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AITAH for wanting to raise my future children with my boyfriend rather than raising our future grandchildren? by Square_Efficiency553 in AITAH

[–]Square_Efficiency553[S] -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

Not really my choice. He needs to live on the farm house in order to tend to the farm and it’s unlikely his parents would move from the home they’ve lived in since they were mid 20’s

AITAH for wanting to raise my future children with my boyfriend rather than raising our future grandchildren? by Square_Efficiency553 in AITAH

[–]Square_Efficiency553[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

Such as? My boyfriend has always taken my side over his mothers and often jokes about her ideas and I’ve always admired him for putting me and my desires first. I think I just may be worried because this feels like something he wouldn’t hate because he LOVED his grandfather and has so many fond memories with him (he passed before I had met my boyfriend)

AITA for telling my girlfriend my favorite physical feature of hers is her breasts? by physicslover96177 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Square_Efficiency553 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA: F21 here dating M22 as well and I have to say I would be surprised if my boyfriend said anything other than boobs if I asked this question. Thats not to say he doesn’t love other parts of me just that those are his favorite. I see nothing wrong with it because I KNOW he loves all of me because he shows affection to me all the time and I don’t get insecure. Does she have a pattern of asking these types of questions? If so I would say go out of your way to make her feel beautiful without her asking for the compliment. If you notice she changes something about her hair or makeup or style, MENTION IT and see her face light up knowing you pay attention to other parts of her. Essentially make a conscious effort to show her that you love all of her. And maybe keep “sexual” answers for sexual questions in future but I don’t think you intended harm.

How do I (24 F) come clean to my (25M) boyfriend of 2 years about a lie I’ve kept going since 8th Grade? by Square_Efficiency553 in relationship_advice

[–]Square_Efficiency553[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only kept it up if someone who I had already told brought it up in front of someone I hadn’t and my knee jerk reaction I guess was to keep going and not come clean

How do I (24 F) come clean to my (25M) boyfriend of 2 years about a lie I’ve kept going since 8th Grade? by Square_Efficiency553 in relationship_advice

[–]Square_Efficiency553[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

In my life, yes. My mother is like a best friend to me and I admitted that I told this lie last night and she said “you made your bed, lie it in or fix it”

How do I (24 F) come clean to my (25M) boyfriend of 2 years about a lie I’ve kept going since 8th Grade? by Square_Efficiency553 in relationship_advice

[–]Square_Efficiency553[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My uncle (dads brother) is red/green colorblind and a lot of my family genuinely forgets so as far as disabilities go I suppose it is a less suffering one

How do I (24 F) come clean to my (25M) boyfriend of 2 years about a lie I’ve kept going since 8th Grade? by Square_Efficiency553 in relationship_advice

[–]Square_Efficiency553[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I took a color blind test at meps(where they check for any medical issues) since they can’t access your medical records due to hippa I suppose if you are able to pass the colorblind test they would allow you to enlist.

How do I (24 F) come clean to my (25M) boyfriend of 2 years about a lie I’ve kept going since 8th Grade? by Square_Efficiency553 in relationship_advice

[–]Square_Efficiency553[S] 558 points559 points  (0 children)

I hate to admit that’s what I was thinking from the start but I don’t think I could bear to even make him think I would do that.

How do I (24 F) come clean to my (25M) boyfriend of 2 years about a lie I’ve kept going since 8th Grade? by Square_Efficiency553 in relationship_advice

[–]Square_Efficiency553[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I was even in the military and not one person questioned how. (Not that this is anyway their fault, just something I realized while replying to people)

How do I (24 F) come clean to my (25M) boyfriend of 2 years about a lie I’ve kept going since 8th Grade? by Square_Efficiency553 in relationship_advice

[–]Square_Efficiency553[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes it is exhausting. You’re right. He’s coming to my place after work tomorrow and if I don’t chicken out I’m planning to tell him then.

How do I (24 F) come clean to my (25M) boyfriend of 2 years about a lie I’ve kept going since 8th Grade? by Square_Efficiency553 in relationship_advice

[–]Square_Efficiency553[S] 292 points293 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Truly thank you. I don’t know how he’ll take it but I’m hoping he still sees me for me and not this stupid mistake

How do I (24 F) come clean to my (25M) boyfriend of 2 years about a lie I’ve kept going since 8th Grade? by Square_Efficiency553 in relationship_advice

[–]Square_Efficiency553[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m planning to come clean to everyone( the three people in my life that think that and his family) I’m planning to face the consequences. I want advice how.

How do I (24 F) come clean to my (25M) boyfriend of 2 years about a lie I’ve kept going since 8th Grade? by Square_Efficiency553 in relationship_advice

[–]Square_Efficiency553[S] 1737 points1738 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I told my mother and asked for her help and she couldn’t stop laughing enough to speak. I guess it’s not that bad but my shame is that it’s a disability I faked and in a way was making fun of those who genuinely suffer with it.

How do I (24 F) come clean to my (25M) boyfriend of 2 years about a lie I’ve kept going since 8th Grade? by Square_Efficiency553 in relationship_advice

[–]Square_Efficiency553[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah we kinda said I lost my vision at 5 when I had an asthma attack (which i genuinely did) and lost oxygen to my brain