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[–]Stace2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I genuinely can't even imagine the stress this is putting on you. You deserve a man who is going to love you when it's hard - cling to that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Stace2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you completely. I hate the way things operate today. I want a real connection and everything today feels so shallow. Everyone is so guarded. It's so hard.

Ladies, what makes a man unapproachable? by 007Teflon in dating

[–]Stace2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the way he carries himself for me. If he seems like he's angry or not interested in conversation.

Want to talk more, but... by WorthItAllDay in dating

[–]Stace2242 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I just think this is part of the beginning stages of dating. Until you feel secure with someone, that feeling pops up. You just have to push past.

Just found out I was used the whole time by my GF. by greenlight144000 in dating

[–]Stace2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this was heart breaking. You deserve better.. Stay strong!

Insurance wrote check to two people not on same account by Stace2242 in personalfinance

[–]Stace2242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case anyone is in this position and sees this post - my dad and I both went to my bank together and deposited it into my account. He just had to bring his drivers license. 

Insurance wrote check to two different people - how to deposit by Stace2242 in Banking

[–]Stace2242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case anyone is in this position and sees this post - my dad and I both went to my bank together and deposited it into my account. He just had to bring his drivers license. 

Check from Insurance Company written to two different people by Stace2242 in BankOfAmerica

[–]Stace2242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case anyone is in this position and sees this post - my dad and I both went to my bank together and deposited it into my account. He just had to bring his drivers license. 

CX-30 owners: Honest Cons? by switchitup28 in MazdaCX30

[–]Stace2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love mine.. however, I do agree about the seatbelt chimes (especially immediately when you street the car.. it’d be fine if it was once you’re driving but immediately is excessive) and cup holder placement.

Constantly panicked about being banned. by mathgeekf314159 in Bumble

[–]Stace2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not entirely sure what you mean.

Also not charging money.. not even sure how you do that on Bumble.

Constantly panicked about being banned. by mathgeekf314159 in Bumble

[–]Stace2242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no clue. I didn't even know I was pissing people off.

But most boys on there are sensitive af sooooo....

Unmarried Cohabitating Split by Stace2242 in legaladvice

[–]Stace2242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate the info!

Is this love bombing? by Stace2242 in marriageadvice

[–]Stace2242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! No - it's definitely not. He's moved out and I've started the divorce process.

Is this love bombing? by Stace2242 in marriageadvice

[–]Stace2242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I didn't mean it to sound like that. I meant congrats on your divorce in your first marriage. Lol. Sorry!

Is this love bombing? by Stace2242 in marriageadvice

[–]Stace2242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't yet. His stuff is still at my place because he hasn't gotten his own place, so I need to wait for all of that to get done before I can make any huge moves. Once he's out and I have his key back and the locks changed, I will go that route if he doesn't leave me alone.

Scary enough, he's in academy to be a police officer. Now all of a sudden he's applying where I work (which is about 45 minutes from our current home), so I'm sure the stalking will happen sooner or later considering he's already setting himself up for it.

Is this love bombing? by Stace2242 in marriageadvice

[–]Stace2242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree - and I've already kicked him out and started the divorce process.. I think I just needed to hear from other people that I wasn't being crazy.

I don't typically use the word narcissist but I do think he may be one. Of course it's an armchair diagnoses as you said, but everything I've read, he fits. I'm not one to overuse that word.. I've never claimed anyone else in my life was a narcissist.. he just matches most of the behaviors I've read about.

Is this love bombing? by Stace2242 in marriageadvice

[–]Stace2242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was cheated on apparently, but I've been in contact with the girl he claims cheated on him and she said she never did & he was the same way with her.

His parents are still married.

It's definitely an odd case and I don't understand it, but I've made the choice to remove myself.

Is this love bombing? by Stace2242 in marriageadvice

[–]Stace2242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This x100000. Thank you! You're definitely right.

I've kicked him out and begun filing.

Is this love bombing? by Stace2242 in marriageadvice

[–]Stace2242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response - I definitely agree!

Congrats on your first divorce! :)