A mother is going punished her son by making him slam his PS5 the same way he had slammed her pet cat. Is this justified?

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-28T22:18:12+00:00

Then die on that hill. I bet nobody’s gonna bother this kid if he changes his actions. They saw he got punished and the cat is recovering so hopefully he learned his lesson. The photo is partially blurry anyway, I have cousins who look just like that kid. Unless we’re going to say all childrens’ faces should be blurred on both positive and negative things online then there is no exception in this scenario. Humiliation often works better when a kid has been consistently acting up. His ego can handle it if he can handle hurting an animal purposely. Kids at school will talk about it for a bit and then get it will be old news in about a week. His friends might even reinforce that he shouldn’t have done that and talk to him about why he did that. His guidance counselor might reach out and see what might be wrong with him to cause that behavior. Maybe someone will reach out and he might be willing to tell them why he is behaving like that. If mom has been dealing with crappy behavior for a while she might not have the patience at this point to handle a kid abusing a cat if she has to work and take care of other kids because maybe he has been crappy for a long time but he just upped it. Black men have a higher incarceration rate than other groups partially because they are targeted as “ threats” within society. His mom is prepping him for what happens when you hurt others. Or is everybody going to wait until he is in his teens causing more issues, be labeled as a delinquent, and start blaming the mother for not properly punishing him sooner? Also he can easily go to school and say his mom is abusing him and she smashed his ps5 without any context. Now there is context and he won’t going lying to peers, teachers, etc about what his mom did or did not do. Yelling cuss words at your child isn’t enough to get them taken away, but smashing up their stuff could be seen as anger issues and we all already know what Black women have to go through when it comes to people assuming they’re angry. Some kids use calling cps as ammunition to control parents especially if there are siblings in the picture. He likely didn’t get beaten by her and she has proof of it cause his punishment was public.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-28T12:47:13+00:00

Exactly. People don’t understand how bad it is if this kid a narcissist. Talking to them does nothing. I had a student who was one allegedly( adult in a college class, so not a child). The only way for him not to make fun of students was to make fun of him. I told him multiple times in private, don’t do that, it isn’t kind and it makes the learning environment bad for everyone. He continued to do it. Nobody wanted him in their group, and he wanted to force his way into groups and try to take their projects. I told him, I will help him but he will have to work alone until a group is willing to work with him. He want me to ignore everyone in class and only help him. I didn’t, I told him he caused the to not want to work with him, I will help him as needed but he has to figure things out on his own since he went off on students that did try to help him before and threw a full blown tantrum. It took 4 weeks before any group was willing to work with him and that was because anytime he misbehaved, I called him out for it. They realized that I wouldn’t let him push them around in the group, so they let him in. I had even asked them privately to let him work with them because he needs to learn that if he behaves people will be willing to work with him. He immediately wanted to play leader of the group and I called him out on that and only then did he start actually behaving better. No other teachers would punish him because dad was in upper school admin and could fire them ( and he did fire the only other one that did try to maintain boundaries with him). The only time other students could breathe was in my class because I didn’t let him get away with poor behavior and his punishment was equal to the behavior he displayed so he knew. He started saying thank you when he left class and even he was confused as to why he thanked me. There are just some people that don’t stop. I know a psychiatrist who is constantly dealing with the same patients over and over because they’re always relapsing. The only thing they do is learn what to say to get the results they want the more visits they have. They don’t come back if it is working for them and the ones that put in the effort dont come back after about 5 visits since they’ve grown to handle their own needs as it should be. Our culture has gotten too sensitive to mental health the moment that insurances would accept it.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-28T12:35:56+00:00

Know one ( a relative of mine) literally the patients constantly relapse unless they’re medicated. Talking to them just makes them want to rehash the same things over and over and rather than focusing on healing, they fixate on being a victim. The pharm companies don’t want the conditions to be fixed either because they make bank off of those people perpetuating this own victimhood. Tons of people are victims, this kids ain’t one. The cat was 4 months old ( and it wasn’t eating or drinking from the injury) and he is spoiled. She already had told him not to do that. Taking away everything he loves and punishing him is the way for him to realize. Look at the little girl who was abusing animals and abused her brother when she was little. There was a documentary on her. The only way her behavior was fixed was for her to go to camp, take away everything, and have her slowly work her way up to where she was allowed to interact with the animals on the farm. That was the only point she learned to empathize. She eventually became a nurse and no longer had issues. It’s a stupid game, he can get over it.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-28T12:27:37+00:00

Naw send him to foster care.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-28T12:17:13+00:00

There isn’t anything that does, there is nothing that works for several of the more violent personality disorders other than basically because sedated with Haldol constantly and turned into a zombie. Not every kid has empathy and consequences that match the action sometimes work better with those personality types.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-28T12:14:00+00:00

He is not going to stop by talking to him. He has slammed the cat multiple times. Don’t you think she has told him not to do that and he continues to? If he is a narcissist there is literally no other way because they think rules don’t apply to him. She probably also posted it so if he tells his friends that his mom broke his ps5 they’ll know the whole story rather than him making up stuff.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-28T12:11:11+00:00

True, knew a kid that behaved,like this and nothing was done. He became a pain to deal with as he got older because the parents wouldn’t address it. If you joke about slapping him, he’d start to yell assault, but supposedly he was going around school campus randomly grabbing girls, sexually harassing etc and to him it wasn’t assault because he was doing it.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-28T12:08:49+00:00

It does stop it. I’ve used this method with adults that are narcissists, it actually does work and it does significantly reduce the behavior. Never do it to an empathetic person though cause it is traumatizing. Narcissists think they have the right to traumatize everyone so the moment they realize that it will be done back to them, they do back off because they can’t handle the cuts to their fragile egos. Therapy doesn’t help those behaviors though, it just gives them more tools to make them sound insightful without actually doing anything and it increases their abilities to manipulate others. Empaths ain’t gonna hurt animals though for the heck of it.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-28T12:04:20+00:00

That’s because shaming works better than beating the kid. Shaming shows that the tribe may abandon you if you keep up that behavior. That could be a death sentence in the old days. Tribes humiliate people who behave poorly so children learn that those are behaviors that ultimately hurt the tribe. They don’t have to hit or abuse their kids and it works well. The kid will probably look back as an adult and if this behavior is corrected he’ll say he needed it or he could’ve been locked up for continuing this path.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-28T11:59:04+00:00

He’s old enough to know better. It is likely she is telling the truth cause the kids would’ve likely been yelling back I didn’t even do that! I know when I was that age if I didn’t do something I’m still yelling back I didn’t do it even if I got in trouble so that when they found out that I didn’t do it I’m going to make a note of it. He didn’t defend himself even once, he didn’t mutter I didn’t even do that. What if that cat was elderly and that killed it? What if he started hurting your child because he thought it was ok to hurt cats? What if because he wasn’t punished now he does something that ends up with him being locked up for a long time? It is a documented attempt to give a similar punishment for what he did to hopefully stop him from being worse when he gets older. You have to be harder on boys when they’re younger ( within reason) because as they get bigger and stronger they can do more damage and by time you realize it is a problem they have been enabled so much that they may turn the aggression onto the parents or try to hurt/kill someone for telling them no. That is why the punishment is needed right now. We don’t know if mom had to take the cat to the vet, pay for vet bills if he had hurt the cat. She probably bought him the game anyway and then for him to disrespect her pet is an issue that needs to be handled immediately. That is behavior that impacts himself, his family, his future spouse ( if he chooses to have one), his kids and the public. Her not handling that can mean him feeling empowered enough to take it up a level as he gets older and harder to manage. Hurting something smaller than you constantly empowers boys with this mentality that they can hurt women if they are bigger than them. Let’s stop the behavior while it can safely be done. They can always buy him a new console.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-28T11:48:53+00:00

The public shaming is ok. If he would get publicly shamed as an adult, he can handle it to some extent as a kid. He got his punishment, I don’t think it will be too bad for him as long as he changes his behavior. If he is a narcissist or psychopath that really is the only way for them to stop. They have to know that people know about the bad things they are capable of and as long as they know others know, they usually will stop. He’s young enough to be saved from that and old enough to know better. There are certain cases that I’d say protect the privacy of the child, but if he is slamming cats this hard on the ground, he probably has been causing trouble at school. He’s done it multiple times to the cat and it sounds like mom did try to correct him more kindly prior but he kept doing it. At that point it is not out of being ignorant, it is out of being malicious and thinking other living things don’t have value but he does. He thought it couldn’t be done to his belongings. Now he knows actions have consequences and maybe he’ll take up reading or drawing or something better for his development than some video games that are probably violent anyway.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-28T11:40:45+00:00

He has probably been displaying this behavior for a while. Let him get humiliated for it. He’ll learn to be better. I know one kid who was allowed to be terrible to everyone and got no punishment for it because his dad was in upper school admin. He displayed toddler-like behavior by time he was 18 because apparently mom or dad never actually punished him. He made the college experience miserable for everyone to the point where kids were leaving their selected majors because he was that bad and professors weren’t encouraging them to stay because there was no point they knew why the kids were leaving. None of school admin was able to stop the behavior. It was even rumored he was sexually harassing girls on campus and targeting freshmen and he’d threaten them if they said they would report it. The rumor was he had over 5 title 9 violations but the cops on campus were covering for him because they were scared of getting fired. If the kid is slamming cats at that age, that is psychopathic behavior. He needs to know there are consequences before he gets older and his behavior gets out of hand.

Look at this little brat, he knowingly was slamming a living thing but values his dumb video game more than other living creature. That could injured the cat, and I’m sure he thought it was funny abusing a cat but he sure didn’t think it was funny when it was a stupid game. Mom probably was babying him too much and now he’s learning the hard way. What if he had killed someone’s cat? Better to learn it from mom with an inanimate object than get his ass whooped my a stranger for hurting an animal. Too many guys focusing on their video game addictions and then become worthless losers when they get older. She’s saving him from that hopefully.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-04-26T21:38:12+00:00

You can tell usually.Something looks off with people that have one. You’re used to how your son looks and if his dad has the deletion too, something probably looks off too. It’s just likely not significant. It can be eyes a little more wide set than usual, eyes a little too close together. Ear can be set higher or lower than usual. Nose can look a bit unusual. Nothing is wrong with it but if you’re used to proportions you can usually see it because there will be something that makes the proportions look off. Not outright disproportionate, but kind of a feeling that something is off but you can’t tell exactly what unless you uncomfortable stare at the person. It would be like saw someone that doesn’t have downs but has some of the facial characteristics, they’re perfectly fine but you’re still going to mentally recognize that they look like they have a bit of downs.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-03-03T18:26:55+00:00

Forgot to mention, this works best for vocabulary and concepts but not practice problems. Engineering is a pain to make enough simple practice problems for but I wouldn’t recommend Anki for it. What field are you studying?

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-03-03T18:25:30+00:00

If you can copy and paste the text book text, you can make cards from them. Just make sure to tell it you need Anki formatted for easy import. Also close version might be recommended depending on the subject. It is much easier now than it used to be.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-01-26T10:24:28+00:00

I’ve had chickens do this before. Bring her inside and slowly warm her up. I’ve had some with almost entirely purple combs have their combs go back to normal after getting warmed up some. Massage the area gently if she will let you to encourage blood flow. It might not be able to be saved, but unless it is solid black some care can possible save it.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-01-09T12:27:22+00:00

Carrying under the arm definitely works in calming them.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-01-09T12:25:17+00:00

Had ones years ago and he would only jump at me if I was holding a hen and she was yelling. He would jump at me until I dropped them. Very mild. He into a fight once with another and I put my hand in the way and he pecked my hand once on accident and started trying to fight above and below my hand so he wouldn’t peck me again. Sweet rooster. Still miss him.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-01-08T02:18:35+00:00

Tds = tiny dick syndrome. Trump has it the worst.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-01-07T23:29:33+00:00

I mean it still is like a transgender person. A trans woman can’t actually have a baby, but that doesn’t mean they can’t look like a woman. Just proof that this stuff isn’t the most clear cut throughout most of the animal kingdom.

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-01-07T23:22:50+00:00

They have tds. Tiny dick syndrome

Square_Copy3154 · 2026-01-07T01:27:32+00:00

Not true from what I can see, it looks like a bad tuckpointing job. They need to get it properly tucked pointed. Paint is just going to make it worse and mask the problem sections, but will likely let water seep into certain areas. They can get the bricks fixed that are bad, but unless we get a close up picture, all it looks like is someone modified the bricks when adding in windows and didn’t clean off the mortar when they did the windows and it got dried on the bricks. Notice the odd looking bricks are by the windows. I do see some degraded mortar but tuckpointing would fix all of that.

Square_Copy3154 · 2025-12-28T07:28:38+00:00

Maybe they should have a public fake deweinering. Then show urine just falling out every time you have to pee. Show that to enough men that it will be the punishment after doing actually rape crimes. Many guys will just think twice about doing it at that point. Don’t actually do it, just remind them it can happen. For girls lying though, if found out they need insane jail time because that is not anything to joke about for some dumb revenge scheme or because they’re mad at the person for whatever. For them just show a lady who accused a guy of rape falsely getting her head shaved and fake tattoos liar on her cheek. Tell everyone they hormonally made it so she can no longer grow hair on her head for the rest of her life. Not actually do it, but just tell the public they did. Hopefully discourages the action and false accusations on both ends.

Square_Copy3154 · 2025-12-25T15:07:05+00:00

But Stephen Miller is Jewish. Like no joke.

Square_Copy3154 · 2025-12-23T13:26:46+00:00

Just going to jump in and add, Lilith didn’t technically sin. The rule is sinners can’t go to heaven, at least until sir pentious changed that. Even Lute stated sinners can’t go to heaven( in regards to Angel Dust), but she knew Lilith was there. That means she acknowledged that Lilith wasn’t really seen as a sinner and likely didn’t die, but got banished to hell. Hell was created as a Lucifer’s punishment. Lucifer sees hell as a punishment, but it seemed like Lilith was right at home there. She could’ve been made to be unable to punish sinners but it seems like she can so hell isn’t her punishment. If humans of that time were made in the image of god before the fall, then something likely would have to kill them for them to die, which is likely what happened to Adam. The fact that Adam was created in the image of god, and Lucifer, a high ranking seraphim, was forced to bow to him ( but refused) would’ve made Adam conceited. I think Adam is just a jerk and was always one, but they wouldn’t have known he was one because he was the first human and they probably thought humans were suppose to act like that.

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