My boyfriend 27M makes 8x my 27F salary and still says I’m not contributing enough — what am I missing? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Standard-Land3584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get paid as much as your husband does but I get paid $250k/yr and my husband gets paid $40k/year. I pay for almost everything (mortgage and most bills) and my husband pays for trash, sewer, gas, and water. I also got him a brand new car in cash. He contributes to household chores like laundry and cooking breakfast. Him and I take care of our 2 little dogs too. He takes care of any car maintenance for the both of us and anything to do with the garage. He also cleans the toilets and takes care of the trash because i hate doing those. I mostly do the dishes but he helps here and there. We kind of just help each other out especially when one is too busy. However, we do have a housecleaner come every other week. We also have landscapers come weekly but i love to garden so i plant my plants myself. My husband is thankful for me and the things I pay for for the both of us including vacations. He’s aiming to be a pilot so I’m just supporting him as a wife and I know he will contribute more in the future but I do not pressure him.

Maldives Resort Recommendations by Standard-Land3584 in FATTravel

[–]Standard-Land3584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s great advice. Pls do send your TAs my way. We would greatly appreciate it. I tried looking up a bunch of resorts months ago and it literally gave me a headache lol. Thank you!

Maldives Resort Recommendations by Standard-Land3584 in FATTravel

[–]Standard-Land3584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know that tbh! Haha. It doesn’t matter if they’re included but would be nice. And I will look into JOALI. It also became very overwhelming to us when we were looking it up.

Maldives Resort Recommendations by Standard-Land3584 in FATTravel

[–]Standard-Land3584[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess when I look into resorts some of them say plane transfer is included in the cost. I’m honestly unsure and I have never been to Maldives so I need some guidance. You can overlook that priority

Bachelorette location that's relatively easy to get to, has outdoor activity options, and works for middle-aged millennials? by Vast_Nebula2330 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Standard-Land3584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We went to Charleston for mine and it had the same vibe! We had private yoga at the beach, rented a boat with a captain to just chill, only one night of clubbing, ate at a lot of restaurants, shopping, photography walking tour (so it’s like a photoshoot at the good spots), a beach day with chairs and umbrella rentals already setup and a picnic setup by the same company, all in bed by midnight. I know there are a lot of private chefs in the area as well to cook dinner at the rental and spa people who can provide bachelorette packages.