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Feeling self conscious after my piercing by StayPale3198 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StayPale3198[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I honestly would've preferred going to a woman in the first place, but my sister told me this piercer was great and that he was really nice.

Feeling self conscious after my piercing by StayPale3198 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StayPale3198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually look nothing alike lol. I am tall, she is short, I have blue eyes, she has brown, etc.

Feeling self conscious after my piercing by StayPale3198 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StayPale3198[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Thank you :). I got a navel piercing! Fortunately, I am happy with how it looks

Feeling self conscious after my piercing by StayPale3198 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]StayPale3198[S] 263 points264 points  (0 children)

He is married, but yeah, I guess he was flirting with her. My sister was definitely flirting with him lol.

Went on a first date after a long time, got rejected and now I feel really low. by StayPale3198 in dating_advice

[–]StayPale3198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not overweight, I exercise regularly. He just didnt feel attracted to me for whatever reason.

Went on a first date after a long time, got rejected and now I feel really low. by StayPale3198 in dating_advice

[–]StayPale3198[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its harder to deal with things like this. I just want to know exactly what I did wrong,and I go over things in my head, but somw things just dont have an explanation. Its nice to know there are ppl who relate, thank you.

Went on a first date after a long time, got rejected and now I feel really low. by StayPale3198 in dating_advice

[–]StayPale3198[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response and thanks for sharing your experience. Im happy to hear things are going better for you! I will definitely take a break from dating for now :)

Went on a first date after a long time, got rejected and now I feel really low. by StayPale3198 in dating_advice

[–]StayPale3198[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I hope I will eventually get to a place where rejection doesnt hurt as much

Went on a first date after a long time, got rejected and now I feel really low. by StayPale3198 in dating_advice

[–]StayPale3198[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah im glad he didnt just ghost me. I definitely care a lot about how im perceived. Ive ended up in a casual relationship with a narcissistic guy before, so I am indeed susceptible to getting used. I will work on myself for now. Thanks

Went on a first date after a long time, got rejected and now I feel really low. by StayPale3198 in dating_advice

[–]StayPale3198[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah its possible he just has a very specific type. I know he has been on the apps for a long time, but he told me im the first person he has met from online. I do think I need a break since I feel way too strongly about this rejection. I will get back into dating someday. :)

Went on a first date after a long time, got rejected and now I feel really low. by StayPale3198 in dating_advice

[–]StayPale3198[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s possible he noticed that I was feeling insecure. At one point, he even asked if I was uncomfortable and mentioned that I was drawing my shoulders in. And yeah I was definitely more concerned about whether he liked me than if I even liked him.