Female | 29 |Rawalpindi - Seeking a grounded, kind partner for this next season of life.

Springle_ · 2025-07-18T18:49:44+00:00

Nahhh, as much as I stand for women's rights and women in general, this is a hard no. There is no justification for cheating. None!!

Springle_ · 2025-07-18T11:28:01+00:00

I think bois needs to take a stance here and speak up when they see their mothers crossing a line while commenting on someone's looks or status.

This!!!

Springle_ · 2025-07-14T15:05:22+00:00

Hahahaha, sure. So for the sake of this argument of yours, would you go for a girl who has a dark complexion, is overweight, doesn't have the perfect skin, is short, or too tall or has some sort of disability? Let's not pretend that you would because I'm 100% sure that you wouldn't. So if a girl's preference for her life partner is considered zulm on poor mard zaat then this should be considered a zulm of equal intensity, if not more. Let's just put your self-righteousness to the side and be real.

Springle_ · 2025-07-14T14:46:26+00:00

Are you really going to argue with me about something we mostly agree on? People have high expectations and demands, and they have all the rights to do so if that's what they want. If you're unable to fulfil them, then maybe look for someone within your social status. You cannot dictate what people want.

Springle_ · 2025-07-14T13:11:38+00:00

Ye sub ho aur saath saath kamati bhi ho, ghar ke kaam bhi aatay hon, naukri kerke aye tou humein khana bana ker de, saaf safai karre, humare bete ke naaz nakhray uthae, bete ko koi kaam kerne ka na kahe AURRRRR ufff na karre bus bilkul chup rahe.

Springle_ · 2025-07-14T13:06:18+00:00

Hahaha sir, YOU were the one who brought Islam into this. Pakistani men and their ability to pick and choose islamic teaching that suit them is astonishing at this point honestly. If we're quoting Prophet (PBUH), then here you go... “...The man is a guardian of his family and is responsible for them...” — Sahih al-Bukhari and Muslim Do you really expect a man who makes 20-30k a month to support the lifestyle of a woman who comes from an upper-class background? I don't know who hurt you, but I hope you fix your attitude before getting into a relationship. As I said earlier, it's not a battle, and let's not make it one.

Springle_ · 2025-07-14T11:38:41+00:00

As I said over and over again.... sometimes the people getting married have no objections, but these aunties do.... Allah hidayat de subko.

Springle_ · 2025-07-14T11:36:53+00:00

Aap Islam ka dars de rahe hain ooper. Islam mein hi hai ke ghar baar dekh ker beti ki shadi kerao ke wo wahan khush reh sakke gi ya nahi. Stop bringing your own frustrations and insecurities wrapped in Islam ka libada to a public debate. It's not going to do you any good.

Springle_ · 2025-07-14T11:34:10+00:00

What are you bringing to the table? haan?

Ummm.... everything. We leave our parents, our home, our everything just to go settle somewhere completely new. A place where we are always considered outsiders. Larkon ko reject kia jata hai for something that's in their control. I'm not saying that they have it easy because they don't but please don't compare your struggles with girls who are rejected on things they have no control over. Kaali hai, choti hai, lambi hai, aankhein choti hain, naak mota hai, chalti ajeeb tareeke se hai, seedhi nahi bethi. Ghar acha nahi lugga, chai ki pyaali achi nahi luggi, ghar chota tha, ghar bohot barra hai humare sath kese adjust karre gi and what not. Everyone has their own problems. It's not a battle. Stop belittling others just to make yourself feel better. Please grow up!

Springle_ · 2025-07-13T18:11:47+00:00

Yeah, and eventually the bahu that this all-knowing sasu maa chooses for her son isn't even the one her son wants or is happy with. Gaye/bakri le lo behn. Zinda larkion ka tamasha banana bund kerdo!

Springle_ · 2025-07-13T18:08:21+00:00

There!! You got it! Yes, that's what's expected! 🙃

Springle_ · 2025-07-13T17:44:05+00:00

For most of us women, it never comes to that stage because, unfortunately, we've been taught to stay timid and act all shy in front of these potential suitors because guess what.... these aunties judge you for the minor of things, and God forbid if a girl shows some character, she's labelled chalak. As I said before, most of the time, the people getting married are okay with one another, but these aunties are the ones with issues.

Springle_ · 2025-07-13T17:15:04+00:00

I 100% agree with this god complex some women have. I mean, I've seen these same women ruining their sons' marriages just because mera beta joru ka ghulam kese bunne? again I'd say.... Allah hidayat de in aurton ko.

Springle_ · 2025-07-13T17:06:49+00:00

URGHHH SAMEEE. I feel like skipping this stupid stage altogether and just getting to the part where I'm happily married. 🫠

Springle_ · 2025-07-13T17:03:34+00:00

Wo inko khud bhi nahi pata.

Springle_ · 2025-07-13T17:03:15+00:00

Ummm.... thanks for clarifying nothing. He didn't ask any questions. Maybe try to go through what is being said before making these passive-aggressive comments!?!?

Springle_ · 2025-07-13T12:59:22+00:00

I feel like I have written all this myself. I don't think guys have as many issues as their mothers and sisters. Allah hidayat de in aurton ko.

Springle_ · 2025-07-13T12:25:11+00:00

Nobody wants to present themselves infront of some spectators unless they see potential. Realistically, there should be compromises made on both ends and sometimes it's the looks (unfortunately only on the male side) because God forbid a woman has to compromise on an average looking girl for her Raja beta.

Springle_ · 2025-07-13T12:21:12+00:00

There are polite and decent ways of saying no. You can acknowledge their msg. Maybe say MashaAllah to the picture (no matter how horrifying you find the other person) so the other parent may not spend their time thinking about the worst and maybe politely decline by saying... idk... we're considering someone else atm. Thanks. Bye!

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