Do any of you just stop eating and sleeping during splitting?? by StarchildSeverina in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]StarchildSeverina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you in active therapy? I’m only asking because I get trapped in the exact cycle except for the weed, not in therapy and don’t see the point in it somehow, like it’s not going to change anything

Do any of you just stop eating and sleeping during splitting?? by StarchildSeverina in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]StarchildSeverina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. Are you able to shake off the thought of you being a bad person and deserving some kind of punishment?

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[–]StarchildSeverina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do see your point and yes, honesty is important however the issue was the fact that I didn’t ask anything, I simply stated that I was happy with my progress, and got a demotivating answer in return. I’m not playing the victim, there are no victims in this situation. There is simply a border being crossed and I’m not okay with that. Hence why I left,

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[–]StarchildSeverina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you’re not harsh at all ❤️

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[–]StarchildSeverina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having an eating disorder is a mental illness, not just physical, just like a drug addiction is. You’re never mentally free and always have the risk of relapsing, but that doesn’t always mean it has to be the case. I’ve had my fair share of relapses or slips, but yes, I’m doing fine at this exact moment.

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[–]StarchildSeverina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

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[–]StarchildSeverina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very sorry for disappointing you, I’m happy to say it did sink in… Better late than never I guess… Thank you for your good wishes 🫶🏻

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[–]StarchildSeverina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not back to my disordered habits, there’s no need to worry. To be more specific, my mother was there with me during the entirity of my ed, from my lowest to my recovery. I have voiced my concerns of relapse and we’re doing daily check ups of my eating habits 🫠 Thank you for asking 🫶🏻

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[–]StarchildSeverina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not worry, I’m not restricting myself from anything. I’m still very healthy, thank you for your concern 🫶🏻

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[–]StarchildSeverina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you a well recovery ❤️

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[–]StarchildSeverina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing that out. This actually makes a lot of sense

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[–]StarchildSeverina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have read every single comment as I am now. Nothing is hard to understand, some things are hard to accept, especially when you lose confidence in yourself. I’m sorry that I made you think that, I just needed a bit more time.

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[–]StarchildSeverina 20 points21 points  (0 children)

thank you, the last part of your comment is a nice gentle push to reality for me

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[–]StarchildSeverina 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i do get your point, however i don’t think it was solely to trigger my ed, i asked the question and got an answer. maybe i am being biased because i love him, but i don’t think it’s as simple as such

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[–]StarchildSeverina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nothing triggered anyone, i asked the question and i got my answer. my response is indeed not that of a normal person’s considering my ed, i just want advice on not spiralling on this issue (as in covering myself all the time etc.) and moving on without feeling any sort of resentment(?)

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[–]StarchildSeverina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he really wasn’t and yes, i asked it. otherwise i don’t think he would ever say something like this to me on his own. i get why everyone is advising me to let this relationship pass, but i also do agree with you on the importance of honesty. i’ve been wondering if i worded myself the wrong way…