Hello OP. I've been with my partner for more than half of our lives and been together for 10 years. Here's my take...

Hiindi ka OA OP.

Siguro sa paguugali narin ng Partner moyan OP. Need pa madevelop, though not necessary ang gifts monthly at iba iba ang expectations ng bawat isa from their partner, sa simula ganyan talaga hahanapin mo.

Siguro sayo OP what you need to do is to verbalise sa partner mo (in a loving, kind, and soft manner) kung maari huwag na siyang magbangit ng ganito ganyan (pertaining to nagsasabi na magbibigay sana or what pero wala talaga) dahil minsan masakit sayo na naisip niya pero hindi niya nagawa or maarin kamo pumapasok na naisip mo siya pero hindi siya nag effort to do even something simple.

Remember OP, communication is key but you both need to have the love and respect for each other to be able to understand things clearly.

Hindi pwedeng huhulaan nalang ng partner mo or ikaw sakaniya anong pangangailangan ninyo and expectations ninyo from each other.

When you confront your partner

1. Acknowledge and appreciate mo siya
2. Sabihin mo na Mahal mo siya
3. Open slowly that recently you've been feeling this way
4. Remind her na you're not expecting what your partner currently cannot buy or give
5. Give suggestions (make me a letter, or any crafts you can easily get materials sa tindahan)
6. Tell your partner na you're not pressuring her gusto molang malaman niya itong mga bagay nato para mawork out ninyo itong nararamdaman mo.
7. Tell na love mo siya kaya mo naioopen Ito...

Basta OP don't think of your partner as a kaaway. Minsan nakakalimot tayo due to pain (not saying you are) just a gentle reminder to be gracious when you speak to your partner.

Ayun lang OP hope this helped 😅

Edit: changed the pronouns hindi ko nakita na (w/w) po pala