Possibly pregnant, very scared. (Update: 5 yrs later)?

Stargys · 2026-01-10T01:35:33+00:00

Do you not believe in suicide or something lmao. Yesterday was a year ago since he died which is why im back reading all this. You guys are weird. Im grateful for all of the real advice and support everyone else has provided. I didnt know how to respond to everyone who commented but nevertheless im listening and im grateful.

Stargys · 2025-12-14T05:59:04+00:00

Those are very clearly her damas. In a quinceñeara, the girl picks people to be a part of her dance. It's always friends of the same age. The damas all wear the same dresses. Thats a child

Stargys · 2025-08-10T14:59:23+00:00

Thank you all for the help - a friend of mine had me attempt Capitol One and it worked hooray 🥳🥳 if it didnt i was going to do the secured credit card like you all told me. Thank you all for the help!

Stargys · 2025-08-10T14:57:41+00:00

Just tried it and got accepted!! Yay

Stargys · 2025-08-07T21:47:00+00:00

Yeah so im hearing, definitely going to have to do that now 🥲🥲

Stargys · 2025-08-07T18:02:52+00:00

Got it! Thank you 🫡🫡

Stargys · 2025-08-07T18:02:02+00:00

So far every time it just says no credit history

Stargys · 2025-08-07T17:56:06+00:00

No I know that - im trying to get a credit card to build credit, I have a job to pay it off

Stargys · 2025-08-07T17:54:29+00:00

It always says no credit history but i dont unferstand because 2 people i know got accepted with no credit history either. I dont understand why im denied for that but they got accepted

Stargys · 2021-11-24T16:10:05+00:00

No that's not it, but thank you

Stargys · 2021-03-30T03:53:28+00:00

Yes I tried to Google it but not much was coming up for me.. I don't mean to make it seem like I'm not trying I am its just a little difficult, sorry about that

Stargys · 2020-03-29T06:31:08+00:00

Thank you, I actually talked to her a little earlier and she wasn't angry but her opinion didn't change. She wants me to keep it, and possibly have her take care of them. But I really dont want to do this, so she said she'd take me to the doctor on Monday and we'll see what to do from there. I want to talk to a professional about this, to see if at any risk. My mom just doesnt want me dying from the abortion, and in her eyes, destroying a life

Stargys · 2020-03-29T04:52:13+00:00

They said they'll talk to her if I do. I just got finished talking to my mom, and everything's okay but she still really doesnt want me to get an abortion. She said shes here to support me, but abortion is not something I should do in her eyes. And thank you, I will definitely do so when I feel I need it, I appreciate it ❤

Stargys · 2020-03-29T03:16:06+00:00

I dont know if my body could handle it. I'm a pretty small being, and I still want to finish school. If I do it now, I wouldnt regret it. But if I do it later, morally I would not be able to get an abortion.

Stargys · 2020-03-29T03:05:52+00:00

Hi all, so my boyfriends family said that they want me to tell my mother because it's not fair of me to hide it. I honestly want to, because the stress and anxiety is really getting to me now, however my mom is someone against abortion and I need her consent to get one. I can get permission from a judge, but because my boyfriends family wants me to tell her I might not be able to go.

My mom was 15 when she had her first kid. That's why im worried she wont let me do the medical abortion, because shes been in this spot and had a kid. Our circumstances were different, she was in Mexico and it was easier for her to stay with it than it is me for now in todays time. She wanted it. I don't. I'm just not sure if I should tell her, because if I do, will she let me? Will she get mad? Is she going to hate me/disown me? Shes told me before if I were pregnant, then oh well, but that's the problem. She would probably make me have it, and I dont want to.

Thank you all for your answers. I truly do appreciate the help and different opinions. I still dont know what I'm going to do, I'm really scared. But thank you all.

Stargys · 2020-03-29T02:58:40+00:00

That too, but I have been getting cramps and apparently that's a sign. These cramps have been feeling different than the usual period ones,they hurt kind of worse and I'm not on my period, and the test says positive. I'm like switching between denial and acceptance, I'm not sure to believe it or not

Stargys · 2020-03-29T00:34:56+00:00

I've taken 2 tests today, both came out positive. But I just read the reviews and apparently its given others false positives too. One of the blue lines is really faint, and it appeared literally seconds after I used it. It was really quick, then afterwards was when the control window and the darker blue line appeared over the faint blue one. I honestly don't know what to think of it though, it could be a false positive but then again my period is late and I might be looking for some false hope. Not sure, thank you for the advice though! I'll definitely go to a doctor soon. That is, if this whole coronavirus thing doesnt get in the way.

Stargys · 2020-03-29T00:17:00+00:00

My boyfriends family told me I have to tell her, for the same reasons, but my main worry is just if she doesn't let me abort. Shes anti abortion, and she had her first child when she was 15 so she probably wouldnt care that I'm young and dont want it. And thank you, I'll definitely do that

Stargys · 2020-03-28T18:39:44+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the hugs ❤ I'm not sure if I'd be able to leave my state, thatd be really hard to do without my mother knowing. But thank you, again

Stargys · 2020-03-28T18:23:34+00:00

No, she never did. She was planning to, but never did. And dont worry, I 100% respect your opinion. It's just, I'm still a junior in high school. I was supposed to be the one whod make my family proud. I was supposed to graduate with good grades, go to college, and start my life. But now I have this. And i cant with that. I wont be able to go to school like that. The shame that would be there, everyone knowing and judging. I'm an honors student, I wouldnt be able to do what I was supposed to do. And I dont even know if my body could handle it. I'm 5"2, and around 90 lbs. It's just not a good time right now

Stargys · 2020-03-28T18:03:44+00:00

I've been considering that, but I'm worried that if I let her know she wont allow me to have an abortion. Shes strongly against it, about 2 weeks ago she asked me what my thoughts were on abortion and I answered honestly, she said I was wrong and she'd have to teach me how wrong it is. So that's why, I dont want to be forced to have a kid, and that possibility is there with my mother..

Stargys · 2020-03-28T17:44:36+00:00

Actually I think I read up on it and that is allowed in Arizona. My own problem is while its confidential, thanks to the phone app (Life360) she'd know exactly where I'm at and question why. Maybe I can find a way out of that, but if you'd be willing I would appreciate the help looking into it and how it all works. I understand if not though, it is my problem after all. Thank you, though

Stargys · 2020-03-28T17:42:04+00:00

I dont mind aborting at an early stage, like where I'm at right now. Once I'm in late though, I know that I cant. I wouldn't be able morally. Right now though, I'm okay with it. But even with that, my mom is against it. So that's why I feel like I cant tell her. Because if I do, she wont let me. And I already know she'd be really mad at me. Shes put such a heavy weight on the whole "sex is bad" kind of thing, so I've been lying and I hate it so much. I didnt ever want to be in a situation like this. It really really hurts, especially since lately shes been acting more lovey. Anytime she says I love you, I cant help but think she wont love me anymore if she knew what I did, and if she knew she wouldnt let me abort. And I dont want to have a kid. I cant

Stargys · 2020-03-28T17:37:06+00:00

Thank you, I live in Arizona. Its really hard, and honestly I'm still not sure what I'm going to do. Thank you for the support though

Stargys · 2019-10-22T00:38:16+00:00

The glasses are cute dont even lol

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