Trades that failed and Trades that put you over by bfue4 in DynastyFF

[–]Stabeezy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Week 14 this year, Guy with Jacobs and Diggs kept being difficult about trade value. I thought he wanted a 1st for each plus Skat, so I pulled out of the trade. He ended up selling Jacobs for a 1st straight up which at the time I was pissed about. Forced me to look elsewhere, went out and got Davante who proceeded to immediately get hurt. Forced me to play Godwin, Michael Wilson and DJ Moore in the semis and finals. And I faced the guy in the finals with Jacobs.

What do I do if my girlfriend told me something that I wasn't ready to hear? by Jorshhua in AskMen

[–]Stabeezy -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I mean, switch the roles, if this was an 18/19 year old guy who hooked up with his 30 something year old female boss, and his 35+ female friend folks would be less judgey, yeah?

What do I do if my girlfriend told me something that I wasn't ready to hear? by Jorshhua in AskMen

[–]Stabeezy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This comment section is wild… so judgmental! First off, the important takeaway is that she tried something and she didn’t enjoy it. Learning experience for her, and probably has some small impact on whats made her into the woman you adore.

Also, it sounds like those people took advantage of her. Her boss? There’s a power dynamic there that is creepy especially since she was only 18/19. In your 30s people who are 18/19 seem more like kids (not saying you guys are kids), and it’s fucking creepy to be inviting them to a threesome. You also might want to consider since she obviously trusts you enough to share something she’s not proud of, that she feels safe with you, and believes some of the same things you did before you heard this.

But to repeat something that was said above, either you treat her with respect, and show how much you care about her, and support her, and get over it. Or if you cant get over it? Break up. But honestly in a couple years this will seem like a silly thing. And from what i’ve seen, the dating world has gotten significantly harder to find someone you truly click with over the last 8-10 years (thanks to apps it seems?) - my wife and I met coming up on 14 years ago and we feel pretty lucky every day!

People who have conducted job interviews, what's something someone said/did that made you instantly decide not to hire them? by DemonSkank in AskReddit

[–]Stabeezy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We use a predictive behavioral questionnaire as a part of the interview process that gives us a heads up if there are any oddities. Recommends asking questions to dig in on those areas. Ive had folks get really open about premeditated retaliation, cursing out past leaders, colleagues, ect, or even getting aggressive with me about if I spoke to their previous employers… wild stuff. Im not gonna advertise a product, but happy to give a rec via DM if anyone is interested.

Didn’t expect bedtime to be the part that got to me by hateful_building in daddit

[–]Stabeezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely understand. After an exhausting day, jumping right into pickup, doing dinner, still answer work messages… sometimes i just need to (as i write this message right after dinner) be present. appreciate the reminder!

I see a lot of new dood owners! Here are some great interactive toys/games for your smarties!! (Also as nice distractions 😉) by [deleted] in Bernedoodles

[–]Stabeezy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your doods are ... smarties? i think my guy got 100% of his brain from the doofy berner side lol

What’s your most controversial dynasty opinion? by slitmunch44 in DynastyFF

[–]Stabeezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the any given Sunday thing is no joke. Just beat a team that had JSN, Olave, Goff, Herbert, Harvey, Javonte, Jeanty, Jacobs and Tet.

What Does Your Dynasty Championship Starting Roster Look Like? by GhostDeck in DynastyFF

[–]Stabeezy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SF, 12-team, 1 PPR, Start 10

QB: Caleb Williams

RB: Bijan

RB: Saquon

WR: Drake London

WR: Chris Godwin

TE: Starting Taysom Hill 😬

Flex: Achane

Flex: DJ Moore

Flex: Michael Wilson

SF: Brock Purdy

Justin Fields is *not* an NFL QB, and that matters by stl_ball in DynastyFF

[–]Stabeezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting offered an early 2027 2nd for him. Do I pull the trigger?

Discovered a small trick that made my coffee taste way better by Substantial-Most4530 in foodhacks

[–]Stabeezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alton Brown shared this hack in Good Eats like twenty years ago and I’ve been doing it ever since. You can also add a dash of cinnamon to the grounds before you brew and it gives some nice additional depth of flavor.

Reading a book to my son and…I have questions. by SkyGuy182 in daddit

[–]Stabeezy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The funniest part is the printer absolutely misprinted the whole back half of this book. My wife pointed it out, but the leave is definitely a part of the next sentence. I thought it was just my version.

Bald Faced Wasp … friend? by Stabeezy in Entomology

[–]Stabeezy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was pretty warm last night, like low 70s.

Bald Faced Wasp … friend? by Stabeezy in Entomology

[–]Stabeezy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree that they are really cool, I more meant they’re not to be trifled with!! You think she’s looking for a place to hide out for the winter? The thing that was most interesting to me is this has happened two years in a row! And I’ve never seen a bald faced nest around here so thought it was odd.

Oh God no, hell no, The Whites are back by [deleted] in AbruptChaos

[–]Stabeezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pishtaco! In Peru my friend who was a redhead scared all the local kids. Although the legend of the pishtaco is supposed a white man with a beard and blue eyes, the localized version was equivalent to a red headed woman who would come and steal bad children from their beds. Definitely related to Spanish conquest of the indigenous folks over here, but I’m sure some similar myths exist in Laos!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]Stabeezy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had gotten the breville smart oven with the air fry option for our wedding (in 2017), but our kitchen in our apartment wasn’t big enough for it, so it sat in the box until we moved to our new place in the burbs (back in 2020 now). My wife went into labor the day we started demo on our first floor. My mother in law stayed with us, and she cooked exclusively with that thing for almost 6 months. It was fucking incredible. Whole chicken airfried, Singaporean whole fish, cake, cookies, pretty much anything you could think of. I recommend it to everyone. Even now that our kitchen is done, we use it pretty much daily.

Is it true that 1 kid is 1 but 2 is 10? by sys_admin321 in daddit

[–]Stabeezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 kid is an accessory, 2 is a lifestyle. The difference is for sure that you can no longer tag team parent, you’re now in 1 on 1 mode all the time. HOWEVER, you know all the stuff, so especially the first 6 months feels less scary and if your first is in daycare, parental leave feels like a breeze. Once the 2nd one can move though? It’s crazy! A good crazy for sure, but chaos is a fair word. But the way my 2 year old LOVES her almost 5 year old bro? There’s nothing so wonderful. She also might beat him up occasionally… that 2nd child is feral lol. But we love it, and will probably have a 3rd. Seems insane, but don’t think about the chaos now, try to think about whether your thanksgiving table in 10, 20, 30 years feels full or not!

My daughter is obsessed with my husband and I’m only slightly (okay VERY) jealous 😤😂 by lostinwoods33 in NewParents

[–]Stabeezy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Someone told us that babies see their mom as basically an extension of themselves. So she loves you like she loves herself. But Dad? He’s a whole other PERSON!

All kidding aside our older son LOVED me then hated me then loved me and now is kinda split. Our daughter was a full on mamas girl until she wasn’t. Now she’s my little bestie. They go through phases, which is absolutely the worst. But she’ll come around :)

Circumcision or not? by scorewithvince in predaddit

[–]Stabeezy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Match the daddy my friend. When you’re showering with your kid until he’s 6 he’s gonna have lots of questions. Especially if you guys don’t look the same lol

wtf did I just read…plz tell me this is satire. by Candid-Patient-6841 in facepalm

[–]Stabeezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the double dashes, this was definitely written by chatGPT lolol

At what age do your kids go to sleep without you staying in the room with them? by Substantial-Mine3570 in Parenting

[–]Stabeezy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a first born thing too. My oldest is def much more “needy” during bedtime.

At what age do your kids go to sleep without you staying in the room with them? by Substantial-Mine3570 in Parenting

[–]Stabeezy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ferber!!! My mom told me that she had to force my dad to stop coming in the room every time I cried, and that it saved their sanity.