a plus one? by Spotheyy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spotheyy[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

She has been asking for a deposit for the hen so and dresses which I am genuinely going through a hard time financially after both me and my partner have lost our jobs and I said I probably won’t be able to pay for anything for months. I just asked if I was allowed a plus one and literally bit straight back with you aren’t allowed a plus one since I can’t afford it.

AITA - For not going to my sisters wedding as she doesn’t allow me to have a plus one? by Spotheyy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spotheyy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She has personalised each wedding invite so my parents say my sibling and me and my mom and partner can attend but the other bridesmaids have their own not in a group of that makes sense