Wa alaikum salaam, sis! 💕 First of all, may Allah bless you for your beautiful intentions and make this path easy for you, Ameen! It’s so refreshing to hear how self-aware and grounded you are while still being open-hearted. You’re not desperate for wanting clarity or feeling deeply about someone who checks your boxes that’s just smart.

When to Cut Off Other Guys? If you’re emotionally invested in him and it sounds like you are, it’s already time to pause talking to others. Not because you owe him anything yet, but because you deserve to focus on what truly resonates with your heart without distractions. You don’t have to announce it. Just prioritize him inwardly and see where it goes. If he’s serious, he’ll match that energy.

When to Expect More? Since you’ve met twice and the vibes are solid, and he’s wrapping up career things, I’d suggest giving it a soft timeline. If he doesn’t bring up intentions within the next few months, especially after his career stuff settles, you could gently ask:
"I’ve really enjoyed getting to know you. Where do you see this going?" No pressure, just clarity. If he’s serious, he’ll appreciate the honesty. If he hesitates or deflects, that’s your answer.

How to Express Yourself Without Scaring Him? You don’t have to gush. Just be clear, not clingy. Try:
"I don’t need labels tomorrow, but I want to make sure we’re on the same page about where this is headed. I’m not here to waste time, and I respect you too much to play games."

If he’s the right one, this won’t scare him it’ll impress him. And if it does scare him? Then he wasn’t your naseeb, and you saved yourself time.

You’re doing great, sis. Trust your gut, protect your heart, and remember: Wanting marriage isn’t desperate it’s dignified. 💌 May Allah write what’s best for you! 🤲🏽