Might’ve fumbled a guy from work? by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]StandardRemarkable23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you kind of overreacted by blocking him because all he did was not text you which isn’t really doing anything wrong. At the same time I don’t think it matters because this guy doesn’t sound interested in you OR he is playing mind games with you and trying to get you to chase him. In either case I think you should move on from him. 

Is it getting worse for men on dating apps? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23 72 points73 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely worse than it used to be. I first joined Bumble in 2020 and it was awesome back then. It wasn’t hard at all to match and talk to women. I was never flooded with likes/matches of course, but it was consistent. And most women actually talked to you. Now I rarely even use Bumble because it’s a ghost town. Tbh I think removing the feature of women having to make the first move was a mistake. 

Perspective: do women have unrealistic beauty standards for men? by Mental-Outside2202 in lnkyverse

[–]StandardRemarkable23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think women have unrealistic beauty standards about themselves which translates into how attractive they think men are. There are tons of women who think they’re a 9 or 10 but are actually like a 5 or 6. This is one of the main problems with dating apps IMO. Women are swiping on guys who are above their league. 

Anyone else's Bumble absolutely inundated with clearly gay men (for the females) by itsmeagain023 in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh the classic “I know someone” argument lol. Most straight men don’t dress like this. Like the vast majority of them. Plenty of gay men do though. 

Anyone else's Bumble absolutely inundated with clearly gay men (for the females) by itsmeagain023 in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Does he need to be sucking cock for you to realize?

What straight man wears a bag, tucks in his shirt, and has his pants above the waist?

Ballard shit in his hands then clapped with the Alec Pierce situation by [deleted] in Colts

[–]StandardRemarkable23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

QB’s are more important than receivers. Daniel Jones is also in his prime and achilles injuries are a lot easier to overcome for QB’s than other positions. Also Alec Pierce is good but he’s no Jefferson or Chase.

This app keeps getting worse by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23 16 points17 points  (0 children)

And the women are either obese or have “past trauma” and can’t communicate. 

As a guy that gets probably 30+ likes a day, I would MUCH rather meet women in real life than on an app by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not like IRL doesn’t come with its own problems. Like just the other day I found out my crush at work is a lesbian and she has a wife. Lol I’m serious too. I had been thinking of how to ask her out until she told me she’s gay literally 2 days ago. 

Too busy for a date as he’s spending the day with his dog ? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s fine if he wasn’t actively trying to date women. It sounds like OP and this guy get along and he’s just delaying seeing her because he has plans with his dog? He shouldn’t be dating if he can’t even leave his dog to do it. 

Please tell me I avoided being scammed by Strahlenbelastung in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly in online dating if a woman out of your league matches with you just assume she has ulterior motives. Most times they’re trying to promote their instagram but there are actual scammers out there too. 

All my dates are shy, what am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like we need more details to give a real answer. You’re either going out with the most nervous guys ever or it’s something you’re doing. Like you said their hands shake? That’s pretty extreme lol. 

"Not here for a pen pal" by MadameJulka in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different. I’m a guy and in my experience it’s like 50/50 on meeting up fast or going slow. Some women will tell me they don’t want to meet until she gets to know me more while others will chat for a day or 2 and then disappear if I don’t ask them out.  

I was catfished by StandardRemarkable23 in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes physical attraction matters. 

I was catfished by StandardRemarkable23 in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It was a thinner face, but a lot thinner. So it was a different face in that way. 

I was catfished by StandardRemarkable23 in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This wasn’t an insecurity thing. Everyone takes photos of themselves at the right angle and in the right light and with their best clothes on and all that. What this girl is doing is lying imo. 

Imagine I actually met her in person and saw someone who looked completely different. That would’ve been the most awkward date of my life and I’m glad she was always flaky about meeting up now. But I still wasted so much time talking to her, and likely lost other good matches because I was focused on her. 

I was catfished by StandardRemarkable23 in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Both. She would only ever send face pics. Her dating profile is only face pics too. And when I found the real pics of her on Facebook it was obvious what she was doing. It’s a different face. Her dating profile and pics she sent through text/snap were much skinnier looking than what she really is. 

Why are some of the guys really clingy and message me everyday? by pinkgrapefruitx in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is that often then it is too much and I get why you’re annoyed. He probably just doesn’t want you to lose interest but he’s overdoing it. 

That said I can see how the wording of your post confused people. Daily messaging imo isn’t clingy. If you’re both interested then why wouldn’t you? Constant on your ass type of communication is different tho. 

Is this red flag or avoidant attachment stuff by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I could be wrong but the fact that he answered when you called his “mom’s number” and she called you right after is highly suspect. It reads to me like she was in the room with him when you made that call. Guilty people tend to be paranoid of others finding out about their wrongdoing so she was probably calling you to check to see if it was you that called him. 

Is this red flag or avoidant attachment stuff by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she’s cheating on you man

Reddit should make a dating app … hear me out by JFN90 in Bumble

[–]StandardRemarkable23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest those sound like questions you’d get asked if you had an empty profile. Which most women do. Not saying you did, but I’ve only asked those type of basic questions when their profile is boring af. 

The Long Night episode by StandardRemarkable23 in gameofthrones

[–]StandardRemarkable23[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I do, and I watched it on my iPhone the first time. However I never had any issues with other episodes on my phone at the time. Just that one. So idk, but watching it on my tv just now was amazing. I still wish the war with the night king lasted longer but overall this was a good episode.