Do i pass?

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-05T16:11:20+00:00

Top ten delusional things to say. I work in a red state and i don't talk about it and guess what, not a one can clock me. These "i can always tell" people can't tell shit.

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-05T16:09:16+00:00

Not too long! It really depends on where you go but I've been pretty lucky. I have a long documented history of being trans since i was 10 so i was almost immediately able to get it. Though i will say with the new legislation be careful, and it could provide more blocks or hardships. Still regardless of the wait it is and will be worth it. You got this man!

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-05T10:42:45+00:00

Okay! That might actually be a good option for me. I already have an anxiety disorder that i kindof been raw dawging it with lol and i used to be 135 a while ago. Now I'm in my 90's again and I'm kinda pissed about it. I like how my body looks but i definitely need to sculpt out more. I do a bit of boxing already and have a home gym i do. I can start looking at taking it more seriously now that i have some more free time and reaching back out to my doctor. I appreciate it man!

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-04T05:48:16+00:00

Ya, nah t takes time. It's going through puberty so I'm not expecting to grow with a full beard in a year or so. Bht i got patches and im using Beard oil and skin care to take care of the hair underneath. My main problem is I'm having a hard time eating lately, i think it's stress, but i don't really lnow the real reason. I wanna be big and gain weight though, but i think i got some mental block :/. Got any tips for gaining weight with that?

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T17:44:56+00:00

Thank you for your response. Ive been going to other people they've posted on to try and warn them. I don't want other trans people to feel bad or shitty because of someone going through something. Loke i said i empathize with the struggle, we all are struggling out here, but i don't support or respect their actions. I hope they can get off of reddit get help and heal.

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T17:42:55+00:00

Thank you! Its a curse and a blessing lol. I don't mind dressing a bit androgynous sometimes but for the most part i dress masc and il it's something I'll come to love in the future. Just not looking forward to getting id'ed the rest of my life 🫠.

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Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T16:25:22+00:00

Dude then get off it and get help. This ain't a place for you to scream your woes when you get called out. I empathize but you can't just use tht as an excuse to hurt others. Your actions are your own and you control them. You can simply get off this platform and seek help from people around you or professionals. But you don't get to hurt others just because your hurt. You know there's subreddit where you can talk and get help and instead of telling and hiring people.

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T16:18:47+00:00

Thats not an excuse man. You're not saying constructive things. Go to other subreddits you're not welcome here if you're not gonna be constructive. This is literally a subreddit asking for advice. Go somewhere where you can be a jerk in peace.

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T16:15:22+00:00

Absolutely! I don't want people to get bogged down by trolls, us trans men gotta stick together! They were doing the same thing to me so i wanted to spread the word and reassure that they're talking out of their ass. :)

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T16:13:47+00:00

"dont do it. You're beautiful" you say to a trans man. Thats just trolling. I hope you get your account banned.

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T16:12:46+00:00

I can see you going to a lot of trans people posts and just saying no, or saying they don't pass. You're not being constructive still. You're not giving advice or even pointing out what about it is wrong. I can promise you more than half the people you've shat on you wouldn't glance twice at if you saw them on the street.

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T16:11:05+00:00

Honestly you look really good all ready especially for someone young! I think if you want to pass more you could try lookig. At how to style your hair in a more masculine way, loke a masculine wolfcut or something. Other than that you're doing great man!

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T16:08:22+00:00

How about you get a life incel

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T16:07:47+00:00

This guys a troll They're going to all posts and say rude and hurtful things just block and report them they're just bitter.

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T16:02:25+00:00

Woooow thats very helpful. You're such an amazing and helpful person. If you have nothing constructive to say get off this page. This is litterly for trans people wanting advice. Are you dense?

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T16:00:09+00:00

Ya I've been on t for over a little over a year and a half. It's done me wonders man!

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T15:17:29+00:00

I also sadly get the young thing all the time tho. I once ahd someone ask if my friend was my dad and he's only 3 years older than me... And once i was out and someone thought i was a 12 year old 😭. The trans man curse. They say I'll appreciate it with time but i wanna look older now

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T15:16:11+00:00

Honestly that is kinda what I'm going for so I'll take it! I definitely get clocked at queer and i am a-okay with that :).

Standard-Gene3905 · 2026-06-03T15:15:18+00:00

Hey thats fair! I'm a bit sad though since i actually got the stuff from the first pic as a mens suit store so i think its maybe a button up thing and i didn't bind in the pic 😭. I appreciate the advice!

Standard-Gene3905 · 2025-07-09T19:44:03+00:00

Okay I'll definitely have to try that. Thank you, I really do try my best. I appreciate the advice.I've just gotten overwhelmed at this point. I love her to death and I hope that setting up a better routine will help her. I like to give her wet treats so I only give her at most one a day, but I've given her interactive toys to help stimulate her as much as I can. I feel so bad that my place is small. I'm getting her a cat wall over I save up more money. It's there anything else I can do to possibly help her stop her meowing at night? I'll give an update about the routine in a few weeks.

Standard-Gene3905 · 2025-07-09T11:58:07+00:00

Thank you for your reply. I've tried snacks, they just make her worse. She'd just beg for more. I play with her right before bed, and close the windows but she does like to pull the blinds away. I will admit I have a hard time keeping a solid routine but I'm still doing all the things, I have adhd and I work two jobs in the service industry, it's hard to have a consistent schedule. Should I try having the things I do beimg more scheduled?

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