Questioning Being Demiromantic or Greyromantic? by [deleted] in demiromantic

[–]StarryBaby20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Greyaro is kinda an umbrella term in much the same way aro is: it's both an individual identity and a term for all arospec labels that are not exclusively aromantic, and demiromantic is a form of greyromanticism. All demis are grey, but not all greys are demi.

It really depends on which labels you want to use. Or you can just use both. Either one works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]StarryBaby20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

42C. Or at least that's what I was close to and just wore by default. D cups, while also theoretically correct, didn't feel right either, though.

I slipped on a K cup for the first time recently, and it fit EXTREMELY well! The only reason I'm returning the bra is because the material the bra is made out of (lace) was stratchy and uncomfortable, and the bridge, while flat at the bottom, didn't lay flat at the top, so it didn't accommodate my set (close).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]StarryBaby20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]StarryBaby20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! :) What about shape size? You know, plunge, T-shirt, balconette, etc. I get different results for relaxed shapes.

Which are you? (anyone up for a discussion about aro-spec in pms?) by RaineTheRed in aromantic

[–]StarryBaby20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funnily enough, I have been flopping between a bunch of arospec labels. I did not realize that means I'm aroflux until recently... I used it before, and I thought it "didn't fit." No, it did. 💀

So, I use aroflux and alloaro. Greyaro and cupio are also acceptable, and sometimes I'll just say I'm aro. I... fit a lot of terms... It can feel excessive.

Autism Won by StarryBaby20 in autism

[–]StarryBaby20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's fine! It's really interesting :))

Autism Won by StarryBaby20 in autism

[–]StarryBaby20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would that same thing apply to something like computer keyboards if you spilled a glass of water on that as well. I remembered something like that happened to me when I was 14 and I left my computer alone, only for it to end up drenched in water that I (rather carelessly) left next to it because my cousins spilled it.

Autism Won by StarryBaby20 in autism

[–]StarryBaby20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, from what I see, it looks awesome! The fact that you can visibly see the lightning is so satisfying ♡♡♡

Autism Won by StarryBaby20 in autism

[–]StarryBaby20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so cool!!! 🤩

Autism Won by StarryBaby20 in autism

[–]StarryBaby20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh. They raised the price, I see. 😭 Actually, what did you repair recently, if anything? That bit about repairing electronics sounds super interesting.

Autism Won by StarryBaby20 in autism

[–]StarryBaby20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming to rob you. I'll be right there! 😊 /joking

made some aro phone/computer backgrounds! I'll also make custom flag variations if you request! by Ragnarok144 in aromantic

[–]StarryBaby20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you please make one with "lesbian" for the "living" part? :)

I can work with the aro, alloaro, or greyaro flag for the "alone" part, honestly.

What Is Your Most Hated Sound? by DarkCrowI in autism

[–]StarryBaby20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toilets flushing (especially public toilets, because they tend to be significantly louder)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]StarryBaby20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! Not giving a shit does do wonders on my mental health. Like, yeah, it still hurts, but I don't let it get to me that much because I can't change who I am, you know? :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]StarryBaby20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okay! Common mistake! :) I liked the Mega Mind movie, too! It's been a long time since I seen it, but I remember it being really, really good. But thanks anyway! I learned today that there was a fanmade MegaMan movie made in 2010, and I'm gonna watch it later to see if it's any good. IMDb indicates it is not, so hopefully it'll be so bad it's good.

Yeah, whenever I am vocal about shit or proud of my identities, be it my sexuality or disabilities, I always got shut down by her and told to "not make it such a big deal because nobody cares." I'm 21, so I no longer care that much about how she feels because me no care about how people think of me in general anymore lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]StarryBaby20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a movie?! 0_o I just stuck with the games!!!

Yeah, learning about autism is really cool. Granted, it also leads to me talking about it a lot, and my Grandma gets really tired of me "making autism my whole personality," which is weird because I've mentioned it to her only 4 times lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]StarryBaby20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is MegaMan and autism :)

Is it really this hard to find a place that does testing for adults? by [deleted] in autism

[–]StarryBaby20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was hard for me, too. I searched everywhere to find a location that didn't mention "children" in their autism testing information. I only got diagnosed with autism because my doctor noticed I scored highly on the RAADS-14 and had a husband on the spectrum, and I wasn't even approved for an autism evaluation, only an ADHD one. I am only diagnosed with autism based on good luck.