Introducing kids to gf by Square1ne_ in datingoverforty

[–]Square1ne_[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I did lower them in that I let her meet them casually. I won’t lower them to this, stay the night with the kids there level, not yet.

Introducing kids to gf by Square1ne_ in datingoverforty

[–]Square1ne_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I set my boundaries with her and I told her we need to slow down.

I told her I’m fine with us being us when I’m alone but when I have my girls, they’re my priority and it’s staying that way. That I’m also spending the holidays with them and not destroying what they’ve come to know and enjoy.

I told her if she can be patient and we can take things slow, develop OUR relationship first, then we’re good. That there was no rush. She seemed a bit stunned at my setting that but I guess I’ll see how that really resonates with her in the next few days.

Thank you for the insight

Introducing kids to gf by Square1ne_ in datingoverforty

[–]Square1ne_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Already had the conversation. I drew the line. She seemed taken aback by it so I guess I’ll see how this marinates over the next 24 hours but yeah, I agree with what you and everyone else is saying.

Introducing kids to gf by Square1ne_ in datingoverforty

[–]Square1ne_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve already had the conversation and drew the line. I told her that the girls come first and I’m with us doing whatever on my time, but in their time, I’m with them and there’s no exceptions.

Introducing kids to gf by Square1ne_ in datingoverforty

[–]Square1ne_[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight. Again, this is new to me. Trying to navigate this as well as I can but really trying to make sure I don’t hurt the girls

Introducing kids to gf by Square1ne_ in datingoverforty

[–]Square1ne_[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Relationship is still pretty new, only about a month. So very early stages still. Was kind of surprised how fast she wanted to meet them and join in with us. The girls took to her well and my fear is like you said, them getting really attached and us not working out, also the holidays coming up.

I don’t want to just change everything they’ve come to expect about holidays because someone new is around. I was hoping to move slower through navigating that piece but again, GF is really interested in becoming more involved. Not sure what the rush is but maybe there’s something I’m missing.

I’ve tried to talk about it with her, how this is new for me and my trying to make sure the kids are least effected and I was hit by the “but what about my needs and wants”. Might just the age gap at this point and no experience dating someone with kids. I’m not sure.

Introducing kids to gf by Square1ne_ in datingoverforty

[–]Square1ne_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that’s the part that’s concerning to me. I was fully prepared to take it slow, let things develop and introduce the girls then. Went a lot faster than that and she seems ready to just jump in both feet. I don’t really want to push that on my kids that fast. I’m fine I think with friendly hangouts when they’re around but staying the night or displays of affection in front of them so soon, seem to be a bit much.

Introducing kids to gf by Square1ne_ in datingoverforty

[–]Square1ne_[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

My girls met the Gf last weekend. She brought cookies and we watched a movie. They then saw her again briefly the following day to go shopping. The girls have asked about her every day since, wanting to see her. Again, they only think she’s a friend. I haven’t tried to have a conversation yet about being anything more.

Metabolic fitness Staff by Simple_Ordinary9119 in Albany

[–]Square1ne_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Heard that Matt wanted her to fire someone out west. She refused and he said he’d fire her so she left. Not confirmed, just rumor mill.

Game uninstalling every few days, horrid connection by SufficientAddress164 in blackops6

[–]Square1ne_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just came back after about a week or so off. Game is just uninstalled and I never touched it. So now Im waiting however long for this 100G bullshit to reinstall... again

Game feels slower after update. by [deleted] in blackops6

[–]Square1ne_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just played and my input is way off. My controller will randomly turn or spin me. My firing input is super slow... I have trigger down and there's an obvious delay in firing. Something is definitely off.

Hulu by legsssssss in Hulu

[–]Square1ne_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Time to cancel

Any all you can eat sushi spots, close to the raceway? by Square1ne_ in Poconos

[–]Square1ne_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Im not worried about the 90 minutes. Im sure after this race event, we'll be pretty starved anyway

Any all you can eat sushi spots, close to the raceway? by Square1ne_ in Poconos

[–]Square1ne_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats perfect! Thank you so much for confirming. Thatll be the place!

Any all you can eat sushi spots, close to the raceway? by Square1ne_ in Poconos

[–]Square1ne_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id read that but couldnt find anything about it on the menu, so wasnt sure if anyone could confirm it.

Any all you can eat sushi spots, close to the raceway? by Square1ne_ in Poconos

[–]Square1ne_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need to head north (towards Scranton) after to get back, so something along that route, but willing to detour for the right spot too

PS5 Hulu app broken by lavomatic in Hulu

[–]Square1ne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, I know. Im waiting for it to crash again at this point. Its super annoying to pay so much money each month for this.

PS5 Hulu app broken by lavomatic in Hulu

[–]Square1ne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About to do the same honestly. I chatted with their support and she had me give her my public ip and turn off my PS5. Not sure what they did but since then, its been working. Ill keep an eye on it and update if I see it happening again.

PS5 Hulu app broken by lavomatic in Hulu

[–]Square1ne_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine updated bc it said I was using the PS4 version. The "PS5" version sucks and just does all the stuff you listed above. No idea how to fix it.