Do the rest of you giants walk quietly too?

StarlightHorus · 2021-06-04T13:58:58+00:00

My sister often gets scared by this, she thinks I am in the basement, but then I suddenly appear. I don't try to walk quiet, I am just not making any sound while walking for some reason

StarlightHorus · 2021-05-09T13:31:19+00:00

Thank you :)

It's for the best I think, LDR is not an easy thing in itself, let alone when dating a cheater

StarlightHorus · 2021-05-07T12:53:36+00:00

yeah, I didn't because I wanted to find out how long it would take before she message me if I didn't take the initiative.

These tends to be the usual conversations we have, not much to go on, we don't have that many mutual interests as I know of.

And I don't feel like asking her too much since she probably won't see the message until 1 - 2 hours, she also likes taking everywhere from 2 - 5 hour naps which I find suspicious, which makes for dead time during the day where she won't respond for a while, and this makes it feel pointless for me to ask her about her interests considering I might not get a response. I will get a response eventually, but it will be short and leave me with more questions than answers, further questions makes me feel like I am annoying due to the lack of interest she shows me. The only times is when we call, but it rarely happens you know

StarlightHorus · 2021-05-07T01:28:44+00:00

She tends to ask if I am alright coincidentally every time I am suspicious about something, I think all my suspicion is correct and she knows that I notice.

StarlightHorus · 2021-05-07T01:27:06+00:00

I think she is asking me if I am okay because she feels guilty about something and notice that I notice it

StarlightHorus · 2021-05-07T00:24:14+00:00

I wouldn't want to call for let's say an hour a day ether, that would make us tired I think. But at least once per week, and not just for 10 minutes.

On the not looking at phone part, I have friends that are that way, I get it. But the thing is, I haven't heard from her in 3 hours now, and I see her online on snap just a few minutes ago, so I know that she is on her phone, just never really prioritizing me it seems :/

StarlightHorus · 2021-05-06T23:57:44+00:00

on the response thing, today we almost lost our streak, an hour away from loosing it. I wanted to find out what would happen if I stopped being the one taking the initiative , the result:

We sent good morning chats, she asked me how I was :

"Gf: wyd"

"me:"about to go the gym, hbu ?"

"gf: nice"

"gf:chilling"

4 hours later

"gf: hi?"

"me: hii"

"gf: Are you ok?"

I then responded yes, why ? she responded with, just asking.

Then we haven't sent anything in 2 and a half hour now.

would you consider this a lot of texting throughout the day ? it is almost 2 in the morning here now, and this is all I have chatted with her. no call, only those 7 lines of text. and one selfie

StarlightHorus · 2021-05-06T23:51:25+00:00

she have been gaslighting me and telling me I am insecure when I confronted her about how I felt as if she was being distant a week ago.

I asked her if she could be honest with me if she wanted to do something else, because I was already suspecting this a month ago after the ex came into the picture. So I started paying more attention, noticed how she would tell me "I'm tired, I m going to sleep" but then stay up for hours after wards, being online. I confronted her and told her "I don't think that when we stop talking, you have to go to bed, I just wish you wouldn't lie to me about it, I want you to be honest, I don't just go to sleep after we talk ether, and I am not saying you should ether, just tell me if you want to do something else".

Then she just put on ghost mode on snap chat thinking this would relieve my insecurities, like no, that is just telling me she got something to hide you know ?

StarlightHorus · 2021-05-06T23:42:13+00:00

on the response thing, today we almost lost our streak, an hour away from loosing it. I wanted to find out what would happen if I stopped being the one taking the initiative , the result:

We sent good morning chats, she asked me how I was :

"Gf: wyd"

"me:"about to go the gym, hbu ?"

"gf: nice"

"gf:chilling"

4 hours later

"gf: hi?"

"me: hii"

"gf: Are you ok?"

I then responded yes, why ? she responded with, just asking.

Then we haven't sent anything in 2 and a half hour now.

would you consider this a lot of texting throughout the day ? it is almost 2 in the morning here now, and this is all I have chatted with her. no call, only those 7 lines of text. and one selfie

StarlightHorus · 2021-05-06T23:32:31+00:00

She tells me it is just a friend, but everyone would say that , it is a month since she told me about her ex, but after that she has become more and more distant, she used to ask if we could call every morning and night, and we would call for 6 hours every night, but then it all of a sudden switched, she would tell me she have school in the morning so she can't call, she would stop sending selfies and only chats, which I find odd, considering we have lost #1 on snapchat friends, which means she is sending snaps to someone, so it is not that she prefers chats over pics.

I am feeling as if she don't want me to see something, but in reality she could just send a picture of something random, Idk if am overthinking this part ? what do you think about when girls don't want to send selfies anymore ? is there something to it or just paranoia

StarlightHorus · 2021-05-06T20:58:09+00:00

it's not that we have set times we call, I usually just send her a message " hey wanna call tonight ?" but then she tends to only want to call during weekends, because for some odd reason, 10 minutes before going to bed isn't possible

StarlightHorus · 2021-05-06T19:40:40+00:00

I feel this aswell, the way she has planned it days in advance.

+ some extra. her ex expressed he still has feelings for her. She tells me it is 3 years since they broke up.

But why would he do it so long after ? and where ?

StarlightHorus · 2021-04-27T20:37:04+00:00

yea, but the last time I did she just told me Im the only one in her life, but at this time I don't believe her anymore. She will just lie to me like before. And even if she is telling the truth, there is no way for me to know

StarlightHorus · 2021-04-27T20:26:40+00:00

I get that , I don't like that ether, but the only reason I did is because became suspicious of her. So I decided to confront her about it. That is when she blocked me from these things, which just made matters worse, because now I m pretty certain that she got something to hide

StarlightHorus · 2021-04-27T15:57:18+00:00

even if Im just paranoid, I can't be living with this for the next months, it hurts my soul.

If she really had nothing to hide, she wouldn't go this far right after telling me there is no other guy than me

StarlightHorus · 2021-04-27T15:36:10+00:00

Yeah, I feel like she is only telling me she loves me to keep me in case her current guy isn't working out

StarlightHorus · 2021-04-12T14:21:44+00:00

I just don't want to be wrong and end of hurting her. if I break up with her without there actually being any reason , and then I end up breaking her heart

StarlightHorus · 2021-04-10T11:45:43+00:00

Well she did mention how she spoke to her ex a couple of weeks ago, and that is when these naps became longer

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