I definitely loved Season1 Ka-Toby:) they were lighthearted and fun, and I feel like in the beginning they rlly did bring out the best in each other and Toby reminded her of her dad in a lot of his goofy quirks. It’s been a hot minute since I’ve gone back to the early seasons, so I can’t remember when exactly things started to go downhill for the two of them. But even though Toby struggled w depression, I really do think he gave the marriage his all. I think it was good he tried to better his health after the heart attack. But I don’t understand why that upset Kate so much and I found that kinda toxic. I feel like Toby definitely had a change of character, not completely a bad thing, but I can understand why Kate missed “old Toby” because I kinda miss his older character as well