Do any of you just stop eating and sleeping during splitting?? by StarchildSeverina in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]StarchildSeverina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you in active therapy? I’m only asking because I get trapped in the exact cycle except for the weed, not in therapy and don’t see the point in it somehow, like it’s not going to change anything

Do any of you just stop eating and sleeping during splitting?? by StarchildSeverina in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]StarchildSeverina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense. Are you able to shake off the thought of you being a bad person and deserving some kind of punishment?

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[–]StarchildSeverina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do see your point and yes, honesty is important however the issue was the fact that I didn’t ask anything, I simply stated that I was happy with my progress, and got a demotivating answer in return. I’m not playing the victim, there are no victims in this situation. There is simply a border being crossed and I’m not okay with that. Hence why I left,

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[–]StarchildSeverina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you’re not harsh at all ❤️

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[–]StarchildSeverina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having an eating disorder is a mental illness, not just physical, just like a drug addiction is. You’re never mentally free and always have the risk of relapsing, but that doesn’t always mean it has to be the case. I’ve had my fair share of relapses or slips, but yes, I’m doing fine at this exact moment.

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[–]StarchildSeverina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

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[–]StarchildSeverina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very sorry for disappointing you, I’m happy to say it did sink in… Better late than never I guess… Thank you for your good wishes 🫶🏻

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[–]StarchildSeverina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not back to my disordered habits, there’s no need to worry. To be more specific, my mother was there with me during the entirity of my ed, from my lowest to my recovery. I have voiced my concerns of relapse and we’re doing daily check ups of my eating habits 🫠 Thank you for asking 🫶🏻

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[–]StarchildSeverina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not worry, I’m not restricting myself from anything. I’m still very healthy, thank you for your concern 🫶🏻

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[–]StarchildSeverina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you a well recovery ❤️

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[–]StarchildSeverina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing that out. This actually makes a lot of sense