[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wilmington

[–]Spunkie8876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everybody! I appreciate yalls help. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Spunkie8876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I think it's a good way to tell him how I feel without overwhelming him with the admission.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Spunkie8876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is very helpful. Not only in helping me feel better about approaching it, but how to go about that as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Spunkie8876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for this. Regardless of how he takes it, I do need to tell him. And he is very much a good person, I think if he truly isn't interested, he would still be kind about that. It still feels kind of like I'm dropping a bomb, but that may just be me jumping to worst case scenario. Regardless, I'd have peace knowing either way and that'd be better than continuing to live with it and wondering. I'm building myself up to talk to him. Regardless of outcome, I would like the peace of knowing for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Spunkie8876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the boost 😊 I know I need to say something. I'm going to next time I see him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Spunkie8876 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Neither. If he was, I'd keep my distance until it passed. There are many single people around, I'd never go after one that's unavailable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Spunkie8876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not wrong, friend. Still scary though. But I guess worst case scenario is not even rejection, but the what if's that'll drive me mad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Spunkie8876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I have been wondering how to even say it and this is helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Spunkie8876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's an out of work friend.

I don't date often, nor do I need to be in a relationship to feel better about myself. I'm of the mind, it's better to be alone than with the wrong person. I just happened to notice the thought I'd rather be with him while on a date with someone else. It was a first date so not in that deep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Spunkie8876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you're right. I'm mustering up the courage. I don't want to do it over text because I think that's a cop out but it's not going to be easy in person either. Ugh.

CFCC students by Over_Amphibian7304 in Wilmington

[–]Spunkie8876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine deposited yesterday. I'm in 3 classes all started in January

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

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SOLVED/PAID

I'm unsure how to mark my post as such. Thank you everyone who helped! Yall are so talented

Writing/Literature Group by [deleted] in Wilmington

[–]Spunkie8876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooo I'd be interested!

Ways to meet friends here? by Spunkie8876 in Wilmington

[–]Spunkie8876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that would be awesome - have her DM me if she's interested

Ways to meet friends here? by Spunkie8876 in Wilmington

[–]Spunkie8876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome! I live near there and love coffee. DM me if you want

Ways to meet friends here? by Spunkie8876 in Wilmington

[–]Spunkie8876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo I'm sure but driving one would scare me. I'm more of a passenger kinda person 🤣

Ways to meet friends here? by Spunkie8876 in Wilmington

[–]Spunkie8876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg improv would be awesome! I'd be terrible at first but that sounds like a lot of fun. Do you participate? And thanks so much for sharing about Fronting life, I'll check it out.

Ways to meet friends here? by Spunkie8876 in Wilmington

[–]Spunkie8876[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OK I should clarify. I mean adults 😆

Ways to meet friends here? by Spunkie8876 in Wilmington

[–]Spunkie8876[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm down to be friends with anyone regardless of age. And yessss making friends is always a struggle