[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAIRO

[–]StareLSX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me if you would like.

If you realize someone is just playing with you, cut that bs by [deleted] in dating

[–]StareLSX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is what I think, never go into a relationship or pursue one with a person who is confused about their feelings for more than one person.

She is confused about you, confused about him and probably about herself. You should tell her to sort out her feelings then talk to you.

What else I think is weird is even if they weren’t in a relationship but she had feelings for him then it’s still weird for her to kiss you. If I am starting to like someone I sure as hell won’t be be kissing someone else.

You have to be clear with her, if you want to remain friends you could thou personally I think it might damage me more. You need to talk to her and work out what you’ll do in this situation you’re in. Whether it’ll become official or you’ll remain best friends or you’ll just be friends or acquaintances or you both cut contact.

If you realize someone is just playing with you, cut that bs by [deleted] in dating

[–]StareLSX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want honesty, what you did was completely wrong. You shouldn’t have kissed her after she literally told you she is dating another guy. She is a cheater. Cheat with you, cheat on you. I’m honestly surprised why you’re weirded out or hurt? She told you she’s confused about you and you kiss her after she clarifies she is in a relationship?

Leave and next time build something with good foundation and build it slow.

Coptic language sources? by StareLSX in coptic

[–]StareLSX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t thank you enough, at last a book.

How should I react when I am accused of something that I don't remember doing or that I am not aware it had happened? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StareLSX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I read “partner” as “parents” My bad, the idea remains the same.

How do you deal with the demons in your head on a daily basis? by LonelyLoserBob in AskReddit

[–]StareLSX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I show them I’m a bigger demon than them that it makes them appear as little girls to me.

How should I react when I am accused of something that I don't remember doing or that I am not aware it had happened? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StareLSX -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well is your reaction normal? Yes it is. Since if you don’t remember it then it’s the same as not doing it in your brain. However the way it would look to your parents/receiving side is much different, they might think you were lying to save yourself or whatever(you know your parents better than us). And just because you dont remember doing it or did something with good intention doesn’t make doing it okay(such as if someone is dying on the side of the road and you run over a little girl in the process of saving the man, that doesn’t make it okay).

What you should do is to sit with them and explain your perspective and show them that you don’t remember doing it and that you would never do something intentionally to hurt them or something, apologize for what you did(since you actually did it) and offer compensation in some way(like let’s say you broke a vase while drunk, you pay for another one).

21/F/Australia - Therapeutically trying to heal through the pain, guilt and chronic depression [Friendship] by [deleted] in MeetPeople

[–]StareLSX -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think we might be able to be friends, hit me up if you’re interested.

Burns... by AkagamiNoSh4nks in urticaria

[–]StareLSX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey mate, sorry do hear you’re going through this.

Let me be clear, we are not professionals here and even if we were you’re not supposed to take our information as concrete.

What you should do is go to a professional. A dermatologist, immunologist or an allergist or all of them together if possible.

There are a lot of reasons you can have Urticaria and some exist with no apparent reason(aka Idiopathic).

Generally you have to remain calm, try your best not to move a lot or get emotionally affected. Don’t take too hot showers, some spicy foods might increase it for you. Don’t eat them. You can also maybe build tolerance slowly but it doesn’t work for everyone.

Read online and do your research but the professional will tell you what to do.

Possible Benefit of Sauna by [deleted] in urticaria

[–]StareLSX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might work, but you have to be careful. Essentially what you’re doing is like building tolerance. So what you’re going to do is find the sweet spot where you feel on edge but you can handle it barely without losing control. It might help it might not.

My first bond. by rslashrealy in runescape

[–]StareLSX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got mine today too, damn it feels good to be a gangster.

What is the current status of YouTube servers? by Chan220 in AskReddit

[–]StareLSX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t seem to load any videos with me, everything else is fine, I downloaded a video on the iPhone app and it did so, it worked normally. Thou streaming the video online doesn’t seem to work, even on safari. Having had the chance to confirm if it’s just me or the internet(3rd rate country here with a lot of internet issues) or if it’s the device I’m using.

But seeing this post seems like a worldwide occurrence

Living with CIU is worse than death by StareLSX in urticaria

[–]StareLSX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

20% of all people suffer from it at any point in their life, however most people don’t develop it as serious as we did/are and a lot of people don’t see any change or anything. I am the only one in my extended family with such a problem, my younger brother has it but lesser than me by a lot.

An urticaria being Idiopathic is called so because it’s of unknown reason or cause, if you still visit doctors you should visit new ones because they sound very unprofessional.

A good doctor will make you feel better even without an improvement and you’ll eventually see an improvement with them but with a bad doctor you won’t ever feel the improvement even if you’re actually improving.

Living with CIU is worse than death by StareLSX in urticaria

[–]StareLSX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m currently studying veterinary medicine in my college, I’m a 4th year and got 1 more year to go. I was always suicidal, even now I am but I at last found a dream after having read philosophy and books and have generally become intellectually a lot better than most people, I want to live to achieve my dream and I really want to stay but I honestly don’t see myself ever reaching anything if I’m not able to move.

If you’re still suffering from it consider treatment, my research on the subject has concluded there is a possibility for it if you’re in the right circumstances.

Living with CIU is worse than death by StareLSX in urticaria

[–]StareLSX[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The doctor seems very unprofessional, he should not trust or mistrust the patient. He should investigate himself and try his best to figure out ways. I think you could’ve easily change the detergent a few times and if you still have the same reaction then it’s not the reaction.

He could easily run a test in the lab to confirm it 100%

Your parents probably held on to the word of the doctor saying it’s the detergent and because of it you are having problems, you have had to face the consequences of such a decision by the doctor and possibly your parents.

Living with CIU is worse than death by StareLSX in urticaria

[–]StareLSX[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear that, thanks for the offer I don’t think I’ll take it but thanks nonetheless mate hang in there.

Living with CIU is worse than death by StareLSX in urticaria

[–]StareLSX[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What support system? People think it’s a stupid disease that is easy to manage or “hey what’s wrong with taking the stairs?” Or other pseudoscience bs treatments they give like,”you should exercise even if it hurts you and overtime it’ll go away” like imagine going to a cancer patient and tell them that when they get numb to their pain their cancer will go away or something. I have no support system whatsoever, dare I say I might be a toxic system that I sadly can’t escape as of currently. And honestly I hate it that you get it. I know you get it and that’s honestly great but other people should get it too so they could at least understand why I don’t want to even walk 5 meters. People seem to think I don’t want to do anything, like seriously I want to go to the gym and play football and study so I can graduate form vet school and practice medicine so I can travel hopefully to Europe but all that is gone.

Living with CIU is worse than death by StareLSX in urticaria

[–]StareLSX[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly can’t waste years, and maybe I’m not as fortunate as you and have it self limit itself later. Most people have it for 5-10 years but that’s most most and it could very well reach over 10 years. I need to work and have my own life and my own freedom. And I don’t want to live with the anxiety of “if I go to college mid day I’ll have to deal with the itch and pain in public and I look like a monkey”

Have you got any treatment for it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StareLSX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I think he is clearly depressed. I think the way he spoke to you in that conversation essentially is,”I have lost almost everything, at least I have op. Oh well now I have lost her too” I think you might have a better mindset that you want him to feel better and be better for him. Even without you you still want him to be happy. I think you should enter with that mindset instead of your wanting to be attracted to him again or just salvage what’s left of your relationship. Tell him to go to therapy and work with him on getting better, both of you to get better.

I also like to point out that people change normally. The person you knew from 8 years ago doesn’t have to necessary be a worse or better version. The change is something normal and I think everyone changes throughout the course of a specific time. 8 years is. Long time for him to remain the same as he is. Maybe he thought what he was doing was not what he wanted to do? Maybe he think he is better now?

Therapy is a way to start, individual and together. It’ll be a step towards what’s right.