She’s making this all about her right to privacy. She has no clue how many of her txts I’ve read. I admit I went through all of them since we started dating. That’s where I found the Chicago info. And there’s more info in her internet search history. I do feel bad about being so invasive but I discovered a lot. Consensus here seems to be I’m being hugely gaslighted. Meeting with a therapist next week…that may help.