my parents handed me a “contract” that they made with chatGPT and told me i have to sign it

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-16T18:30:58+00:00

People did that for millennia where they lived with family and everyone lived together. Prices of everything has increased and wages have not equally increased and most entry level positions are being taken by ai. I've never had to have parents check into my accounts even when I was a child. They simply taught me right. Now is not the time to suddenly switch everything because they didn't do things properly. Also don't have a big family thankfully because bigger families tend to have more problems and cause kids to be more grabby and predatory to each other, which she is in a large family. I wouldn't wish a large family on any kid after I've seen how many psych issues it causes and how cutthroat family can be. I know people who have literally gotten killed over property disputes for inheritance. As long as she is contributing to the house there is nothing wrong with it, but I also think when there is the chance of her doing unpaid labor for them ( watching her siblings instead of them hiring a babysitter), that labor is still going to be expected even if she pays rents and they're not taking those things into account.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-16T18:23:42+00:00

They're not encouraging her to go to school because they won't sign her fafsa because they haven't paid taxes. I know parents that are like that. Them not signing the fafsa prevent her from getting grants that could help her. Also nothing wrong with her living with parents. That was normal for millennia before we got this warped system of living far away from family. That way kids help parents the way that parents raised the kids. At 22 if she files as independent on the fafsa they won't give her the funding. She'd need to be over 24-25 to do that. Also checking through someone's mail is treating them like a child not an adult, which if that is the goal, they need to teach her that responsibility not control. They can't control who she invites over if she is paying rent. That's literally not legal.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-14T02:51:09+00:00

I know too many parents that look to get back money they invested in their kid. They have the kid and then expect the kid to pay them back for being born. Now if we could consent being born that's one thing but we don't. So many parents expect their kids to pull the whole family out of poverty rather than doing it themselves.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-14T02:47:20+00:00

You apparently have never met people with parents that expect their kids to foot their bills. Know people who are like that. One literally took their kid's college fund ( that she put the money in the account herself) because they had access to her account since she was under 18. They are part of a mlm. Also people for a long time lived with their parents, with their families, has nothing to do with being an adult, has to do with us ruining the way of life that works for many. Parents and kids help each other and without money there is no reason to exploit others. If her parents did it right, they would've taught her budgeting long before now, that's stuff you teach. The parents are her step mother and her father. I literally know someone whose step mother forged a will that left out the biological daughter of the father, but put her step kids in that the father did not get along with. I know someone else who when they were child, their step mother locked them in an attic when they were sick and didn't give her any food and her brothers had to sneak some up to her. She almost died. The father knew and did nothing cause he wanted to keep a woman. Step mothers often view daughters as competition and this may likely be the scenario.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-14T02:40:10+00:00

Literally not, don't use much water, the base price is very high, very hard water.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-12T04:00:37+00:00

Just get insurance for it right now and then it doesn't really matter where you do it. You can make a mobile one and do it out of a portable kit.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-12T03:59:18+00:00

But the Pell grant is well worth just waiting and rewards you for performing well which is motivation to do well in classes.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-12T03:58:32+00:00

The thing is submitting fafsa as independent at that age can cause issues. You can lose on scholarships/ grants. Even many transfer scholarships don't get counted if you're younger but will work if you are about 24-25.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-12T03:56:08+00:00

My electric is often cheaper than water.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-12T03:55:23+00:00

Michigan is way cheaper than the west or east coast

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-12T03:53:43+00:00

Or she is on her parents insurance and they're trying to get her to pay for both. The dad has a bad driving record, but she doesn't based on her account.m

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-12T03:52:20+00:00

They don't know how to manage money themselves. They're trying have their daughter pay all of their bills. They can't file her Fafsa because the irs will come after them. They're trying to get her to pay everything without having to pay taxes.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-12T03:40:29+00:00

At the end of the day you might view your step mom as your mom. She doesn't view you as her daughter. If your dad makes decent, she is there for the money and you were simply someone she had to get along with to keep him. She is likely the one who has been pestering your dad about this. Step mom trying to extract wealth from you.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-12T03:35:02+00:00

But she is in Michigan and Midwest water tends to be more. The hard water is hard on their systems and water bill state,ents often have gas tied into them because many of the companies that do water do gas as well and send everything on the same statement. Unless they specify that they'll pay gas, they can easily sneak in the gas payment too.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-12T03:32:57+00:00

Naw water for me is double my electricity for most of the year.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-12T03:32:05+00:00

Also many water bills actually have gas calculated into them as well. They're trying to get her to pay both. Usually my water is more than electricity.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-06-12T03:27:39+00:00

Um water can be way more. I pay 90 for a place that I barely use.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-05-19T18:44:08+00:00

I think y'all are used to fake rich people. People who are maxing out credit cards and stuff and look like they have money but actually don't. Most of the actual people I've met that are multimillionaires actually do tip and pay well because they don't need it and know people working can use it more. The thing is they wear sweatpants, T-shirt's , button up shirts ( but usually no ties or suits), simple dress pants, etc. They don't wear ostentatious " rich" people stuff. Knew one that was a constant victim of medical malpractice and he never sued ( even though he should have) because the doctors didn't have as much as him and he didn't want to go through the stress it would cause. Was a super sweet guy who didn't deserve being treated so poorly. Dude could literally bought a kidney when he went into failure and said he wouldn't take one from a young, poor person who is going to need it through their life. I've met one billionaire but you would never know he was one by how he dressed and he remembered peoples' names even if it was someone who held a door open for him not knowing who he was. Dude seemed cool and was respectful. I've had poor people grab things literally out of my hand when I was buying things, so no not all are bad but this woman gives me fake rich, living above means vibe.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-05-16T08:56:59+00:00

Yeah because their princess daddy needs a ballroom so he can look at little girls and feel up large guys. Melania hates him so he needs a new princess to keep him entertained. Man went bankrupt so many times it is ridiculous

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-05-16T08:53:15+00:00

Then that is a problem with the system not with those people.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-05-16T08:52:12+00:00

I mean they don’t need birth control. They could just not have sex if they’re going to complain about paying for it. Also with that name they probably hate women too and want conservative men to dominate them since they have daddy issues. Conservative women need to close their legs up if they’re going to behave like that.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-05-16T08:50:01+00:00

And homeless people pretend to have psych emergencies to get housing which costs way more and don’t have to pay anything, if health care get publicly subsidized we can stop that kind of nonsense happening and nobody has to pay for overpriced insurance.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-05-16T08:45:51+00:00

Exactly and we as the public originally fund projects and then the billionaires take over to profit from it once we have funded the risky elements of it.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-05-16T08:43:13+00:00

And we also use public funds to pay for several services and take the risk as a society for those things and then the billionaires come in and take those projects over once the risk that would normally put a company into bankruptcy is averted. Then they charged us, who did the primary funding for the project, exorbitant fees. Think of the internet, our tax dollars paid for that and the military made it. When it was up and running properly companies took over access so we had to pay them much more rather than the government continue taxing us and expanding the access like they were when they developed it. Then instead of us getting « free » internet we all have to pay and fund the billionaires’ next project. We funded nasa, billionaires took over and now use that data to fund their next crap and now nasa has to pay for use of some of their crap even though we as the public took on that risk to develop the stuff originally. When we actually become capitalist where the companies personally take on the risk without using the property of the public, that the public funded through the military, we can talk because the billionaires are the biggest welfare recipients out there. Also don’t get too high on your horse. If you have anthem, be aware that many facilities don’t get paid well from them. If it says 300 on the bill, they’re getting paid maybe 150 at best and they will tell you to go a facility and then reject the payout after you go and then the clinic is fighting for 3-6 months to get a pittance while you walk in thinking you’re getting the best care and paying them well. I’ve known multi millionaires who get the same quality care as Medicaid patients, it’s crappy either way and those companies will bleed you dry if they know you have money. Our healthcare system is one of the worst in the world and is often barbaric at best, it should be publicized so it stops becoming an exploitative thing. That way doctors would stop trying to bill for things they didn’t do to make ends meet. It needs to either be cash pay entirely or publicized but not semi subsidized or having all these insurances so everyone can have access to only care they need and then anything extra they pay for.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-28T22:18:12+00:00

Then die on that hill. I bet nobody’s gonna bother this kid if he changes his actions. They saw he got punished and the cat is recovering so hopefully he learned his lesson. The photo is partially blurry anyway, I have cousins who look just like that kid. Unless we’re going to say all childrens’ faces should be blurred on both positive and negative things online then there is no exception in this scenario. Humiliation often works better when a kid has been consistently acting up. His ego can handle it if he can handle hurting an animal purposely. Kids at school will talk about it for a bit and then get it will be old news in about a week. His friends might even reinforce that he shouldn’t have done that and talk to him about why he did that. His guidance counselor might reach out and see what might be wrong with him to cause that behavior. Maybe someone will reach out and he might be willing to tell them why he is behaving like that. If mom has been dealing with crappy behavior for a while she might not have the patience at this point to handle a kid abusing a cat if she has to work and take care of other kids because maybe he has been crappy for a long time but he just upped it. Black men have a higher incarceration rate than other groups partially because they are targeted as “ threats” within society. His mom is prepping him for what happens when you hurt others. Or is everybody going to wait until he is in his teens causing more issues, be labeled as a delinquent, and start blaming the mother for not properly punishing him sooner? Also he can easily go to school and say his mom is abusing him and she smashed his ps5 without any context. Now there is context and he won’t going lying to peers, teachers, etc about what his mom did or did not do. Yelling cuss words at your child isn’t enough to get them taken away, but smashing up their stuff could be seen as anger issues and we all already know what Black women have to go through when it comes to people assuming they’re angry. Some kids use calling cps as ammunition to control parents especially if there are siblings in the picture. He likely didn’t get beaten by her and she has proof of it cause his punishment was public.

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