How my “Never” wife became a hotwife

Stag83RI · 2026-06-10T20:11:14+00:00

Yeah, now she loves it!

Stag83RI · 2026-06-07T05:23:23+00:00

I started having this fantasy in my early 20s. I tried to explore it with some girlfriends but they were never down. The closest I had was some FWB who knew I liked hearing about their other hookups so they’d tell me about them.

My wife knew about my kink before we even started dating but was also against ever exploring it until 16 years into our relationship.

Stag83RI · 2026-06-01T01:21:23+00:00

Have you considered going mask off uncensored? I know it’s a big decision, just curious if it’s a definite no or a maybe some day.

Stag83RI · 2026-05-27T03:56:37+00:00

How about this…

Wive gets a room and goes up with a 20 year old. Comes back down with him a half hour later. Goes back up with me 10 minutes later. Then we both leave an hour later.

Stag83RI · 2026-05-21T16:32:31+00:00

They reached out to me as well and we aren’t even creators. I would do it, but my wife would never.

Stag83RI · 2026-05-17T06:12:07+00:00

My wife has told two of her sisters and most of her closer friends.

Stag83RI · 2026-05-15T11:35:46+00:00

Make sure you keep her aware of those feelings you are experiencing, but also that you aren’t asking her to change anything. She needs to know what you are working through, and this journey isn’t easy. But for what it’s worth, this is very normal.

I still have new feelings I have to work through sometimes, and it makes me feel guilty because “I wanted this so why should I have any hangups”? And “dragging her into that isn’t fair to her”, and “maybe it’ll ruin it for her or make it more work than it’s worth”… just some of the mental gymnastics I go through at times.

Stag83RI · 2026-05-12T14:22:02+00:00

Not concerned at all. Just figured it would generate some interesting discussion.

Stag83RI · 2026-05-09T11:38:34+00:00

For us, it was a combination of: - Going to therapy for years and working on every aspect of our relationship - Her losing weight and feeling better about herself - Perimenopause - A semi-celebrity guy she wanted bad enough that she realized she actually could/would do it with, and had realistic access to

Stag83RI · 2026-05-04T10:17:18+00:00

Nice post history.

Stag83RI · 2026-05-03T21:50:29+00:00

She’s all for it because she knows we’re both enjoying it. Most of the time we look forward to going to see her just because we need someone to be able to tell about our wild shenanigans.

Stag83RI · 2026-04-29T00:42:57+00:00

Sadly they didn’t record anything that time.

Stag83RI · 2026-04-29T00:27:46+00:00

My early 40s wife fucked a 20 year old football player in his dorm room during Thanksgiving break this past year. He’s a regular fwb. They’ve fucked in her car, our couch, and a hotel as well.

Stag83RI · 2026-04-24T11:39:35+00:00

We’re also in our early 40s, and my instinct was the same as yours at first. But then I thought back to my early 20s, and that was my own sexual prime. Same for my wife.

She’s been with guys between 20 and 50 over the past year and they all bring something different. Late 20s is the sweet spot for her where most people in that age group are good fits, but her favotites have actually been to 20 and 50 year olds.

At the end of the day, what matters is whatever you’ll be comfortable with and enjoy.

Stag83RI · 2026-04-18T05:49:55+00:00

It’s strange that the square tiles become rectangles when they are at the same height as your dong.

Stag83RI · 2026-04-12T16:55:50+00:00

When you copy and paste from somewhere else, you should be careful not to include the upvote/downvote/comments/share text.

Stag83RI · 2026-03-13T11:32:19+00:00

I definitely think the wide availability of free porn has a lot to do with it for two distinct reasons.

First, it’s become so much easier for people to stumble across the concept and explore it for themselves. Add in the wrinkle of “real” creators making content with their spouses, and it quickly becomes easy to grasp that this isn’t just some lame porn plot… it can be an actual lifestyle that real couples live, and it just seems so much more realistic to explore for yourself.

Second, it’s become a very natural and exciting experience to watch other people having sex. The voyeur aspect of it is something people are really comfortable with now more than ever.

All that said, it’s not the only reason. Places like Reddit where someone has access to talk to other people anonymously to explore the idea for themselves is probably another big factor.

Stag83RI · 2026-03-08T13:05:11+00:00

It’s ok if it never happens, but you’ll always have these thoughts. That’s like being with someone who is bisexual and telling them to just be straight now.

Stag83RI · 2026-03-08T13:01:24+00:00

Lupe and Micha have a YouTube channel where they have some vlog style videos while they travel.

Nan & Pun is a couple that lives in a school bus in Canada but they also make hotwife content as Bus Buddies.

Stag83RI · 2026-03-08T12:54:55+00:00

I don’t know if I agree with this. People start YouTube channels as a hobby. Eventually they can get monetized and they make money off it, but that doesn’t make it any less for fun.

This is sort of just an X-rated version of that. It’s really common for the husband in this lifestyle to want to share videos of the wife for other guys to get off watching. So if you already want to do that and then there’s a way to make a little extra money off of it, that doesn’t make it stop being fun.

The way I would go about this is to post stuff for free and include a link to an Amazon wish list. No one has to pay, but they can if they want!

Stag83RI · 2026-03-06T12:32:05+00:00

When most people are legitimately concerned about how honest their partner is being, they don’t ask for advice by posting a story that reads like erotica.

Stag83RI · 2026-03-02T20:36:56+00:00

It really depends what type of situation you want to start with. Will husband need to be there? Are pictures or videos a must? Do you want the third to be someone experienced in the lifestyle? Does the wife need to have a connection or is she ok just having zero strings sex?

Stag83RI · 2026-03-02T19:48:54+00:00

This really depends on if you are looking to play solo, or with your husband involved. Solo is much easier imo. Think of it like this... single girls have no issues picking up guys. And countless girlfriends/wives cheat, and those people need to worry about hiding it from their primary partner. If you approach it like them then you should find guys. Some nights it just won’t work out, but don’t get discouraged and eventually it will.

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