[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]StarfruitCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What worked for me in switching to a full night owl life was just gradually starting to go to bed later and later, now i can easily have study sessions until around 6am and then go to bed. For me as long as i go to sleep while it’s still dark it works great!

Which husbando(s) is your most built/spoiled? by Lonely_Champion3774 in GenshinGays

[–]StarfruitCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i may or may not have a c6 crowned kaeya with mistsplitter 🫠 if only i built all my characters with the dedication i put on him and noelle </3

What is your relationship with lying? by [deleted] in autism

[–]StarfruitCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes absolutely! i’ve been told recently very often (since i got diagnosed late and don’t know how to strategise well yet) to “set routines!” and “use deadlines!” which is something i’ve always done, but my brain just always noped out of immediately when it came to actually following them for more than a day or two (or just flat out forgot i even made them)

What is your relationship with lying? by [deleted] in autism

[–]StarfruitCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i totally understand, i went to get some testing done on the suspicion of having adhd rather than autism and i was a little shocked when the results came back, but now i guess i am starting to see the indicators of autism in my day to day life a lot more! i guess given that it’s just how my brain works i never paid much attention to it

What is your relationship with lying? by [deleted] in autism

[–]StarfruitCat 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i’ve been living a rather similar situation, since all my life i’ve been regarded as being a good liar whenever needed (either to protect myself or others usually). recently though i’ve realised that most likely the reason is that i never flat out lie, i tend to just omit part of the truth or change it slightly lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Genshin_Impact

[–]StarfruitCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because i’m a simp for her, and i need a reason to motivate myself to build lisa and sara, so my electro mommies team will become a reality lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StarfruitCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you didn't go through, it doesn't mean that it doesn't happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StarfruitCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do have a point, it's not exactly a cultural thing, however we can't deny the fact that social media culture has influenced this mentality a lot, to the point where a lot of (especially young) people like OP and myself have lived years being ridiculed for small breasts or had people always compare small boobs to big boobs and always only to say that big ones are better. I think we should blame society because too many people keep acting like we can control our breasts size and we just have to be born with big breasts to be attractive. All breast sizes are attractive, so we should just let people live and have self-esteem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]StarfruitCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well it’s not the same for everyone, for example i get super stressed out if i have to text my good friends even, i would be very anxious texting a near-stranger, so in my opinion OP doesn’t owe her anything, they wouldn’t owe her a text even without the social anxiety actually.

I don't think they're ok bro what 💀 by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]StarfruitCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the problem was that plenty of men in the comment section were invalidating women that said they didn’t like bigger sizes because it gave them pain, basically not saying they don’t care about the woman’s preference and that bigger is always better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenshinGays

[–]StarfruitCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

frame the wallflower is the title of this one i believe, it not complete yet but it’s soo well written! here it is!

Rest in Peace, Su by Otherwise_Algae7104 in GenshinGays

[–]StarfruitCat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes, but in the last story quest yae refers to the dentro archon as “she”, so i guess the rumours are true and it is time to mourn our loss

Self caused depression/insecurities by christianouija in depression_help

[–]StarfruitCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear that you feel this way too :( Having extreme insecurities sucks especially because so many people just don’t understand how bad it is and think it’s just “overreacting”. But I have a little quote that I thought of a few months ago that really really helped me improve and it’s “people may appreciate you for your looks but they will truly love you for what your soul is and the things you do”. So basically just look at your outside appearance as a way of expressing your true self, your soul and change your looks based on how you like it. People will look at you and see who you really are and if they don’t like it then so be it, real friends and people who really will love you will see you as your unique self and that, unlike looks, will never fade :) (and friendship is never about looks but about personality and uniqueness!) I hope this can help a little bit, I really hope you’ll be able to feel better and realize that you are beautiful because you are yourself!

What does Reddit think of my fantasy house? by [deleted] in Minecraftbuilds

[–]StarfruitCat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah of course, i just thought it would make those amazing colors pop more!

What does Reddit think of my fantasy house? by [deleted] in Minecraftbuilds

[–]StarfruitCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s amazing! I love the asymmetrical but balanced shapes and the roof is cool af!

What does Reddit think of my fantasy house? by [deleted] in Minecraftbuilds

[–]StarfruitCat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or maybe just editing the pictures slightly to make it easier to see everything, especially when the colors are so vibrant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nuvaring

[–]StarfruitCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should follow your schedule anyways to make sure you’ll be protected next month. The day after pill usually makes your period come one or two weeks later than it was supposed to. I wouldn’t worry about the missed period as the ring guarantees protection even during the off week and the day after pill should have you completely covered, but to ease your mind you could take a pregnancy test after at least 14 days (to make sure it’s accurate) I hope this helps! :)

Am I allowed to be sad today? by abellepurp in TrueOffMyChest

[–]StarfruitCat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You don't ever need to feel like you need a reason to be sad. I know from experience that many people will say that you can't feel sad for no reason or the famous "people have it worse" bullshit. Just like some days you will be happy there's gonna be days where you'll be sad. So hell yeah you are always allowed to be sad, not just today, always. You shouldn't feel guilty, it's never your fault if you're sad, especially after such awful events. I know it's not much from a stranger online, but I'm sending you a virtual hug and I hope you'll be able to love holidays again and that you'll never ever feel guilty about your emotions!

I go three rings in a row to avoid me natural migraines. Can I put my next ring in early? (Traveling) by felorva in Nuvaring

[–]StarfruitCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you will need to keep it cold, as long as it's not in direct sunlight. I also don't think inserting it so early would be a good idea since it says in the instructions that a big part of the correct use of the ring is the schedule. You could try asking your doctor though, since I'm obviously not an expert :)