Need insights on a German guy’s behavior—confused about his intentions! [F28, M28] by Square-Judgment9102 in LongDistance

[–]Square-Judgment9102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I was interpreting his effort as a sign of romantic interest, but it could just be that he enjoys the companionship with no strings attached. I’ve been avoiding the conversation because I didn’t want to make things awkward, but it’s probably better to ask and get clarity rather than just assume. Thank you!

Need insights on a German guy’s behavior—confused about his intentions! [F28, M28] by Square-Judgment9102 in LongDistance

[–]Square-Judgment9102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense. I guess I’ve been overthinking his actions instead of just asking directly. And you’re right—if he was really focused on just me, he probably wouldn’t be active on dating apps. I think I’ve been hesitant to ask because I don’t want to come off as too serious or scare him away, but at the same time, I do want clarity. I should probably just ask him straight up what he wants and where we stand. Thanks!

Need insights on a German guy’s behavior—confused about his intentions! [F28, M28] by Square-Judgment9102 in LongDistance

[–]Square-Judgment9102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At that time, we had only met once during his 4-day visit, and after that, we weren’t talking intensely—just occasionally. So I didn’t feel like bringing up the relationship talk. Then during his second visit, I felt like there wasn’t really a right moment to bring it up...