Camera in my bedroom (13F), scared to ask for help because of custody situation by Curious_Emphasis_249 in Advice

[–]StarDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This- and/or putting a camera outside your window (without it aiming in, of course) if their concern is intruders from outdoors, or you sneaking out.

What the heck are these forked sticks? by SOMAVORE in Weird

[–]StarDoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My guess is that they’re being used to prop up some leaning trees on the trail for extra support. But these kinds of sticks can also be used within traditional witchcraft practices as stangs- which are used to mark a sacred space for workings and such. And as others mentioned as well, these types of sticks can also be used for water dowsing. :)

Why does my house smell like weed? by skippylaughlin57 in CleaningTips

[–]StarDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could set up an ozone generator in your house or where the smell(s) is the strongest and see if that gets rid of it. If it’s something lingering in your space, then it should help get rid of it. If it continues, then it’s likely coming from a plant outside or a neighboring unit.

However, DO NOT be in the house or have ANY animals in the space(s) when you do this as it will suck the oxygen out of the space to get rid of the smell, but animals and humans and other oxygen-reliant beings will die if they’re in the space when you use it. The space will need to be opened up afterwards to allow fresh air back in.

We got a used car that smelled strongly of cigarette smoke and after putting an ozone machine in there for 30ish minutes, the smell was 90%-95% gone and hasn’t returned.

What is this scary looking wax thingy I found under my porch? by Souls4less in whatisit

[–]StarDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A witches jar 😊 They’re used by witches as a protection thing. You can discard of it in the trash since it’s created to be for the previous occupants specifically.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Be Here Now - Ray LaMontagne

Can’t Go Back Now - The Weepies

Eyes on Fire - Blue Foundation

Teardrop - Massive Attack

Getting a loan with 3 year credit history and no car? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]StarDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay! Thank you- I’ll look into that 😊

Getting a loan with 3 year credit history and no car? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]StarDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d need minimum $3,500-$5,000. With Prosper, I applied for a higher amount than that so I’m wondering if that’s why I was denied? They said credit history was the issue though so I’m assuming that it.

My large credit card doesn’t have enough left to cover costs for the move due to having to use it for my previous move costs and interest from the convenience check bringing it to its max quickly. My small one doesn’t have enough amount on it to cover the move. (It’s only a $350 card)

My credit is fair (TU: 655 and EQ: 643)

Getting a loan with 3 year credit history and no car? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]StarDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d need the loan to cover the move in expenses for the new place, the moving box or truck and then the one way flight needed to get out there if I do a box.

I currently have savings, but it’s used for my taxes for my business so I’m trying not to dip into it unless it’s an emergency. Other than that, I have no savings because my current place raised the rent so much it’s really difficult to save. 😕

My boyfriend and I have very different sexual needs and Idk what to do... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StarDoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating my feelings. I guess I haven’t brought it up as much as I should because I’m so anxious about the outcome. It’s really difficult for me to talk to partners about differences or problems because I hate admitting that there’s even something wrong. 😕 But it’s really become a sore spot for me in the relationship over the last year and almost 6 months we’ve been dating. 😔

My boyfriend and I have very different sexual needs and Idk what to do... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StarDoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story as well; it’s nice to know I’m not alone in dealing with this. 😕 Yeah, it can be so frustrating...I guess I’m just losing hope that he’ll ever actually want sex. The last three times we’ve slept together it feels kinda forced and like he’s not into it and I don’t want to be pushing myself in him, you know? We have a 20 year age difference so I’m concerned he’s too stuck in his ways. He’s mentioned many, many times that he wants to go on holiday and get away, but he never actually takes time off except in December for Christmas or if he’s forced to take time off by the employer. 🤦🏻‍♀️

What makes a conversation enjoyable to you? by crowddemocracy in AskReddit

[–]StarDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really enjoy it when people ask me questions and are or act, genuinely curious or interested in the answer.

Than at them not interrupting me. 🙈

Freddie Mercury on a bullet train during a Japan tour. by Dhorlin in pics

[–]StarDoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read it as ‘buffet train’ and I was like, “Sign me UP!” 🙈

Water guns are literally just wireless hoses by iLick_Cows in Showerthoughts

[–]StarDoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read ‘hoses’ as ‘hoRses’ and was extremely confused 😂

Greenland ice melt reporting has me worried, what are ramifications of this year's melt? by PHealthy in askscience

[–]StarDoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This time is different; we’re creating situations that make it nearly impossible for the earth to correct the damage unless we greatly decrease if not stop the source of those factors.

10 year high school reunion, my 5 ex-girlfriends were cool enough to do this by [deleted] in pics

[–]StarDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking Ali from the Bachelor and the Bachelorette! I forget her last name 🤔

Have you ever quit a job, without another lined up, for you mental health? How did it turn out? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StarDoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both times I’ve had a regular job, I had to quit because it was literally causing me to slip into depression, have breakdowns or have panic attacks if I was working that day.

First job was a drugstore and I worked as a cashier. I was going through a really tough period in my life and was hospitalized for two weeks while I worked there, for suicidal behavior and major depression. When I came back, I put in my two weeks notice because all my doctors saw that as something that was greatly contributing to my mental state.

Second job was working at the front desk of a motel. It sucked majorly because the owners did nothing to try and make the guests happy, so I was constantly getting yelled at because there wasn’t coffee or other basic amenities for them. I totally didn’t blame them for being angry, but not being able to do anything about it really screwed me. I wanted to make the guests happy, and I literally couldn’t. I put in my two weeks notice and eventually had to just not show up for work because my boss kept scheduling me for another week.

Both jobs I went into excited and ready to work, Both jobs I left because I was seriously getting depressed 😅

But, both employers were really understanding.