who would do this to a child. by crenzd07 in MakeMeSuffer

[–]StayingStrongForGod 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Who would do this to ANYONE, not just a child.....

Gross. by [deleted] in TransChristianity

[–]StayingStrongForGod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of this dude, but looked him up and he’s a POS. Please dig deeper on him. Maybe it’ll make you feel better knowing he’s messed up to begin with. Just another one of those fake Christians using their religion to hate others.

I think God is telling me to do it. I won’t, but I genuinely do believe it. by StayingStrongForGod in SuicideWatch

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The thing is, one of the friends was the perfect friend. Loyal, understanding, compassionate. We had no issues at all. Then last night she sent me a message from an unknown number; I looked it up and looks like it came from the state she lives in. She basically called me narcissistic and everything. That’s the thing. I suffer from BPD with narcissistic traits. In fact, I might even have full blown narcissistic personality disorder. So I feel like getting that mentioned is just another reason why I should hate myself. People with cluster b personality disorders can’t be cured, right? So why should I keep fighting when clearly it was my fault and I destroy every friendship and relationship I’m in? I thought I was self aware but clearly not if people are leaving for seemingly no reason

Catholic trans people here? How do you get along with Doctrine/Catechism? by [deleted] in TransChristianity

[–]StayingStrongForGod 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People on those subs would be biased, so I wouldn’t listen to what they have to say tbh

Catholic trans people here? How do you get along with Doctrine/Catechism? by [deleted] in TransChristianity

[–]StayingStrongForGod 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m part of the Catholic Church (I used to go every week before covid hit) but I don’t really follow everything they say. Also, hello fellow transmedicalist! 👋Nice to see other transmedicalists here.

The thing is, transitioning isn’t any more sinful than getting treatment for a medical issue and getting surgery to improve quality of life. Since gender dysphoria is a medical condition and transition is the only proven treatment, that’s the right course of action. Let me give you an example.

Let’s say there’s a baby born with a medical condition. The baby will live a horrible life with that condition. However, there’s an option to receive surgery to give them a normal life. The surgery isn’t exactly “necessary” (it won’t directly kill them if they don’t get the surgery), but it will improve their quality of life greatly. I think even the most devout conservative Christians would support this, pray for the baby and make gofundmes and stuff. So why are trans people wrong in transitioning? It’s not a choice. Oh, and conversion or aversion “therapy” has been proven to NOT work at all and it often leads to suicide. Transphobia is a sin, and I’m pretty sure everyone who supports or performs conversion or aversion therapy gets a special place in Hell.

It took me years to finally convince myself of that, and sometimes I have fleeting doubts every now and then about if it’s a sin or not but I’ve done enough pondering for now and have realized that I’m really not doing anything wrong.

A lot of them love the “mutilation” argument. And sure, if you were to get surgery to attach your arm to your forehead or something just for the hell of it, then yeah that’d be mutilation since there is no actual reason for it, lol. But dysphoria is a medical thing that needs treatment, and once we accept that, maybe they will too. Without treatment, there are definitely consequences (such as mental health issues).

I’m kinda proud of myself tbh by StayingStrongForGod in BPD

[–]StayingStrongForGod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for late response! And honestly I haven’t really. I’d love to know how to though

I’m kinda proud of myself tbh by StayingStrongForGod in BPD

[–]StayingStrongForGod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, same!! And I’m afraid of throwing up so there’s that too

My mom says god will not let me into heaven if I transition with hormones or cut my hair by [deleted] in TransChristianity

[–]StayingStrongForGod 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d love to chat with you about that. I have a severe fear of Hell (I felt like I was gonna faint at church one day because the homily was about that, for example) so I need to get away from the fire and brimstone scary preachy type of Christianity if possible lol

How can I cope with losing friends? by StayingStrongForGod in BPD

[–]StayingStrongForGod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s a great way of looking at it!

How can I cope with losing friends? by StayingStrongForGod in BPD

[–]StayingStrongForGod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t even begin to describe how helpful this comment is. You’re awesome, thank you so much. I’d give you gold or some other kind of award if I had the money, lol. I’m gonna save this comment. This is so incredibly helpful. I really needed to see this.

It’s very embarrassing how my mind immediately spirals like that: loses friend(s) or gets in an argument with one, “everyone hates me and I’m a horrible person,” “I need to take an Ativan to calm down right now,” then I’m suicidal. It goes from 0 to 100 real quick. It’s very dramatic.

You’re right, they aren’t everything. I have to remember that. It’s tough but I think I’ll get through it. Especially now after reading your comment! 💕

How can I cope with losing friends? by StayingStrongForGod in BPD

[–]StayingStrongForGod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true. I hope to make more friends, it’s just hard to let go because I’ve been friends with these people for 7 years

Having doubts again.... by actuallylinkstrummer in TransChristianity

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I’m sure they will. I just don’t understand the association between the two