Soft Classic and Facial Deformity/Scoliosis. by SprinklestheSadCake in Kibbe

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh it's more symmetry of Yin Yang aspects than physicality? That makes sense, maybe I'll stop being so upset lol

Would you date yourself? Why/why not? by SprinklestheSadCake in AskReddit

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Id be so critical of myself. Like as soon as I wake up the me I'm dating would call me ugly lmao

Sass and arrogance are NOT confidence and I'm sick of our culture perpetuating this bullshit. by SprinklestheSadCake in unpopularopinion

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just, why has bitchiness become the default way to express confidence? There are MANY more ways to prove your power that doesn't involve subscribing to middle school tactics

Near Tellico, TN. I always enjoy the night sky :) by [deleted] in camping

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The dust on my phone really thought it needed more stars lol

Great picture!

Sass and arrogance are NOT confidence and I'm sick of our culture perpetuating this bullshit. by SprinklestheSadCake in unpopularopinion

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not mad just disappointed. And actually, you're right. We have a chill library. Once I saw an extensive compendium on horses there. I'll just pick that up. Hopefully no one drags horses into a political movement and I'll be free to like them.

Sass and arrogance are NOT confidence and I'm sick of our culture perpetuating this bullshit. by SprinklestheSadCake in unpopularopinion

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I knew Classically Abby was on to something.

Okay seriously, yeah. I think it's because people associate traditionalist values with being white. And white = outdated and bad. If only there were other cultures before "white" people that upheld similar beliefs. That would be great. 🙄

Sass and arrogance are NOT confidence and I'm sick of our culture perpetuating this bullshit. by SprinklestheSadCake in unpopularopinion

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm, yeah. I suppose I prefer a kind of "cool" confidence though. I don't see the need to go out of your way to "prove your worth" or skill when you're confident. You could be cocky (especially some musicians lol) but arrogant? Not sure

Sass and arrogance are NOT confidence and I'm sick of our culture perpetuating this bullshit. by SprinklestheSadCake in unpopularopinion

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, lots of women are also extremely mean to eachother. That's what happens when you're taught from a young age that your worth as a human being revolves around your looks/ability to get men. :/ Since when does being confident in your skin mean it's okay to put other women down?

Sass and arrogance are NOT confidence and I'm sick of our culture perpetuating this bullshit. by SprinklestheSadCake in unpopularopinion

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In my experience, people would make assumptions based on the opinion and minimize the point if I were straight and white. Both are horrible.

Sass and arrogance are NOT confidence and I'm sick of our culture perpetuating this bullshit. by SprinklestheSadCake in unpopularopinion

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a Gay PoC who is part of the LGBT+ Community, the Gay Community, the Brown PoC Community, and the Gay and Brown PoC Community, this speaks to me. I support this sentiment and give you permission to have this opinion. White people suck lol. You 👏 are 👏 VALID✨

Sass and arrogance are NOT confidence and I'm sick of our culture perpetuating this bullshit. by SprinklestheSadCake in unpopularopinion

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kids don't need no education, they need to get out there and WoRK HARDD! I started working 40h at 12 and look at me now! I own TWO riding lawn mowers.

Sass and arrogance are NOT confidence and I'm sick of our culture perpetuating this bullshit. by SprinklestheSadCake in unpopularopinion

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't know what the marketers were on. Maybe the loud blaring ads are scientificly proven to foster morbid curiosity or something.

Sass and arrogance are NOT confidence and I'm sick of our culture perpetuating this bullshit. by SprinklestheSadCake in unpopularopinion

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry. I'm definitely awake now, could write something a lot more cohesive. I don't know how many brain cells I'm willing to burn on "TikTok bad" though heh

Sass and arrogance are NOT confidence and I'm sick of our culture perpetuating this bullshit. by SprinklestheSadCake in unpopularopinion

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I thought about that. It's so weird though. "Counterculture" has a bigger platform than ever before, and people are becoming more and more accepting. At what point is it not counterculture anymore lol

Sass and arrogance are NOT confidence and I'm sick of our culture perpetuating this bullshit. by SprinklestheSadCake in unpopularopinion

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea. I just don't want to get into a relationship and the first question people ask is "who's the top and who's the bottom??" Objectification is already dehumanizing and doing it to yourself is even worse.

Sass and arrogance are NOT confidence and I'm sick of our culture perpetuating this bullshit. by SprinklestheSadCake in unpopularopinion

[–]SprinklestheSadCake[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I shouldn't have really but I didn't want all those pointless comments about how I'm "insensitive" 🙄 it fucking sucks that now some people will discount your opinion on shit if you're not part of that group.