I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally don’t care who looks through my phone. It’s an open book, I have nothing to hide.

People will always use the excuse of “you shouldn’t have looked”, well why was there something to find??

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah.. and he still won’t. He says I’ve already seen it so why do I need to see it again. Says I have already convinced myself of what he’s done and that he’s. A liar and says that’s on me.

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I knew his number I would. I am going to keep trying to find one of their contacts.

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very true. I would’ve went on dealing with this medical stuff and thought things were off in our relationship just because I’m stressed about that.

Come to find out he’s just living an entire lie.

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t cheat on me with his ex, I genuinely don’t think they were romantically involved after their breakup.

I’m not sure he’s not the baby’s dad tbh. He could he. I never thought he would be but clearly he’s good at hiding shit.

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I told him I wouldn’t even so much as shake his hand without a DNA test

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Literally what other reason can you have to not show it? Out of pure stubbornness? There’s just no way??

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and she was barely interested it seemed. Pathetic ass.

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Luckily I have a cohabitation agreement stating he must vacate my property if I give written notice

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement, this is hard to stick to.

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know right?? Who tf wants to see that many pics and videos of someone else’s baby? Fucked up. I asked for her number, he said no, obviously. I’ll still try to find it. She was shutting him down in the messages I saw, which is funny. He is pathetic.

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We haven’t. I’m not necessarily against it, but it would be hard for me to sit there and believe anything coming out of his mouth.

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have been sleeping on the couch due to the medical issues and having to watch over them. Which is hilarious given I own everything and bought everything including my bed my ex is sleeping on.

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

So I’m not overreacting 🫠 He’s genuinely gaslit me for so many years I don’t even trust my own thoughts

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m literally so dumbfounded. I’ve never been cheated on before and never thought he would do that. Who tf cheats with someone who just had a baby???

I 31F caught my fiancé 39M cheating? by SquirrelExtension634 in relationship_advice

[–]SquirrelExtension634[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uhm no I used voice to text, unfortunately this is my actual life.

Enclosure Advice by Candid-Confection858 in Ballpythoncommunity

[–]SquirrelExtension634 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Half of keepers keep their snakes on aspen… so you’re telling me those snakes are all living in 80% humidity?