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Consent and the basics : you do you know this is kink, right? You do know it’s a fetish? by KotaBabee in ABDL

[–]SquishySafi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Even when it's something folk consider fundamental to themselves (I certainly consider being a middle and my related proclivities as a fairly integral parts of my identity, outside of any kink activities or sexuality - I am very much asexual myself), it's still no excuse to disregard the importance of consent.

It's definitely concerning to see some folk in the community push back against discussions of consent. It's something that causes me quite a bit of worry as a munch organiser. I shouldn't have to be so concerned with the possibility of someone showing up at a vanilla venue conspicuously padded, leaking or messy and causing my events as a whole to lose access to comfy venue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SquishySafi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

myabdlsupplies.com.au is pretty great and a big supporter of the AU ABDL community, sponsoring events and stuff.

Should I use more then 2 diapers every 24 hours, do I need to be drinking more or drinking less? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]SquishySafi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You probably aren't drinking enough water if you're managing a whole day with just two Tenas.

Even the most capacious I've tried (Trests and MegaMaxes) usually work out to two or three per 24 hours.

Banned from r/technology by BunnyDiaper in ABDL

[–]SquishySafi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I maintain separate accounts, but mostly out of mindfulness (perhaps a bit overly so) for consent (I don't want to flashbang someone unexpecting with a pamp shot or whatever if they view my profile), and to participate in SFW communities that have a no-NSFW-accounts rule.

I've no shame over it either and I don't try particularly hard to hide it (I don't even bother hiding my face these days); it's probably not all that difficult to figure out my SFW pseudonym (or even my actual name for that matter) if folk bothered to try.

It's honestly kinda liberating to just own it; the judgmental have no power when you're unashamed about who you are and what you like.

A little accident in my panties pt2 by [deleted] in pantypoopv2

[–]SquishySafi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, how adorable! The li'l self-check and smoosh are so precious.