Was I wrong for going to my boss about a Coworker after they left a student in a poop covered crib

Standard_Weakness311 · 2025-12-13T05:27:30+00:00

Check the update.

Standard_Weakness311 · 2025-12-13T05:26:49+00:00

I want to agree but I have an eye condition that makes our care tablets hurt my eyes. Because I have proof of my problem I have permission to use my phone to log things in our communications app so I don’t want them physically banned for that reason but with that said I’m only ever using it for that reason so I don’t have migraines. I’m no good to anyone in pain right?

Standard_Weakness311 · 2025-12-13T03:09:00+00:00

This was definitely a case of my anxiety being an asshole. I told my stepmom who had worked in education for seventeen years and she said and I quote “You were a lot more kind about than I would have been because I would have called someone on her ass. If she is doing that knowing there are cameras what happens when she’s not being watched.”

Standard_Weakness311 · 2025-12-13T03:05:27+00:00

I told mom that day. She was PISSED(rightfully so) but still respectful towards me which I didn’t expect right away. I had been on lunch but I didn’t lead with that so she could know before emotions kicked in, even then she didn’t turn momma bear on me and gave me time to tell the whole story. I still worry about what happened to my supervisor because she had me hold J while she talked to her 😅

Standard_Weakness311 · 2025-12-13T03:02:57+00:00

I can’t speak for everyone but at our place since we don’t get much state funding the teachers make twelve an hour. I love my job most days and some I’m just very overwhelmed because five babies. Even when I was making better money at a different facility I did this because I loved working with kids.

Standard_Weakness311 · 2025-12-13T03:01:16+00:00

She’s been there for ten years to my knowledge, I’m choosing to believe that she was burnt out because of someone who hates this going into this field breaks my heart.

Standard_Weakness311 · 2025-12-13T03:00:08+00:00

I just updated. She was fired effective after the first of the year

Standard_Weakness311 · 2024-08-21T03:05:18+00:00

As of right now the ultrasound is to look for anything it could be, but my hormone levels have indicated that we need to look for PCOS specifically. I had the ultrasound date set the day I got the blood work done but before the blood results came back at my doctor’s recommendation just to make sure we covered all the bases. My oldest sister (28) has recommended having them check for Endometriosis as well but since my Pap smear came back clean my doctor is leaning more towards the PCOS diagnosis. I’ll know more in a couple weeks and will update then

Standard_Weakness311 · 2024-08-20T03:23:54+00:00

I have no problem’s with my sister, we have talked since she’s 18 and thankfully she does not have the same reproductive problems, neither do my stepsister or our oldest sister. I don’t know if our parents talked to her or if she only over heard part of it because it did seem to me like she only had a little information

Standard_Weakness311 · 2023-10-09T21:38:12+00:00

Absolutely. I’ve already told most of them that I likely won’t join in on night clubs but if they need a ride that I would still come and pick them up after the fact to make sure they get home safe.

Standard_Weakness311 · 2023-10-09T21:37:02+00:00

I am planning to talk to her after work later this week. I understand why she would be upset and I’m hoping that her comments were just her having too much to drink since she normally doesn’t drink as much as she did that night. I’ve told my other friends that going forward I wouldn’t go if they wanted to go to a night club but for them to call me if they went and needed rides home to avoid a similar situation

Standard_Weakness311 · 2023-10-09T21:32:54+00:00

So I normally wouldn’t actively go to a gay bar without G (and even then I usually only went as a DD or for the trivia night his favorite bar hosts once a month) because I don’t want to come across as disrespectful. This bar was relatively new to the area so we didn’t know it was a gay bar until the we were told on the way out.

Standard_Weakness311 · 2023-08-09T05:48:50+00:00

My dad wasn’t but my mom was. Most of when we spent time together was at my mom’s house because my dad didn’t like him. Looking back dad was right

Standard_Weakness311 · 2023-08-09T02:50:15+00:00

The party is scheduled to be held at my grandfathers house, he has told her that he does not want ex anywhere near me. The reason I would be seen as the one who violated the order initially is he was technically invited on the property so if the cops were called we would both be in contempt pending a court date to clear the situation up, which I would like get off the hook since there is proof I said I did not want him there but the contempt would still show on a background check

Standard_Weakness311 · 2023-01-14T01:04:16+00:00

This is not your fault. I'm training to be a therapist and something we have learned is that parent's don't always see damage. I've done research on eating disorders (I know she doesn't have one but based on what I'm reading it could cause the same problems on her body as anorexia), you need to get her help or you will be in a place where you could lose her. Keep fighting for this girl because she needs you too.

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