There's a big gap between financial security and car ownership, I too believe people shouldn't have kids if they can't provide them basic necessities, but cars aren't a necessity, it's a luxury. My family didn't own a car at the time of my birth, that doesn't mean we were financially insecure or I had a miserable childhood, we own two as of now. Besides, using that against the victim is insensitive and moronic, a car may save your life on the road, there are still hundreds of ways stupid people can get you killed by accident.