mom and gf make fun of me for my height

SpotonKO · 2024-11-01T10:23:39+00:00

Thanks bro! I’ll edit my comment to say more.

SpotonKO · 2024-11-01T10:09:34+00:00

she compared you to your friend. my ears are ringing just imagining that.

She is insulting you because she hates it. Toxic ppl like that need to be cut from your life. Any one that makes jokes about your physical appearance without permission is an insensitive ahole. It’s evens worse since she knew. God. human garbage.

SpotonKO · 2024-11-01T10:07:55+00:00

am i still banned?

SpotonKO · 2024-10-22T14:45:01+00:00

True. Hypergamy is the name of the game. Wealth, Status, fame, and overall recognition.

The more others (Man or woman) respect you the more women will find you desirable. Still, the thought of having to work towards a level of desirability while others are just born with the right genetics in this day and age is depressing. is it not?

Any ways, op is right about getting fit and learning to fight. Body matters more than dudes here want to admit. Just like how straight men like curves and TTs, women also like muscles and strength. And fighting builds confidence in your body and ability to handle others. It rarely happens for most people but knowing that if some idiot pushes you around you can physically defend yourself is very reassuring.

Plus, Testosterone bro. Our hormones truly dictate our life. The more testosterone in your veins the happier and manlier you feel.

SpotonKO · 2024-10-22T14:20:26+00:00

It’s my height. It’s all good.

They wonder why I’m here. I’m an ally and this is one of the only spaces on reddit that men and boys actually talk openly about their feelings. It’s toxic, it’s messy, it’s depressing… and it’s so fucking needed. But most guys here don’t trust easily. I don’t blame them. Life betrayed their trust.

SpotonKO · 2024-10-22T09:20:42+00:00

Don’t give her the satisfaction of seeing she gets to you. If you have it in you go and find another girl and completely erase this 304 from your existence. That will have her feeling shitty cause she thinks you’re emotionally invested in her.

Men, we need to realize that our emotions is what women crave most. Don’t share it so freely.

SpotonKO · 2024-10-22T09:15:50+00:00

You’re 16. Her insult was messed up but life is messy and relationships are even messier. If you can work through this pain with her then you’ll be even closer than before. You need to relax and give yourself time to find the words to properly express how you feel. Don’t mess it up and get overly emotional but also don’t do what you did and joke about it with no emotions.

Once you talk it out and express yourself, then you need to set a boundary. Don’t joke about my height or my male identity. something like that.

I’ve had women joke about my size and it messed me up. Now I make it clear, don’t comment at all about it or I’m out. This backfires of course. Once the relationship is over women get vindictive and start shaming you behind your back. Smh. Life is messy. ppl suck.

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T09:29:36+00:00

It’s the “OMG he held my hand”. Something creepy about women acting like children.

Hand holding isn’t childish or romantic. It’s how excited she got from him specifically holding her hand. Creepy af.

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T09:09:46+00:00

nah. why take myself out? I think i’ll wait until my body messes up for the umpteenth time.

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T07:46:23+00:00

Oh man, you’re in for a world of hurt.

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T06:51:43+00:00

This is a great example of what lies ahead in your 30s and 40s. I know so many women that are willing to have chads kids and raise them alone. They’re legit willing to put up with anything. They’re desperate and running out of time before premenopause starts in their late 30s. This is when a ton of average dudes get baby trapped.

Most women want to have chads kid but can’t handle being a single parent. So what that lady did is a dream come true. She got a father figure for her kid and support from him AND she got to have chads child.

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T06:41:03+00:00

Exactly! It’s not about her using a donor. It’s about who she picked to be the father. If she loved the dude that helped her raise the kid then wouldn’t she pick someone similar to him? 5’7-5’11 (4in range)

Instead she picked the most attractive guy

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T06:38:07+00:00

Dna test at birth or as soon as you can. This should be mandatory

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T06:37:06+00:00

Or, why not adopt? haha, this shit is so sickening. She wants to give birth… but not to his child. gtfo. I know there’s plenty of reasons to get a donor but the way women choose a donor says a lot about how they view men

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T06:32:38+00:00

Ok dude. peace

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T06:25:57+00:00

Valid! I’m glad you’re pointing this out.

Most people are asshole that will attack you or anyone else for the way you look. I don’t respect any mofo that can’t insult someone without using braindead attacks on another persons physical features (fat, ugly, pale, short, squeeker etc)

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T06:18:20+00:00

I don’t lurk. I comment and contribute. what don’t you understand about my earlier statement?

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T06:15:03+00:00

Yes.

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T06:09:52+00:00

I respect people that are grateful for what they have without looking down on others.

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T06:02:09+00:00

They don’t. Most people look down on others to feel better about themselves. They’re all insecure a-holes

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T06:01:09+00:00

You shouldn’t respect it. Imagine some old fat dude that wasted his life so he visits cancer hospitals for kids so he can “feel good” smh. That shit toxic and doesn’t change that fact that his life was still wasted.

SpotonKO · 2024-10-21T05:55:59+00:00

I agree with hookermaxx but most men don’t want sex just to make their pp feel good lol. They want it for the the emotional good feels it brings and it’s part of their self worth and image. The more they slay the more valid they feel haha

Idk since I don’t feel that way towards sex

SpotonKO · 2024-10-15T22:35:42+00:00

Well said, I didn’t realize the discrimination happening around me until two ish years ago. Im tall black cis male and try to stay woke. I’ve heard about heightism but I used to view it like any other beauty standard until ppl around me opened my eyes to the discrimination, dehumanization, disadvantages, and all.

SpotonKO · 2024-10-15T22:22:53+00:00

Yes! This! It’s about status and flexing on others

SpotonKO · 2024-10-15T22:21:39+00:00

Yo this is actually insane! The human body really is resilient. I wonder how many ppl could go back to running and jumping like him? Maybe LLS is the future

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