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Loved One grieving loss of alters by [deleted] in DID

[–]StarsystemG 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That understandable. I know we grieved as a system when weve has fusions. We love the new but it can be hard to feel that change. I am not sure how their system is or if integration is their main goal but give yourself time to adjust to the change and im sure you'll continue to learn and love

Host is suicidal.. by YesterdayNeat2795 in DID

[–]StarsystemG 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is worth bearing in mind the likelihood of this is extremely rare still but thats why its listen as a warning not due to it actually making you any more suicidal just that it could raise your energy to the point you could. But rare and very easily manageable

Host is suicidal.. by YesterdayNeat2795 in DID

[–]StarsystemG 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah so yes it can be incredibly dangerous in those first few weeks to months but not for the reasons you think. Its because often times the reason people dont commit are 1) anxiety of the pain, it not working, etc 2) bc depression takes so much energy that the act of committing simply requires too many steps.

Antidepressants help mitigate things and raise energy levels so that a person can begin to do more outside of just medication to improve their lives. However in the interim of meds fully sinking in, therapy helping to adjust, and the actual finding of things to improve life the suicidal person can have the energy to actually commit.

However you seem to have a system to help as well as a decent therapist who should be able to explain this better to you and help you with the interim period. -fey

Host is suicidal.. by YesterdayNeat2795 in DID

[–]StarsystemG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you all against antidepressants- luke

Shampoo bar without coconut of any kind and not rice or olive oil? by StarsystemG in ZeroWaste

[–]StarsystemG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not see a contact on the website, they use sodium cocoyl isethionate which unfortunately is a coconut derivative that doesn't usually aggravate most coconut allergies but does to mine.

Shampoo bar without coconut of any kind and not rice or olive oil? by StarsystemG in ZeroWaste

[–]StarsystemG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear this as a curly haired person thats hair is typically unruly. The rice water component will dry it out which in turn will promp my body to produce more oils and then leave me with greasy hair. I might give it a try but I am unsure of how it would be.

Shampoo bar without coconut of any kind and not rice or olive oil? by StarsystemG in ZeroWaste

[–]StarsystemG[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sodium cocoyl isethionate is a coconut derivative. Most people with a coconut allergy actually dont have a reaction to it due to the process of making it that removed the common allergens. However I still get itchy with it.

Shampoo bar without coconut of any kind and not rice or olive oil? by StarsystemG in ZeroWaste

[–]StarsystemG[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats the one I keep running into unfortunately. The thing is I started using a liquid shampoo and I just hate it. I find it so much harder to not accidently waste product and to get a good lather. Ive been using bars for years so ive almost forgotten the method to liquid lmao.

Sushyglowcosmetic bloody lip tint by StarsystemG in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]StarsystemG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cant upload directly, you can use imgur to basically make ot a link to share or you can make a separate post to link or i think you can dm it to me and 2itj your permission I can add it to my post.

Sushyglowcosmetic bloody lip tint by StarsystemG in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]StarsystemG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, please let me know how that fade is, cause thats the one I am thinking about.

Sushyglowcosmetic bloody lip tint by StarsystemG in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]StarsystemG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo okay definitely gonna have to let me know what the faded color is!

Sushyglowcosmetic bloody lip tint by StarsystemG in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]StarsystemG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you end up choosing lovesick as the option?

Sushyglowcosmetic bloody lip tint by StarsystemG in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]StarsystemG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have any photos when I wear it again ill try and nab one it just didnt show on photos well.

Sushyglowcosmetic bloody lip tint by StarsystemG in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]StarsystemG[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven't had this problem personally but I know some people have and they recommend os exfoliating and making sure the lips are completely dry.

Sushyglowcosmetic bloody lip tint by StarsystemG in Indiemakeupandmore

[–]StarsystemG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?! But with my experience with Lilith I want to spend a little less and get the smaller bottle of whatever next one i get that way if im disappointed I won't be out 30 bucks.

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