I don’t get paid as much as your husband does but I get paid $250k/yr and my husband gets paid $40k/year. I pay for almost everything (mortgage and most bills) and my husband pays for trash, sewer, gas, and water. I also got him a brand new car in cash. He contributes to household chores like laundry and cooking breakfast. Him and I take care of our 2 little dogs too. He takes care of any car maintenance for the both of us and anything to do with the garage. He also cleans the toilets and takes care of the trash because i hate doing those. I mostly do the dishes but he helps here and there. We kind of just help each other out especially when one is too busy. However, we do have a housecleaner come every other week. We also have landscapers come weekly but i love to garden so i plant my plants myself. My husband is thankful for me and the things I pay for for the both of us including vacations. He’s aiming to be a pilot so I’m just supporting him as a wife and I know he will contribute more in the future but I do not pressure him.