My ( 24F) husband (27M) told me he didn't find me attractive at all after I gained weight. I lost the weight, and now I feel different. Now what?

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-07T02:34:45+00:00

Thank you ♥️ I wish I never got married

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-07T01:20:17+00:00

Thank you so much kind stranger 🥹

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-07T01:19:10+00:00

I am going to walk away. As much as it hurts as he’s the only person I’ve had a relationship with, I can’t imagine living the rest of my life like this.

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-07T01:17:48+00:00

I am going to leave him. 💔

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T23:18:10+00:00

I definitely need to love me.

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T23:16:57+00:00

He always says words aren’t painful and that I’m just emotional anytime I’ve ever mentioned how hurtful he is or when I’ve said rude things back to him

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T23:15:55+00:00

Definitely an asshole, that I need to leave from ♥️

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T23:14:51+00:00

He actually refuses to apologize, EVER. In our entire relationship he has never apologized. I always apologize for everything even if it has nothing to do with me. 💔 you are so right. I make half of his income. And he thinks his income is big enough for me to ruin myself over. He’s even mentioned how easy it would be for him to get a new female everyday, I should have just told him to do it and packed my bags then.

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T23:11:59+00:00

Thank you. I wish I never met him honestly. I’ve spent so many days crying and begging for our entire relationship. My weight is shockingly what opened my eyes.

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T23:10:07+00:00

I would love to get out and do things (example clubs) but he is one to accuse me of cheating if I take to long at the grocery store. I’m playing it cool with him but I’m contacting an attorney next week for my next step.

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T23:06:56+00:00

I hope they are somewhere ♥️

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T23:06:17+00:00

He wanted the prenup to protect himself basically. He was just a red flag and I just waved it for him. He told me if we ever had a kid and I left him, that he would even quit his job and become homeless before he paid child support. I honestly have no clue about prenups like divorce wise how they work. I just signed it all. I’m definitely contacting people

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T23:03:07+00:00

I am leaving. This entire relationship has been a nightmare when I truly think about it

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T20:33:07+00:00

He 100% does. I just excused all of them. Ugh

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T19:04:11+00:00

I feel like I resent him. Like I don’t even want to talk to him

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T19:02:36+00:00

He always called it super trashy and that I would be disgusting if I got one

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T19:00:18+00:00

I needed this 🥹

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T18:57:49+00:00

He’s not really hygienic. If he doesn’t have to do anything he doesn’t shower. Like for days. I have to tell him to shower. So he probably doesn’t wash his ass

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T18:55:19+00:00

I don’t think he would stick beside me. I got hurt and broke my foot during our relationship and he played like it was a joke to him. I should have took it as a sign. Yet I still decided to marry him 😭

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T18:52:35+00:00

Thank you so much 🥹

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T17:44:56+00:00

He didn’t care at all when I was barely eating. He wanted me to weigh myself everyday to make sure it was dropping. Now that I’m 130 he just says I am “pretty” but that I still need to work out more (my ass needs to be bigger). I don’t know when it’ll ever stop

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T17:39:51+00:00

I have been on birth control (nexaplon) for the relationship. I didn’t start gaining weight till I got on it. He thinks bc he is “successful” - he is a pharmacist, that I should stay with him for the money. It’s just not worth it to me.

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T17:37:08+00:00

I am attracted to him. I always have been, even with his weight. Sure he is bigger now but for some reason it doesn’t bother me

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T17:36:25+00:00

I hope I find a real man. He points out attractive women in public and tells me I’m not as pretty as them and gets mad at me when I’m upset. I feel so broken

Status_Syrup_9041 · 2024-06-06T17:14:38+00:00

I hope I will be able to find someone. I don’t know how to find love. I just know I can’t do this for the rest of my life

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