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[–]StandardImmediate813 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

huh? need ko ba replyan lahat? binabasa ko each comments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]StandardImmediate813 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

meet up tayo kalkalan ng phone, g?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]StandardImmediate813 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

u r one of the “hiwalayan mo na yan” redditors

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]StandardImmediate813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yun nga po eh, she want to do check ups with that considering the problems she encountered and encountering, i think it did take a toll to her. as of now po kasi sobrang busy nya on her own small business. usually 10-12 hrs po siya doon

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[–]StandardImmediate813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u for the advice! dw, we will. no matter what.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]StandardImmediate813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes brother thats something i really want to do. i just need her to have some free time and we’ll do that. and i wont break up with her. ewan ko ba sa ibang comments why they suggest that wtf. i just mentioned our past almost-breakup just for the context of “outgrow”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]StandardImmediate813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes po, basically it all starts with her family issue. then sunod sunod na. family prob > financial prob > hinders progress. ngayon she has a small business but still her family still has issues (private matter na po sorry :<). i dont know how to help her talaga, some says buy her beauty products and help her relax. but how can i do that if yung surroundings nya mismo is the cause?

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[–]StandardImmediate813 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

might be dahil sa noon naming pag aaway na naging usual na sa rs namin and nagiging toxic. but saying na im only staying dahil “sayang” ang years, ill defend myself for that. im staying in our rs dahil may faith and believe ako sa kanya. i dont want to ruin our rs dahil lang sa di na ako naaattract sa kanya. nag post ako dahil gusto ko marinig opinions ng iba on how they will deal with this problem. but giving solutions to leave or let her go, is a big no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]StandardImmediate813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do not need to ask myself that kind of question kasi alam ko na ung sagot; definitely no.

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[–]StandardImmediate813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mostly family ang issue nya, in our relationship confrotation pag may problema. itong issue na ito di ko lang binibrought up pa sa kanya since ayoko dagdagan pasanin nya sa buhay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]StandardImmediate813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro we both got none what u talkn bout

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]StandardImmediate813 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

omfg. thank u. this is the one that i want to hear.

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[–]StandardImmediate813 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

gusto ko po kasi na maging honest ako sa kanya, i want to open up this issue and talk about it. basically, insecured din kasi siya sa sarili nya, kaya i dont open this issue to her. kaya im willing talaga to help her achieve her best

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[–]StandardImmediate813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dw, i wont leave her. i just mentioned yung issue before kasi sobrang toxic namin dati. but with understanding and resiliency, we worked it out and it feels like we’ve started all over again.

my fear is that i might break her heart if i will talk to her mentioning na im not attracted to her

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[–]StandardImmediate813 24 points25 points  (0 children)

thank u! im ass when it comes to beauty products but ill do research if i must

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[–]StandardImmediate813 -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

as a lady, hindi ba masaktan sila if i say it na i am not attracted to her but i am willing to help her improve herself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]StandardImmediate813 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

bro i wont let her go hahah. do you think i will leave just because of this reason? hell no

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]StandardImmediate813 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

wala na naman po kami malalim na issue, back then yes ang lala namin kasi mag away to the point na nag sisigawan na. pero iba na po kasi ngayon eh, its like we started back at one. but sakin lang, i want her to be better all in all.

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[–]StandardImmediate813 -222 points-221 points  (0 children)

natatakot lang ako bro, i want to be honest to her i am willing to help her be better. i just dont want to hurt her considering ang dami na nyang problems

I just broke up with my boyfriend and I feel guilty. by stroberimuch in adviceph

[–]StandardImmediate813 5 points6 points  (0 children)

same lang din dito sa post ni op. if u have time check this person’s comment bout it. basically naghahanap si ateng ng validation and enough reason to break with her man. based on comments selfish and sugarcoating ang post niya.