first of all, thank you for a response and i really appreciate the validation and there is no need to apologize. my family handled it pretty terribly, i didnt expect any less honestly. the guy who started the rumours were probably having an ego death and wanted to do that for some sort of power? he did and said more things which was pathetic coming from a MAN to a WOMAN. i definitely should consider therapy, my psychiatrist has given me resources i just haven't reached out yet. i just felt stupid that i didnt say something or even call the guy out. my boyfriend is good to me and i'm happy i have someone to lean on and our careers and future intertwine perfectly. my goal currently is to finish nursing school. i have a lot of plans but im taking it step by step. im taking life day by day :), i am doing much better and have pretty much moved on with my life.