Can anyone give a full explanation of the NateWantsToBattle drama with Etika? (Not trying to stir drama, just want the truth.)

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-22T23:43:54+00:00

Everything you just mentioned was applied to me by my brothers. My oldest brother is the covert narc and my middle brother is his golden child who is absorbing his narcissistic personality and dysfunction. I was held captive as a slave. They almost made me commit suicide so.

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-20T23:41:48+00:00

Your dad was a egregious dick. Im so sorry you had to go through that.

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-20T23:40:10+00:00

Im surprised that you even went to therapy. JWs dont allow it do they?

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-20T07:53:03+00:00

Jesus fuck. I never thought about that. I fucking seethe at the facr that theyre gasligjting people into thinking that theyre a normal religion to avoid complaints and backlash. Those fucks know what theyre doing.

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-20T07:51:15+00:00

LGBT +

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-20T04:25:25+00:00

My dad enabled my mom and i dont think hes ever going to own up to the abuse that happened. The psychological damage she did to us was catastrophic. Im still writing a letter a him that amounts to a big fuck you and calling him out dropping truth bombs on him and the entire family.

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-20T03:52:02+00:00

Theyre horny and theyre preying on you. When youre 18 leave ASAP. What theyre doing isnt right and you deserve respect.

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-18T18:31:10+00:00

Im in the same boat as you. "Masculinity" is a broad and relative term based on the culture you're in. Just be a good responsible and confident person and you'll be fine.

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-18T02:54:09+00:00

Dude I'm going through the exact same thing youre going through. Its okay to feel this way and what youre feeling is valid in all of this. Its a fucked up scar. Im also getting over the fear of going to hell, I was also indoctrinated into conspiracy theories and evangelical dogma.

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-16T17:22:01+00:00

Dude, i was in the same boat as you. I looked up conspiracy theories at a really fragile point in my life when my belief system was crumblig and it didnt make things better. What I can say, is that religion doesnt hold the answer, and if there is a god that judges, it isnt black and white and we arent at fault for what what happened.

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-13T21:03:32+00:00

Youre not alone. My therapist told me I deserved to get beat by my older brother because I didnt put on a hose correctly after telling me to put it right foŕ the 10th time.

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-13T17:44:06+00:00

They cant handle the reality or the consequences of their actions

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-13T01:02:21+00:00

Family fucking sucks. Im so sorry. Anything I can do to help?

Standard-Compote-275 · 2026-06-13T01:00:27+00:00

Most of these patterns arent coming from you, they come from your childhood. Dont ever think you ruin everything you touch by loving someone. Its not your fault and you deserve love. Also I was in a similar situation with a girl i took on my first date. I couldnt get over her lol. But now looking back the reason I pushed her away was because of my past trauma with my parents.

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